JLo on fidelity and fiery love
Singer-actor says she feels more attractive, self-assured than she did 10 years ago.
The pop sensation admitted she has been left feeling inadequate after being cheated on in the past. PHOTO: AFP
LOS ANGELES:
Singer-actor Jennifer Lopez feels “singers or dancers” make the best lovers. The ‘On the Floor’ hitmaker was previously married to dancer Cris Judd and singer Marc Anthony, and dated dancer Casper Smart and rapper P Diddy. When asked who makes the best lovers, she said, “I would say singers or dancers.”
The 45-year-old beauty, who has seven-year-old twins Max and Emme with Anthony, also admitted she has been left feeling inadequate after being cheated on in the past. “I’ve been in relationships where there has been infidelity and you’re left to feel like you did something wrong, like there’s something wrong with you, you’re not enough, all those feelings that we struggle with,” she said. “Both men and women go through this, by the way. It’s not just a woman thing.”
The pop star thinks older women are now viewed as sexier than they used to be by society. “Before, the thought was that you were in your 20s and that’s when you’re at your best and after that, you go downhill. I think that idea has changed and so we are attractive, more interesting and self-assured than we were 10 years ago,” she shared. “There’s something sexy and attractive about that to all men. I always felt kind of sexy. I think I feel more like myself now. I just know myself better and that’s sexy,” she added.
Published in The Express Tribune, March 5th, 2015.
Singer-actor Jennifer Lopez feels “singers or dancers” make the best lovers. The ‘On the Floor’ hitmaker was previously married to dancer Cris Judd and singer Marc Anthony, and dated dancer Casper Smart and rapper P Diddy. When asked who makes the best lovers, she said, “I would say singers or dancers.”
The 45-year-old beauty, who has seven-year-old twins Max and Emme with Anthony, also admitted she has been left feeling inadequate after being cheated on in the past. “I’ve been in relationships where there has been infidelity and you’re left to feel like you did something wrong, like there’s something wrong with you, you’re not enough, all those feelings that we struggle with,” she said. “Both men and women go through this, by the way. It’s not just a woman thing.”
The pop star thinks older women are now viewed as sexier than they used to be by society. “Before, the thought was that you were in your 20s and that’s when you’re at your best and after that, you go downhill. I think that idea has changed and so we are attractive, more interesting and self-assured than we were 10 years ago,” she shared. “There’s something sexy and attractive about that to all men. I always felt kind of sexy. I think I feel more like myself now. I just know myself better and that’s sexy,” she added.
Published in The Express Tribune, March 5th, 2015.