A Kotwali police spokesman said Ali Akhtar*, 20, resident of Garh Maharaja, had been staying at a hotel room near Ayub Chowk in Jhang City with a girlfriend, Maryam.
Hotel manager Riaz Noal told newsmen that on Saturday the hotel staff heard shrieks from the room.
“When we entered the room, we found him lying in a pool of blood. The girl was nowhere to be found,” he said.
The manager called the Rescue 1122 and the police.
The injured man was taken to Jhang district headquarters (DHQ) hospital from where he was referred to Allied Hospital Faisalabad. He was discharged from the hospital on Sunday after a surgery.
He told newsmen he worked in Islamabad and had been dating a worker of the Health Department, Maryam. He said he was engaged to be married to his cousin and had told Maryam about this.
“She suggested we rent a hotel room to meet one last time. There, she attacked and castrated me,” he said.
Kotwali police have registered a case on the complaint of hotel manager Riaz Noal under section 334 of Pakistan Penal Code (PPC).
Kotwali SHO Rana Umar Daraz Khan said an investigation team had been constituted headed by Sub Inspector Muhammad Khan to find and arrest the girl.
SI Muhammad Khan said the girl lived in Garh Maharaja. He said the police had raided her house but she was not there.
He said the police had detained her father Khadim Hussain.
He said Hussain was cooperating with the police and had promised to find his daughter in the next two days.
The name has been changed to protect identity
Published in The Express Tribune, April 21st, 2014.
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The manager should be put in jail for giving room to unmarried couple
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According to Islamic Law, both needed to be penalized accordingly of the crime they committed. The "ZINA" is the sin of both of them.
The girls in our society are venarable to maiarrage offers of the likes of this guy. Both should be let go now that he got punishment already . Police will now punish the girl , that is my biggest worry.Poor one will get punished thorughout her life any way by our illiterate society.
All is fair in love and war....
@sardarzaheer: "...under what law girls father has been detained?"
It is called Pakistani police law!
@zxx:
"We need to look and study our religion i.e Islam to put an end to these kinds of immoral activities and revert back to our traditional ways of marriage to fulfill our sexual needs, not the other way round. "
You mean the liberty to marry four wives each new on being younger?
Two wrongs don't make a right .....
@haseeb: Yes. It was Lorena Bobbit in US who did it to her husband to whom she was married for over 10 years. The surgery was so successful that he later became a pron star and has performed in few adult movies too !!!!!!!
I do see to read such a large numbers of comments as this story has.....there are more pressing issues our country & poor people are facing daily, yet I do not see such serious comments those issues.....grow up guys !
So all the people who are justifying this will also justify if a girl deceive a man and man take revenge in such barbaric manner? Dont know where is common sense gone from common people
Seriously? When did people start using the word "paramour"?? He was her boyfriend/lover guys, get over it
Girl did the right thing......after all there should be a parting gift to remind days gone by or one may also call it a poetic justice
@kiran: Why you girls portray your good-self as toy in such scenario. I mean wasn't he being played by girl. And to look for marriage out of such relation in not fair. Its called sharing yourselves, not your lives.
I am amazed and extremely saddened to see so many people especially women supporting such an act. Had this kind of act happened with a female, everybody would have jumped crying into the feminist bandwagon. Boy was wrong but the girl was not an angel either, she was not forced or raped but she agreed to the relationship they both previously had. If this act, the one that the girl did, is permissible then every other act of violence on opposite sex is justifiable somehow or the other. We need to look and study our religion i.e Islam to put an end to these kinds of immoral activities and revert back to our traditional ways of marriage to fulfill our sexual needs, not the other way round.
The guy obviously has been less than truthful with this girl while taking advantage of her for his sexual needs. He must have promised to marry her. When he finally told her the truth, justifiably, the girl went ballistic and castrated him. I think justice has been served here.
I am really disappointed at reading the comments from alot of the people especially the women. This woman is no different from the acid throwing men. All you women (feminists) wouldve been crooning a different tune had the genders been reversed.
