It has become a useless routine to condemn the most ghastly acts of violence and injustice in Pakistan. For many, these are daily occurrences and thus the levels of desensitisation have grown. So has the brutalisation of society, when it adapts to some bare facts and upholds and sometimes celebrates the worst of what constitutes custom, tradition or ‘culture’. What else would explain the fact that there were dozens of passerby near the Lahore High Court — known for its imposing architecture and not the delivery of justice now — who silently witnessed the death of a woman scorned for choosing her partner? Worse, the police did not intervene either. This has become the norm with what we know as the ‘state’ in Pakistan. It chooses to remain indolent, indifferent and even complicit at times. This has left the citizen vulnerable. The weaker you are, the more chance there is of your life meaning absolutely nothing.
A few weeks ago, I underwent the worst of nightmares. Seeking help on a roadside with two wounded men: one almost dead and the other struggling to stay conscious. My romanticism for my own country was shattered on that fateful night of March 28. I am privileged and lucky that I escaped a brutal, unsung death but a life was lost. A large crowd had gathered to ogle at the blood sport but none of them was willing to help in taking a near-dead body out of the car. On a busy street, no car was willing to stop to take my injured driver to the hospital. Farzana’s death and her calls for help have only reopened my wounds — far from healed and as painful as before. This state of our society, drunk on honour, pride, ghairat and other medieval notions of self-worth, has crossed all tolerable levels of dysfunction. Yes, two girls were also hanged, allegedly gang-raped in India, and crimes against women are prevalent in other societies as well. But, at least, there is collective uproar, pressure on the governments and results.
In our case, it took the prime minister 48 hours after the event to take ‘notice’ and to date, the head of the Punjab government, otherwise celebrated for his style of governance, to even condemn the barbarity in a city that he intends to turn into Paris. With all the Metro Buses and fast rails, twisted highways and expensive underpasses, there seems to be a breakdown of the social fabric. Wanton violence and a high-level tolerance of lethal outfits, their affiliates and dozens of ‘sleeper cells’, make a mockery of the shining Punjab story.
Farzana’s case represents all that is wrong with us: from the misuse of a faith-based legal system that ‘forgives’ the murderer, to embedded misogyny and the stark absence of a ‘state’ that is supposedly there to arbiter citizen protection and welfare. Farzana’s husband had murdered his first wife to marry her. Her sister also became reportedly a victim of honour killing and nearly 1,000 women reportedly are killed in the name of custom and tradition that is founded on a spectator sport where women, minorities and the marginalised are killed with impunity.
Take the case of Dr Mehdi Ali, an American-Pakistani doctor volunteering in Pakistan. He was shot dead in front of his family (a child included) with more than 10 bullets. And the high and mighty of this land cannot even acknowledge that he was gunned down since he was an adherent of a faith that Pakistan’s political and religious elite shunned through a constitutional edict. Exactly 40 years ago, Pakistan’s state officialised discrimination on the basis of faith by declaring the Ahmadiyya community non-Muslim. Sadly this happened under a civilian government backed by a political consensus. Dr Mehdi Ali’s murder and the brazen killing of nearly 90 Ahmadis in 2010 are but a continuum of what was decided by our elected leaders, the religious guides and of course, sections of the press. To say that killers don’t get apprehended or punished in these cases is to in fact miss the larger picture. They cannot be in a society that has been engineered by the state since the 1970s. This is why condemning an Ahmadi’s murder is somehow viewed as approving of their faith by the hardliners. Hate speech is no longer recognised as such. It is the norm, the correct worldview in a collective quest for mythical ‘purity’.
There is cleansing underway now except that it has engulfed everyone in it. Shia genocide, attacks on Christians and Hindus, targeting of Sufi shrines, almost everyone is a target of the rival armed advocate of a puritanical ideology. Have we even debated on the increased use of mob justice from cases of alleged blasphemy cases to the lynching of young men declared guilty without trial in Sialkot in 2010, and to instances of petty theft on streets. Injustice and inequities fuel this fire and those at the helm remain busy in pursuing the most trivial power games, played time and again in the sordid political history of Pakistan.
