Pamela Anderson says she’s not in a good place with Tommy Lee: "I wish we had a better rapport"

Pamela Anderson reveals her relationship with Tommy Lee remains strained, expressing regret over lack of rapport.


Pop Culture & Art January 10, 2025
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Pamela Anderson has opened up about her current relationship with ex-husband Tommy Lee, revealing that they are not in a good place. During a recent appearance on SiriusXM's Andy Cohen Live to promote her new movie The Last Showgirl, Pamela Anderson, 57, admitted that she and her ex-husband Tommy Lee, 62, have not been in touch as frequently as they were in the past. Host Andy Cohen, 56, brought up the topic while discussing the former couple’s two sons.

“Forgive me — is Brandon’s dad Tommy?” Cohen asked while talking about how The Last Showgirl director Gia Coppola initially reached out to Anderson through her eldest son, Brandon Thomas Lee, 28. Anderson clarified, “Both of them are. Same father,” referring to Brandon and her younger son, Dylan Jagger Lee, 27.

When Cohen inquired whether she and Mötley Crüe drummer Lee still had a good relationship, Anderson replied, “I mean, we used to talk a lot more. Not recently, unfortunately, but you know, I wish we did have a better rapport right now.”

The former couple, who share two sons, Brandon and Dylan, were married from 1995 to 1998. Their tumultuous relationship, including their infamous stolen private tape, has been well-documented and even dramatized in Hulu's miniseries Pam & Tommy.

Photo: Jeffrey Mayer/WireImage
Photo: Jeffrey Mayer/WireImage

Tommy Lee, who is now married to social media influencer Brittany Furlan, has not publicly commented on Anderson’s statements. The two have had sporadic interactions over the years, but it appears that rebuilding a cordial relationship remains elusive.

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