Women can divorce men who do not fulfill responsibilities: CII chairman

Published: June 17, 2016
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CII chairman Maulana Sherani refuses to reconsider his recommendations to allow men to lightly beat their wives PHOTO: FILE

CII chairman Maulana Sherani refuses to reconsider his recommendations to allow men to lightly beat their wives PHOTO: FILE

The Council of Islamic Ideology (CII) came in for a lot of scorn and criticism last month for suggesting that men should be allowed to “lightly beat” their wives.

During a recent interview with BBC, CII Chairman Mualana Muhammad Khan Sherani defended the council’s recommendations, saying, “These recommendations are according to the Quran and Sunnah, the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)’s teachings. No one can dispute that.”

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Sheerani explained the council’s recommendations in detail, saying, “When we draft a bill concerning women we have to consider all possible situations. If a woman does not fulfill her responsibilities in marriage first you advise her, if that doesn’t work, then you consult her relatives, if that doesn’t work then you desert her in bed. If all of this doesn’t work then lightly beating is allowed.”

Responding to criticism that the recommendations would give free rein to men to abuse their wives, Sheerani answered, “Then you tell me, what is the solution to this issue? If a woman doesn’t respond to advice, doesn’t listen to her relatives after you’ve used all the options, what should be done?”

When asked what a woman should do if a man does not fulfill his responsibilities, the CII chairman said, “First she can involve someone from the family to resolve the issue. But in the end if they feel they can’t live together she has the right to get a divorce.”

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Although the council’s recommendations have sparked outrage in Pakistan as well as international media, Sheerani refused to reconsider. “Society is not the media. They’re two different things. And we will not reconsider the recommendations. This is according to the Holy Quran, you cannot ask someone to reconsider the Holy Quran.”

Last month, after media and activists poured scorn on CII’s suggestion, Sheerani softened his tone stating ‘violence’ was not permissible in the religion.

“Do not try to relate our proposal (on beating women) with violence. Light beating does not mean violence,” he explained.

“The issue has been blown totally out of proportions. Everyone condemns violence. People need to be educated to stay away from violence.”

He added that both men and women should refrain from inflicting physical violence on one another. But the CII chief did not back down on the council’s recommendations that ‘light beating’ of wives was permissible.

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“If you want her (a wife) to mend her ways, you should first advise her,” Maulana Sheerani explained to The Express Tribune after his press conference. “If she refuses, stop talking to her. Still if she does not show compliance, stop sharing a bed with her, and if things do not change, get a bit strict.”

Maulana Sheerani went on to detail what he meant by ‘beating’. “Hit her with light things like handkerchief, a hat or a turban, but do not hit her on the face or private parts. And the beating should not cause any kind of physical damage or even scratches. Resort to light stuff, nothing serious.”

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Reader Comments (11)

  • Haji Atiya
    Jun 17, 2016 - 5:17PM

    Oh gee thanks for telling us the obvious and to be expected, oh wise and wondrous one !Recommend

  • Voiceless Pakistani
    Jun 17, 2016 - 5:46PM

    The woman’s right to divorce is enshrined

    in the nikah nama but people don’t

    respect the clause.

    They respect only the part of sharia

    that suits their interests and

    biases.Recommend

  • qazi ansar
    Jun 17, 2016 - 5:52PM

    agreed with Sherani sbRecommend

  • niraj kumar
    Jun 17, 2016 - 6:35PM

    i am thinking pak cii president has ill of mind and better treatment of mental hospital .his has not worked of country.Recommend

  • Nobel Prize
    Jun 17, 2016 - 8:42PM

    Maulana Muhammad Khan Sherani should be given a Nobel Peace Prize for this statement.Recommend

  • Quresh
    Jun 17, 2016 - 9:22PM

    please do not put blame on Mr.Shirani Study Sura Al-Nissa Verse 34.

    Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband’s] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance – [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.Recommend

  • Bhatti
    Jun 17, 2016 - 9:23PM

    Mulla haters where are you?Recommend

  • zahid
    Jun 17, 2016 - 9:50PM

    The maulana needed a better translator of english. One is not allowed to physically hit women in Islam. The most one can do after all the steps he narrated was hit with a handkerchief as a rebuke. That’s all. That’s what I have always known. To his fault he could have clarified this.Recommend

  • Hameed
    Jun 18, 2016 - 1:41AM

    Was Islam waiting for CII to come and tell us how to act on it?Recommend

  • Arsha
    Jun 18, 2016 - 6:57AM

    @zahid:
    Even a light act of hitting someone is a huge power imbalance and can cause huge damage to other persons self esteem. Please put yourself in the other person’s shoes.
    If someone hits you in anger even very lightly how would you feel about it? A woman is an adult and not a child to be treated in such an inferior manner.

    And we are giving the other person the right to humiliate me? What about my rights?

    I give no individual the right to humiliate me whether physically or emotionally. Have you seen how a child cries with just a light tap even though it does not hurt and gets so scared.

    I would much rather prefer to not marry versus marry a man who believes he has the right to lightly beat me. Utter rubbish.Recommend

  • Haji Atiya
    Jun 18, 2016 - 7:25AM

    @zahid:
    My handkerchief is made of stainless steel.. .does that pass muster ?Recommend

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