Many have asked for arrests, others have demanded suo-motu notice to push Farzana’s case. The few dozen ‘civil society’ activists are busy chanting the decades-old slogans. All of this has been tried with no results. Mukhtaran Mai could not get ‘complete justice’ despite the suo motu, the highest level of judicial intervention. And in the presence of discriminatory laws, how will victims of honour crimes even think of justice?
There is something even more troubling at work. And it has to with the abdication of state responsibility. It is simply a breakdown of the fragile postcolonial citizen-state relationship. Whether Pakistan’s moth-eaten political parties and its truncated democratic process have the capacity to re-craft that relationship is unclear. Thus far, the signs are not encouraging.
Published in The Express Tribune, May 31st, 2014.
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@SM: Islam is the root of all problems in Pakistan and the entire world. We need to eliminate this Cancer from the World. Pakistan should be a secular society. Religion and State should always be separate. Unless we recognize this difference we will always have problems in the society.
@Ajamal:
And Sir, how do you root out the problems which is facing India, which has the largest population of illetrates on this planet? If you have the answer, then please contact the UNO!!
Rex Minor
There is no law in Pakistan, even judiciary and police watch innocent people die at their doorsteps.But Pakistani minister Chuadhary Nisar is busy in cooperating with England in Imran Farooqs murder, he doesnt what happened to Farzana Parveen.
Canot keep your story about 'Miss' Farzana straight can you? If she was abducted as you claim in a latter post, how then can she be accused of bringing 'dishonor' to her family? It is Iqbal the kidnapper towards whom your ire should be directed - right? But he is free despite having murdered his previous life using Qisas and Diyat laws.
In any case, Farzana was an adult and married and per her lawyer the reason for her appearance in the courts was to dispute the claim by her father that she was abducted and confirm that she had married Iqbal of her own free will.
@Ajamal: The lawyers who feted Qadri were neither poor nor illiterate, nor was Bhutto who introduced the 2nd amendment criminalising worship of Ahmadis, nor was Zia who introduced a slew of regressive laws, nor are members of CII Pakistan who insist that primaryy evidence for rape has to be testimon of 4 good men, knowing perfectly well that such an absurd requirement makes it almost impossile for a woman to register a rape case.
@Ajamal:
Well said Sir, now tell the fellow readers on ET how come this does not come to the minds of many who are all displaying the stregnth of their backbones but not making use of the big brain that they also have! The countries of the subcontinent are living in the 21st century but with the psyche of the 19th century, two lost centuries in occupation is apparently preventing them to make a break from the Babylonian prison.
Rex Minor
@John B:
John the Baptist has lost nothing in Pakistan! I am not a citizen nor the resident of Pakistan. There is a saying in my part of the world, Kinder statt Inder( have children instead of allowing Indian immigration)! Have a nice day.
Rex Minor
All those who wonder what has gone wrong in Pakistan, please read @Rex Minor's comments. The answer will be self evident.
Root cause of all problems is "illiteracy" and "ignorance".
Referring to Mukhtaran Mai's case: I was a student in 2011 when we had a discussion in the classroom. It still hurts me when I recall how one of the student's (male) said that Mukhtaran had personal clashes with that gang and she took revenge by calling them her rapists - what a pathetic assumption. I was shocked at such a statement and rose up asking how a woman can take revenge through such means? My own teacher who is a woman, snubbed my statement instantly calling my behaviour a "gender bias". Our society is mentally plagued, let alone men even women have such an attitude towards these social crimes.
@Newbie:
Sir, you are blowing too much hot air! All western countries constitutions reflect the values of the Ibrahimic religion, whereas its Governments and administrations are secular and no longer controlled by the powerful Church. It was Hitler and Mussolini, who entered into a concord with the Vatican to establish the first secular Governments in Europe.
