Trans transforming young lives

In the labyrinthine alleys of Ibrahim Hyderi, amidst the scent of saltwater and the hum of daily life, a centre radiates hope and transformation. Here, Kamran, affectionately known as Kami, and his friend, Ali, are rewriting the script for the transgender community in the country's male-dominated society.

At the tender age of 25, Kami stands as a pillar of inspiration at a local centre in Ibrahim Hyderi, a fishing community on the edge of the teeming metropolis of millions of people. Young girls from diverse backgrounds gather to learn the art of beautification, all under Kami's expert tutelage and free of cost.

For Saima, a 21-year-old student, Kami's presence not only brings comfort and security but also instills confidence. "The way Kami teaches is amazing," she shares. "It gives me the assurance that despite the odds, one can develop skills and succeed."

Born and raised in Ibrahim Hyderi, Kami's journey to earning respect and dignity has been marked by resilience and determination. In a society where acceptance for the transgender community is often a distant dream, Kami and his peers have defied convention and embraced a path less traveled.

"People love us. They respect us by heart," Kami affirms with a smile, his eyes glistening with pride. His belief in the power of hard work has propelled him forward, leading him to join the Pakistan Fisherfolk Forum (PFF) as an instructor and beautician.

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For over 15 months, Kami has dedicated himself to empowering the young girls of Ibrahim Hyderi, Bangali Para, and neighbouring areas. Under his guidance, more than a thousand girls have embarked on three to six-month courses, gaining valuable skills that promise a brighter future.

But Kami is not alone in his mission. His friend Ali, aged 33, stands by his side as an instructor for stitching classes at the PFF. Like Kami, Ali exudes dedication and passion, earning the trust and respect of his community through his commitment to excellence.

"At home, I receive the same respect," Ali shares, his gaze shifting to the attentive students in his class.

In a family of 11, Ali plays a pivotal role in maintaining financial stability, working tirelessly to ensure a comfortable life for his loved ones. Despite the challenges they face, Kami and Ali refuse to succumb to despair. Instead, they embrace every opportunity to uplift themselves and those around them.

Their presence at the centre has not gone unnoticed by the community. Syed Qambar Shah, a resident of Ibrahim Hyderi, acknowledges the profound impact of their appointment. "With the inclusion of transgender individuals at the centre, our community feels a sense of security," he reflects. For Ferzana, a student of Ali, the centre serves as a beacon of hope for girls from humble backgrounds.

Both Kami and Ali understand the importance of self-reliance and determination. They actively seek opportunities to inspire others, whether through their teaching or their culinary skills. For Kami, teaching at the PFF center is not just a job - it's an honor. It grants him a sense of identity and belonging, reaffirming his place in society.

In a world where prejudice and discrimination often reign supreme, Kami and Ali stand as symbols of resilience and hope. Through their unwavering commitment to education and empowerment, they are not only transforming lives but also reshaping societal norms. As they continue to pave the way for a more inclusive future, their journey serves as a testament to the power of courage, compassion, and community.

Published in The Express Tribune, February 19^th 2024.