I see children being targeted and killed here. As Pakistan continues its mourning of the Peshawar killings — 133 children — a suicide-bomb attack kills 61 in a Shia imambargah in Shikarpur. Many children died when a bomb ripped through the congregation of devotees on an ordinary day, splattering their tiny limbs on one another, making some of the bodies unrecognisable. One mother lost four of her children. In Tharparkar, countless have died due to malnourishment in an ongoing man-made famine. Many newborns have died in hospitals in Sargodha, and other parts of Pakistan because of the unavailability of basic post-natal care. Innumerable are those who fall prey to preventable diseases like measles, and while many survive without polio vaccination, polio disables a few every year. A seven-year-old was found hanging in a room in a mosque after being sodomised and killed. A 12-year-old girl died after suffering physical abuse from her employers for allegedly burning clothes. There are many like him and her whose fates go unnoticed.
There are more than 25 million out-of-school children, according to an Alif Ailaan report. This is almost half the number of children in Pakistan. An unquantifiable number of children attend madrassas (where the curriculum consists of mainly of scripture-reading and Islamic studies) and state-run schools (where the substandard quality of education disables students to deal with the challenges of growing pressure on excellence in mathematics, science and English in a diminishing job market). The nexus of madrassa and militancy is maximised as future opportunities for children from low-income backgrounds are limited, or one-dimensional.
In the absence of activities that enhance mental, intellectual and interpersonal capabilities, and lack of reinforcing the importance of traits of healthy competition, team spirit and sportsmanship, many children in Pakistan grow up in a regimented and regressive environment. That in turn enables and perpetuates a line of thinking that is rigid, bigoted, and in certain cases, extremist, conditioned to formulate hate narratives on the basis of differences of faith, ethnicity, ideology or nation. With almost non-existent access to sporting and other extracurricular activities in madrassas and government-run schools and colleges, the cumulative energy finds its release in the formation of groups that control their alma maters on the force of their narrative of fear and exploitation. The shelf-life of such activities may be limited or end in a fatal manner, but the arrogance of power propped up by the distortion of religion becomes an influence greater than the lure of lowly government jobs or nondescript ones in the private sector.
As large swathes of Pakistan remain engulfed in the bleakness of load-shedding, shortage of water and gas, quality healthcare and schooling, as well as inaccessibility to justice and a fear for life, children and teenagers growing up in that dark Pakistan wondering when things would change for them. Weaving their way through obscure, narrow alleys, reeking of overflowing sewers, they make their way to schools or madrassas where they learn little that would help them later; or to workplaces where they learn how to slog like a machine on remuneration that helps little while fortifying the mind against the blatant social inequality.
It’s not rocket science. It’s the 101 of any system. If not taken care of, children grow, but like weeds, like redundant parts of a society. And those redundant parts fit into an unwieldy whole that is unproductive, incapacitated, bitter, vegetative, dysfunctional, and in some cases, dangerous. The neglected children grow into adults who are invisible, misfits or pariahs.
Published in The Express Tribune, February 6th, 2015.
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@nana: "USA cannot be role model for raising children. Media and text books in USA keep people stupid, "
You need to grow up.
If the children of US are stupid, then why do you think the US children keep inventing things that no other humans have not even thought of? Have you looked around your room lately ; everything you see in today's world from pencil, ball point pen, fountain pen to the computer, and the electricity that runs that computer are from the stupid children of the US. The US children dare to go to places and push the envelope. The rap, the clothing, the art, the style, and the very world of today called "texting" are from the US children. The 21st century style of art,music, clothing, entertainment, reading , writing, theatre and even the work place are all shaped by them. Naturally, they are good, since we see children all over the world adopting them.
Open your mind and see the world differently.
The best thing to do for children is for adults to have less children!
USA cannot be role model for raising children. Media and text books in USA keep people stupid, lest they complain about their own brutalization and stop hating distant natives as Pagan, unbelievers, evil empire etc. For a Hindu American (including European Americans who are Hinduized because of TM movement of Maharshi Mahesh Yogi, etc) stories of mythology/history of Hanuman, Ram & Krishna have helped a lot more than intellectual sermons or thick books. Those stories give roots to children. Pakistani children because of Arabization have lost roots and increasingly Indian children are losing roots because of onslaught of foreign media. Even Urduized Bollywood make the children lose roots as it portrays decadent Mughal culture as something to aspire for and subconsciously teach children how not be good father or even mother, like Aurangzeb, Shahjan etc. Bollywood brutalizes children by its item numbers, criminality. I guess if the producers are like D Company, what can we expect?
Enough is enough it is time to roll down those who have purged the entire state in a sorry stalemate. Without any shadow of doubt, Pakistan's geographical position occupies a tremendous position in the ongoing breakneck competition of the World. Besides, the land is cupiously rick in natural resources. The only thing that we lack is a true leadership. It does not mean that we don"t have sincere leaders, but,unfortunately, the state lakes atmosphere where true leadership could be prevailed. In every nook and corner we find nothing but unfortunate events and gruesome situations. Is not it pity that the prevailing environment in the country does not auger well for the future? If not to be prosperous state, its future looks more worrisome that what it is today. Yesterday, i read an article describing the annual expenditure on foreign visits by the premier of Pakistan. Really, it shocked me when i saw the figure which was more than 32 crs for only 20 visits. Sorry to say but it is true that our leaders pay no attention over the nation's growing plight. What they care is only their unhindered lust for excessive economic growth. If there occurs a hue any cry in the media, they try to sooth the nation by merely passing their vacuous resolutions.
Ms Tarar seems to be fascinated with India and she is so much obsessed with the Indian movies and star Plus drama that she thinks all india is similar to Star Plus drama. I believe she is living in dream world and does not have any idea about pathetic conditions and percentage of Poor in India and to top it all she also does not know about the grave condition of Muslims in India. And i 100% believe some indian will come on the floor and try to show their love for India but its all smoke screen.
And among these children, the boys who grew up to become men, some join the army, low level civil service, private sector, self employment, hired hands for political parties, and the girls who become women are doomed for life. And if the children are of poor minority, they do not exist, men or women. This is the work force PAK is going to have in 20 years in her transformative period and they are going to be the active voters who will elect their leaders to rule the wealthy educated elite children who will be serving in the upper echelon of bureaucracy.
The accompanying opinion column speaks of low income housing. To whom PAK is going to provide those in the future: the progeny they collectively neglected?
Ms Tarar, you have painted a veryery depressing and bleak future. What are you trying to say - that partition was a bad idea? (judging by India's progress and our regression). If so, is there an escape route?
It is right to point out what we need to do to make sure that children are treated like loved ones and looked afterr by adults. Ideally the responsibility of that happening is with parents. If we are not authorotative and show them understanding and listen to them and show them that discussions and not 'because I say so' should be the basis of bringing them up. In USA anybody who wants to have children is handed over a free book about how to be good parents. That helps al lot. I once read a book called 'Baby and Child care' by dr.Spock. It helped me a lot when I had my fitrst child.