Rex Minor
@p r sharma
Your knowledge of english is very poor. Besides, the deceased is no longer married to the indicted murderer of his first wife, who later abducted Miss Farzana, according to her father and fiance and the case was under consideration of the High court. It would appear that in Pakistan Murder is not a crime against the State, but against the individual whose so called loved ones can forgive. Yours and the authors rhetoric about the lack of civil courage is regrettable and is a sad reality, present in most advanced countries of the world.
Rex Minor
what state !!??
@Feroz: This is the practical solution. We have seen, are seeing, and will see the "Damnation of Democracy," just to keep our distorted vision of civilian rule alive and kicking. Even our military made limited gains after seizing power, and the only one to have changed the face of Pakistan was the late President Ayub Khan. We must have simplicity and humility. Salams
Nothing new here. The state died when laws were passed, without any thought about whether they would or could be implemented fairly. Now these laws are being abused by all and sundry and a fair debate cannot be held for fear of religious blackmail.
@Rex Minor: Repeatedly calling Farzana as miss instead of Mrs is a distortion of facts to divert the issue. Even her decision to marry a man who was convicted of murdering his first wife and freed in the court by paying blood money may not augur well but that does not in any way undermine the barbaric crime of stoning to death. Also a crowd of mere onlookers witnessing the murder in the urban area in broad daylight does signal the minds of the society at large.
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@King: Indeed it is a very well written piece, a la RR style! His usual narrative about the host of violence incidents occurring in Pakistan communities. The case of late Miss Farzana, the poor victim is more complex. She brought dishonour to her father and mother, to the family and the community as well as the country.(Though shall honour your father and mother, Gods commandmennt to Moses), by having an affair with the man who murdered his first wife, to be able to marry Miss Farzana, and then made a daring attempt to intervene in the trial of her husband and met her death at the hands of her father and brothers, so is recorded in the PRESS. In other words no one else other than the family of Miss Farzana and the convicted murderer is involved in this sordid and macabre affair, neither the Police nor the judiciary or the public at large had the opportunity to intervene in the family drama which came to its climax in front of the high court. Let us leave the church in the village as the saying goes, and wish God speed investigations,
Rex Minor
@SM: I beg to differ, it IS a matter of faith for a swathe of people including politicians in this country that women are property of their wali and that they must not be allowed to exercise choice in their marriage, for love or for any other reason, if it conflicts with her family's wishes.
@SM: I beg to differ, it IS a matter of faith for a swathe of people including politicians in this country that women are property of their wali and that they must not be allowed to exercise choice in their marriage, for love or for any other reason, if it conflicts with her family's wishes.
Stop blaming faith - it has nothing to do with this murder. The problem is with law enforcement and with the people who killed this innocent women - who violated their norms, not their religion.
Rumi needs to stop this stuff inciting people against religion.
Rumi sahab... in this article's TITLE (no less!) you have stated ".. and the death of the state" ... but did you not just "VALIDATE" it (the state, presumably "Pakistan"?) in your recent (I believe previous in fact) article -- something about Mr. Jinnah, Two-Nation-Theory et al...? If in a week or so decent chaps like you go from 'validation' to 'death', only one word comes to mind: schitzophrenia (sorry to say, but true) ... May God Bless you all... nothing more to be said.
@sidjeen: Rahul is correct. The article he refers to is here: http://tribune.com.pk/story/709711/pakistan-is-not-afraid-of-modis-win/ Frankly as a fan of Raza Runi i was surprised and disappointed o read that article which was based on disgorted information and stereotypes.
With his customary elegance, Raza Rumi articulates our collective feelings succinctly. With each outrage...and it is almost a daily occurrence now... the State is in its death throes. We are at the stage where Farzana Parveen was, when the last bricks were thrown at her...battered, bloodied and in so much pain that one more blow didn't make a difference.
Pakistan has become an ANARCHIC state. Kenneth Waltz theory suits to Pakistan.
