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Ask Asad: I want to end my seven year long career in civil services but am scared of the future
A bad job does not equal a bad life, jobs are only a small slice of the pie
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Dear Asad: Should I quit my job to pursue my father's business?
Few businesses turn a profit in their first few years of operation
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Dear Asad: Should I just stay his 'friend'?
If you can’t marry each other then there is no point in keeping in touch with him
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Ask Asad: How do I overcome the constant sullenness of everyday life?
Everyone goes through the occasional blues but if it continues, then probably you suffer from depression or anxiety
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Ask Asad: My health doesn't allow me to stay alone in Australia but I don't want to live with my family
Life is full of compromises and everyone has to make them, sooner or later in life
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Ask Asad: My husband wants to end our marriage, how do I convince him against it?
It is true that many a times we don’t really appreciate or are grateful for someone in our life till they are gone
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Ask Asad: How do I deal with severe depression and suicidal thoughts?
One excellent way of working your way through depression and conquering it is to put it outside of yourself
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Ask Asad: I have a constant fear of losing my wife and my child. How do I overcome this?
Religion can help you develop spiritually and bring you peace and accept the reality of life
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Ask Asad: Am I going to be cheating on my late fiancé if I decide to move on and marry someone else?
Sometimes we feel guilty about being able to re-establish a normal life after the death of a loved one
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Ask Asad: My mother doesn't like my choice of a potential life partner, what should I do to convince her?
Financial discrimination is common in our society and is the root cause of stress and upheaval in many homes
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Ask Asad: Am I wrong if I want more time from a person I am seeing for marriage?
The saying that actions speak louder than words is never truer than in a relationship
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Ask Asad: I don't want to marry my cousin because she isn't pretty!
It makes complete sense to marry a person of one's choice, and not marry the one we don’t like or don’t want...
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Ask Asad: Should I quit everything and go back to Pakistan?
When we want to quit something, we normally try to find a reason that would justify our quitting it
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Ask Asad: Did I make the wrong decision by returning back to Pakistan from Europe?
No matter how hard life seems, never ever give up hope and think of suicide
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Ask Asad: I am obsessed with excessive cleaning, does that make me psychotic?
OCD sufferers experience anxiety from their triggers, which is why they feel compelled to engage in certain behaviours
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Ask Asad: Is it okay to marry a man who is 19 years older than me and already married with kids?
May-September relationships (where the man is significantly older than the woman) have their own special challenges.
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Ask Asad: How do I accept the fact that my marriage is over?
Working on acquiring healthy life habits will help you start to feel mentally more stable and physically stronger
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Ask Asad: I want to opt out of MBBS but I am scared I'll disappoint my parents. Please help
Majority of us have to struggle with changes in our life that major studies like MBBS demand and bring along
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Ask Asad: How do I tell my father that he only has six months left to live?
When one is hit with the realisation that they have limited time left to live, they make drastic changes in life
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Ask Asad: I am married with a child and have a habit of falling for other men, how do I overcome this?
It is human nature that when we dream, we normally dream about events and people that would make us happy
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Ask Asad: I feel lonely as I find opening up to people difficult. How do I overcome this fear?
In our culture younger siblings are often thought of not having as much sense or reasoning as elder siblings
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Ask Asad: I love a girl for the past eight years, but want to get settled before approaching her. Should I wait more?
Admiring someone from afar without knowing them is perhaps infatuation, and not necessarily love
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Ask Asad: I made a mistake and it may have ruined my career. Please help
I love being a working woman and was happy with my job, but it had one negative aspect – my boss
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Ask Asad: My married cousins look down upon me because I am single at 30. Is it my fault?
Everyone asks me the same question, every now and then: 'When are you getting married?'
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Ask Asad: My old parents want to live with me but I don’t get along with my father – what should I do?
In my opinion, he was never a good father to me and my siblings or a good husband to my mother
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Ask Asad: I am a 55-year-old widower without children – how do I tell my siblings I don’t want to marry again
Even the thought makes me sick; it feels as if I would be cheating on my dear, departed wife.
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Ask Asad: How to deal with negativity at workplace?
I like my job but many of my coworkers are always grumbling and complaining about something or the other
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Ask Asad: I'm a 16-year-old smoker – how do I quit?
At first, it was one cigarette per week but as of now, it is four cigarettes per day
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Ask Asad: Should I leave Pakistan to escape terrorism or stay with my parents?
I don’t want to give up on my dream of living some place far from deaths and injuries
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Ask Asad: How do I tell my dad I don’t want to become an engineer?
I want to be an entrepreneur but according to my dad, business subjects are only for incompetent students
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Ask Asad: I believe my son committed suicide because of me
Had I not forced my decisions on him, he would still be alive.
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Ask Asad: What should I do about my cheating husband?
I want to leave him but I am afraid he will take me to court for slander and get custody of my daughter.
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Ask Asad: My father is a compulsive gambler – how do I help him quit?
Our family has earned a bad reputation and we live in stress because of my father’s gambling addiction
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Ask Asad: Am I unfit for marriage because I am fat?
My ex always criticised me for my weight and often said he cannot introduce me to his family because I am ‘bulky’.
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Ask Asad: I reported sexual harassment and now fear backlash – what should I do?
I know I have not done anything wrong but I am afraid my harassers will come back to hurt me
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Ask Asad: I was forcefully married to my abusive cousin – what should I do?
I want to end this relationship but my family wants me to compromise and live with it
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Ask Asad: My 'Facebook boyfriend' wants me to send him nude photos – what should I do?
I belong to a religious family and I don't find this act appropriate
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Ask Asad: I am in an illicit relationship with my uncle’s wife – how do I end it?
I also have a girlfriend who I love and plan to marry in December next year
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Ask Asad: How to deal with grief when a family member goes missing?
My brother was picked up a year ago for reasons unknown and we don’t know his whereabouts since then
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Ask Asad: I pay women for sex - how do I stop?
The first time I paid a sex worker was in 2014 when I broke up with my girlfriend
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Ask Asad: I fell for a man from a different sect - how do I move on?
You should move on because he’s not coming back
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Ask Asad: Should I divorce my cruel husband after 16 years of marriage?
Please do understand the grave and full consequences of a divorce
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Ask Asad: I have panic attacks and once tried to kill myself – what should I do?
There are several steps of self-care that you can take in order to help care for yourself
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Ask Asad: Should I marry a stranger just because my parents want me to?
For any relationship to work there needs to be four vital ingredients