This comment thread is so much fun.
ridiculous...nice revenge by the girl but should be punished harshly,as he wasnt obviously forcing her, but the father was held on wrong account only in Pakistan can happen, otherwise all terrorists families shud be in jail first
Zina is zina both parties have to be arrested and punished for it if it happened. However the the second part is about the crime related to assaulting a man and the girl needs to be punished for it. Other women should learn a lesson not to date men and get married in the orthodox way. You cant get a man by sleeping with him. As far as the father of the girl being arrested is concerned . Yes the police can do it as he is the relaive of the girl who apparently has assaulted a man, its legal and according to law. This is a legal problem law does not consider emotions as a valid cause to assault someone.
Right they say "Love Hurts!"
Ooooooh. I Spit On Your Grave dekh li hogi xD
She did good job... this should be lesson for non serious and flirt guys... i hope police should also arrest that guy for playing with her feelings...
Hats off to all the people here supporting the girl. Wow so the west is right. We Pakistanis are actually TALIBANIZED. We support all the unjust and barbaric means to resolve any issue. What about the girl who was having a pre-marital relationship just to fulfill her sexual desires? If the guy got what he deserved thn surely the guys who throw acid on their wives when they r caught cheating r not doing anything wrong either. Those girls deserve it no? What do u savages have to say about this now?
So will he be able to have children now? 20+ years ago, a woman in the US had cut off the organ and thrown it in a field. Police searched and found it, and the surgeon was able to sow it back. Medical science has made amazing progress.
Now, he will be a worried man if his cousin will accept him after he lost his balls carelessly.
well done girl, I would urge all girls to do the same to their cheating partners or so called boyfriends. he deserved this punishment. Men have no right to abuse the relationships and to play with the sentiments of women. Sad to know that the father have been detained to find out the girl's whereabouts which is police's job. I hope this gives a clear message to cheating men.
What I find more disturbing than the girl's actions are the comments of those supporting her actions. There's a difference between the infliction of emotional and physical pain. Yes, by all means, the guy is guilty of breaking the girl's heart. But a broken heart heals with time whereas the guy can NEVER get his manhood back. He was wrong, I agree, but this is a brutal, barbaric revenge. The girl isn't innocent here. Let's not bring violence into everything. Take a step back and think clearly for a second. A 20 year old is having to spend the rest of his life castrated. What for? For cheating on his girlfriend and his fiance. Wrong he may be, but publicize and condemn his actions, make him embarrassed, psychologically torture him to an extent but please, for the love of humanity and all you hold dear, do not take a person's life and manhood in your hands. Try to understand the severity and gravity of the girl's action. It is NOT justified, legal or human.
the most intriguing part which is still unfolded is "how it all happened "?was he intoxicated by the girl ? :D did he let her do all this by himself ?? :D
it was the guy who actually pretended to make love and in the mean time ditched her which prompted her to to take such brutal step and wasted both of their lives
I believe girl has done the right to a guy who knowingly used her and tried to dispose her. It is noteable that editor said girl convinced him to "let us meet very last time in a hotel room". It means they used to meet there frequently and boi thought that he had one more chance to enjoy.
I think boi should have refused her to meet again if he was true. He came there again to enjoy and not only betrayed the girl but also his fiance (which I believe he was lying to get rid of her gf).
That boi deserved that because girl knew that boi will get clean after taking a mere shower and she may not be able to get any justice rather she will bevome a source of mockery for people.
And the people who are in favour of bboy are not so innocent and they know what kind of promises bring a girl to bed. If u cant fulfill those promises then u deserve the same treatment as u cant be held for justice here.
@Arif: Why not? Socially sensitive issues should not be highlighted because they hurt the sensibilties of people like you? Oh please do grow up.
@Zeeshan
Buddy, look at my comment once again, I wrote "Apart from" not "Instead of", which clearly shows that both of them are the culprits, but here only the girl is being pursued and is being shown upon as the sole cause of this whole incident, although the man is also equally responsible, and not just for cheating upon one women, but two.
@Ali: Men have been guilty of more heinous crime, kindly not get worked up. We all play down a honor killing or acid attack then why overplay this isolated incident. And I am sorry if someone ,specially women find humor or vendetta in this based on gender issue them we need to accept and introspect why it is so. The girl should be charged and so should the boy.
Why the poor father has been arrested what is his fault is there any law authorising the police to arrest any innocent person,
I wonder where are those feminists who have chewed the brains out of common men now.
I think the girl had watched : Gulaab Gang ; )
@kiran: Should all boys do the same to those girls who got engaged after having affair? Will you appreciate it they way you are appreciating her???