Plz be corrected! society follows leaders And not the other way around Media is selling a wrong logic, Media always dilutes the root cause by blaming the society. Media made CM Punjab a symbol of Good Governance, just because he wakes up early and works late and takes notices, build everything possible in Lahore from Punjabs budget.
Its Bad Governance, Bad Governance needs someone to activate state machinery to act while in case of Good Governance state machinery activates automatically once a crime happens.
Raza 1st time mentioned such thing in his article. U need to be more vocal and let people know what is Good Governance and whats Bad Governance.
Thanks at least for beginning to open up in right direction
@rex minor
If your assumption about Hindu culture were true, then more women would be stoned on India than Pakistan . Please check which holy book sanctions stoning of women .
@Rahul,
Have you spent sometimes introspecting a secular nation like yours? I don't see secularism preventing rape, murder, genocide, ethnic cleansing, killing of reporters, bomb blast, uprising, or the election of a fascist in India. What contributes to those: the idea of India or the idea of secularism? If the latter, try to get rid of secularism. If the former, may I suggest to get rid of that too.
The picture is so, so dismal and I have a feeling that the KIND of ISLAM we are brandishing is not going to save us.
@King:
Indeed it is a very well written piece, a la RR style! But facts are more precious than his usual narrative about the host of violence incidents occurring in Pakistan communities. Miss Farzana, the poor victim brought dishonour to her father and mother, to the family and the community as well as the country.(Though shall honour your father and mother, Gods commandmennt to Moses), by having an affair with the man who murdered his first wife, to be able to marry Miss Farzana, and then made a daring attempt to intervene in the trial of her husband and met her death at the hands of her father and brothers, so is recorded in the PRESS. In other words no one else other than the family of Miss Farzana and the convicted murderer has been involved in this sordid and macabre drama. neither the Police nor the judiciary or the public at large had the opportunity to intervene in the affair of a family. Let us leave the church in the village as the saying goes.
Rex Minor
@Rex Minor This is a very important observation. We needs to complete the goals of true Islam. The common people still have many hindu rituals and belief. We are ridiculed by our Arab brothers from not being true to Islam. We need to root them out and put in place a Caliphate where rule of Islam reigns from Morocco to Indonesia.
Its indeed a very well written piece, summarizing the mammoth issue very articulately and effectively. But I want to edit the word 'brutal' from the first sentence because a murder is always 'brutal'.
As you experienced that nobody helped you to get your dead companion out of the car.I experienced when C.J was requested to help to get a judicially killed dead body out of the court but he referred to another door but did not take notice. Farzana is lucky enough that notice has been taken to please someone.Taking notice has ruined the system but could not improve it.( the comment bases on document not a politice)
@Chaudhry Z. Ahmad:
I have got good news for you Sir, Pakistan is a so called muslim majority country per say but its culture more or less dominated by the ancient Indian Hindu culture, its constitution and colonial laws not fully inconform with values of Islam. It has secular elites and its religious institutions cannot develope because of the dark forces of neo-liberal secularist ideologies.
Rex Minor
@Rao Amjad Ali:
Absolutely agreed. In fact we do better on a majority of fronts than our neighbour to the East. Take scholarly papers published per capita, etc. etc.
Although this is in no way a justification for such behavior, for the passersby who stand around to watch such debacles, the fear of getting involved is a very real factor.
I'll give you a small, more common example: in case of a road accident here in Karachi, passersby gather around the site and call an ambulance instead of getting the victim to the hospital immediately themselves because they're afraid that relatives of the patient will blindly attack them for the death of the victim.
@Rahul, i read every article Raza Rumi posts in ET and he never wrote an article to that effect. you are probably referring to an article another writer wrote. Raza Rumi's last article was a tribute to Rashid Rehman.
