Hayden Panettiere ex Brian Hickerson reacts to memoir and disturbing abuse revelations

Actor said revisiting past events has been difficult but believes in public discussion of abusive relationships

Hayden Panettiere’s ex partner Brian Hickerson has responded publicly to her new memoir This Is Me: A Reckoning, which details allegations of domestic abuse during their on and off relationship between 2018 and 2022.

In a recent interview, Hickerson addressed passages in the book that describe incidents of alleged violence and emotional turmoil. He acknowledged that reading the memoir was difficult but said he believes it is important for stories about abusive relationships to be discussed openly. His comments come after Panettiere’s book revisited a period that included multiple arrests connected to domestic violence allegations and a court sentence in 2021 that resulted in jail time and probation.

The memoir outlines what Panettiere has described as a deeply traumatic chapter of her life, detailing cycles of reconciliation and separation during the relationship. Hickerson, while not disputing the seriousness of the subject matter being discussed, focused parts of his response on specific memories referenced in the book, including an incident in which he recalled making a threatening remark during an argument while intoxicated.

He also said that he believes greater education around domestic violence could help prevent similar situations in the future, suggesting that he lacked understanding of abusive behaviour earlier in life. His remarks included a reflection on personal accountability, though he also defended aspects of his conduct during the relationship, saying such incidents are more common than often acknowledged.

Panettiere has not publicly responded to Hickerson’s latest interview. In her memoir, she describes the relationship as one marked by instability and fear, and has previously spoken about the lasting emotional impact it had on her life and career. The actress, known for roles in Heroes and Nashville, has increasingly focused on recovery and rebuilding her public and personal life in recent years.

Hickerson also commented on his current efforts to remain sober, stating that he has been attending recovery meetings and working to address substance use issues. He claimed that he has spoken with Panettiere recently, although he acknowledged uncertainty about the future of their relationship and suggested that reconciliation is unlikely.

The renewed attention around the memoir has sparked wider conversation online about domestic violence, accountability and how public figures address past relationships in media interviews and autobiographical works. Supporters of Panettiere have praised her willingness to speak openly, while others have focused on Hickerson’s response and the broader implications of publicising personal history involving abuse allegations.