@Arif: you won't be saying the same if the boy was guilty, this is the fact that if men do something wrong everybody blame's men and they should, but if some women do wrong everybody show sympathy to her and still blame men.!
I am appalled by people's comments saying the man got what he deserved and supporting the woman. Surely, then, by the same yardstick, you should support a man who throws acid on a woman's face when she cheats on him?
The relationship was clearly consensual for both, so don't go blaming the man alone. If extra-marital sex is a crime then they are both equally guilty of it, but there is no law against lying to your lover. What the woman did is a heinous crime, and she must be punished for it.
first of all i want to congratulate all the people who dedicated their precious time and mind to complete the story which obviously wasn't done by the editor may be due to lack of space. Now my heartiest wishes with the innocent, sincere and obedient boy who got injured in this tragic incident. then i would like to congratulate accused girl who brought some original idea of considerable offense for other exploited girls. lastly i would like to salute police for upgrading/updating method of investigation. because 12 to 14 years ago they used to arrest faultless and silent animals like cows and buffaloes, till the real culprits presented themselves.
Who gives the right of punishing to some one? If this ct is justified from girl in name of vengeance then all honor killings are also justified. No excuses should be allowed for giving some one physical harm otherwise you will open Pandora's box
Intolerance at its apex. Sympathizing or condemning is our national 'hobby' but we don't see it through the lens of tolerance. This shows how our society is leading towards violence and intolerance ranging from social affairs to religious beliefs... "IQBAL TERE DAIS KA KIA HAAL SUNAOON".
according to my opinion, the girl has done a good work. The man was playing with the emotions of the girl, and he don't know the value of emotions. when it comes for marriage the man ditched her by giving reason that he want to marry her cousin. as a consequence the girl ditched the boy
so she convinced him to get his pants down for it or what? serves him justly if he was having a bit of fun at someone's expense..
Regardless of what the guy did, it doesn't and never will excuse the actions of that girl. I am appalled at the reaction of you guys, claiming that the girl was justified in her behaviour. That barbarian deserves to be caught and put up for a long time in prison.
well done job by girl ! after playing with her and using her he tried to back out by saying that he is engaged to cousin and then also invited her to room cheating at both ends very well done with this man all such people should b treated same way
@hafsa, she wasnt an annocent girl, i get goosebumps when I think of what she did to him.
Its a lesson guys, never tell your ex you're engaged or going to get married.
Do we have any Men Rights where this guy could raise his voice and be heard. Like, the damage is done, could that be reversed? I mean, I understand he did wrong to the poor girl, and his fiance, and aparently, she left him of no use to his fiance either but still, can he be treated by surgery or something? Tch tch, poor guy...
One doesn't have to be Freud to perceive what that man had thought when she suggested him to meet last time in a Hotel room?
may be the boy is not telling the truth. i think he tried to be frank with girl thats y it happened.
HAHHAHA...Best news I have read in a long time...all guys these days do this...even the married ones...so serves them right to be castrated.
and why would they detain girls father?! under what law?
She could nt have dated him if she had known that he was engaged.he must have told her after using her.so he was rightly punished.I think this may serve as a warning to all out there who taje advantage if innocent girls.
Apart from trying to arrest the girl, the man should be apprehended for dis-obedience of Pakistan Penal Code (Act-XLV of 1860), for have premarital relationship.
What a douche the man is, I mean even after telling the poor girl that he is engaged to his cousin, he still accepts her offer to meet one last time in a "Hotel room".
This clearly shows that he was not just cheating this poor young girl, but also his fiance.
The guy is not naive. If he was engaged or he knew that he could not turn this relation into a life long relation he should have told the girl earlier. The girl will be caught but I will support her because such guys need to be stoned infront of everybody
@sardarzaheer: I think you have to be reasonable here , if the guy was playing with the girl she was doing the ams to with him too. and if it as her mistake then she deserved to be played. My point is that yes it is wrong that the guy played with girl but it was equally wrong from the girl to LET HIM play with her.
He deserve,but these type of stories should not be highlighted
@sardarzaheer: It takes two to party...was she being raped? No...it was obviously consensual. Don't blame just the man on both person's indiscretions.
under what law girls father has been detained? does it allowed in the law...yes the girl should not have hurt the guy who have been playing with her and ditched her and used her as tool...is there any law that can give her back what she has lost because of one man's false hopes...