Sir,
What you have described in this OpEd certainly validates the 2 nation theory - at least as far as Pakistan goes. At the essence of the theory is intolerance for those that are different. After all acknowledging that Hindus and Muslims are different did not require partition. The logic was that since Hindus and Muslims are different they cannot live together.
On the other hand, in the supposed 'Hindu extremist' Modi's cabinet there are 5 women - of which 3 are non-Hindus. This is the same Modi whose election you said justified TNT.
is this the invalidation of Jinnah's two nation theory ?
Well said Mr. Rumi, worst part is the deathly silence! There are a few sane voives such as Rumi but rest of the country, silent. If this silence means consent or refusal to acknowledge a crime has been committed, then we are doomed.
For a 65 year old country which has gone through a series of wringers that regressed its democracy movement, Pakistan has done fairly well on almost all fronts! Grotesque as it is, Farzana's case is an aberration not a norm!
The social fabric of Pakistan is remains tightly knit and an overwhelming majority of Pakistanis have liberal leanings, not quite to the extent that they obtain in Gilgit-Baltistan or parts of Sindh, but if you get a chance to mingle with the salt-of-the-earth in large swathes of rural Pakistan, you are bound to come away with a different impression.
Scrap the Constitution and replace it with a secular one, should be the starting point for any plan of action.
Who does not know all that the writer is trying to retell?
What is happening is not the real problem. Can any one suggest a practical solution?
The real problem is that we want to live in the 21st Century with our gaze fixed at 7th.
@Rahul: Crimes against women justified on basis of archaic feudal mindset is not just confined to Pakistan, it exists in India on a far more extensive scale. Whether it is gruesome gang rape of a medical student in India, or the recent gang rape of two Dalit sisters there, or the brutal stoning to death of Farzana in Lahore, this has got nothing to do with religion, but relates to sick mindset of those at helm in both countries, the attitude of law enforcement agencies, lower judiciary, our bureaucracy and those we elect. It is unfortunate that male chauvinist pigs justify rape, killing of untouchable females in India, as they justify similar brutalities in Pakistan on basis of customs. Rape is used as a weapon by military in Occupied Kashmir, with minimal punishments for those perpetrating such a heinous crime. It is time the countries of sub continent indulge in self assessment, if we hope to rectify and curb these injustices.
@Rahul: My earlier reply assumed the author must have written what @Rahul suggested in his comments. But a reading of the previous article doesn't even remotely allude to what @Rahul is alleging the author wrote. Sorry for @Rahul!
@Rahul: Good point and a timely reminder. It begs an explanation from the writer of the article,
Beautifully written.
No doubt the ‘moth-eaten’ political parties truncated democratic processes can’t be absolved of the burden of responsibility toward the well-being and safety of the citizenry, but please don’t forget the real cause that is - excessive religiosity, prevalent fake piety and increasing influence of the religious figures over the populace that sanctions and attaches the ‘sacredness’ to such acts of barbarism. Can any govt. in the prevailing situation even think of executing the killer of Punjab governor Salman Taseer? Remember things in Pakistan will never change until the thinking and attitudes of those living in Pakistan change.
@Rahul: Good thing if you worry about India. There will be less confusion for you. This is not your country.to worry about.
@Rahul:
Pakistan was not created Sir, on the basis of religion; instead the Indian territory was split into two, one comprising muslim majority and the other of the Hindu majority. The vision for Pakistan was to create a democracy on the basis of Islamic values, not a Khalifa State per say.
Rex Minor
Nicely written but nothing would change. We have fallen so low that victim would accuse the person who steps forward to help. Only option left is to watch and wait for the worst.
So I am confused. In your last article you said that Modi's election validated the two nation theory and you felt fortunate to live in a moslem country. What you are writing today is just a natural progression for a nation created on the basis of religion. So why complain! you should be rejoicing.
Harrowing... it reads like a russian novel stating the facts of utopia that has become a dystopia. Only this is VERY REAL! May Allah have mercy on us... as people and as persons... in this life and the one coming, for our sins are unforgivable.