On November 30, Prem Chand, a resident of Qureshi Muhalla, Daharki, lodged a case at the Daharki police station against five men - Tariq Leghari, Shakir Leghari, Allah Diwayo Leghari and Mohammad Ibrahim Leghari - for kidnapping his sister Dr Sulachni Bai.
According to the assistant head constable, Riaz Leghari, Prem Chand claimed that his sister used to run a private clinic near the grain market and Tariq used to work there as a dispenser. The police officer claimed that Prem Chand believed that Tariq and his cousins had abducted his sister. Sources said that the police raided Chadan Leghari’s village but Tariq, his parents and relatives were not found. However, the police continued to search and took 10 villagers into custody. Some journalists claim that the police released the suspects after accepting a hefty bribe. The police said that they had conducted a raid but did not arrest any villagers as everyone had fled.
A source told The Express Tribune that Dr Sulachni Bai and Tariq had fallen in love but the doctor knew that her parents would never let her marry a Muslim so they eloped. The source added that the couple had caught a bus to Punjab to get married and Sulachni Bai had converted to Islam.
Sulachni Bai’s father Ghansham Das refuses to believe this. He insists that she was taken away against her will. The police confirmed that Tariq had contacted journalists in the area and had told them about the marriage and about his wife accepting Islam.
Published in The Express Tribune, December 9th, 2011.
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@a?oa?: read the whole thread...
@ Optimist - where did Kashmir come in this discussion? Yeah you need to stop the terrorism activities there.
@Proud Indian Hindu:
Is that what you are trying to do in Kashmir too??? I.e. convert all Muslims to Hindu so that they can lead a peaceful life????? I say it again, please don't try to hide your dirty linen through hate mongering.
Finally, oppression has to stop be it in Indian held Kashmir or atrocities against Hindus in Pakistan.
@VINOD:
How can you be so sure of what you are claiming? is it a gut feeling or do you have evidence for the same??
@Aryabhat: And changing her religion was her personal decision, who are you or anyone else to question that????
her parents r not alive she was not living comfort thier sister in laws i think she has choosen the right way to live life
in hinduism women has no religion.
as per hindu religion women has no religion.in bhagwad geeta she is grded between shudra and chandal.whose killing is punishable.must die with husband to serve him in heaven.she has no persnality.pati devta hai. so dr has not done anything wrong.
@G. Din, Yes it is not diffrent than Nazism when its comes to treat untouchables (Achooth) fellow Hindus and it is not when its comes to make Catholic pope from Black Race or Latin american brown skin peoples and whe its comes very hard to get even house in Hindu neighborhood and also when its hard to even rent in white christian area in america yes it is not diffrent than Naziism and why Nazism why not Hinduism and white christian Racism.
@American: "How is it different from Nazism" It is not!
Agreed with American. I understand why a woman can't marry a man who is a non-Muslim, you want to make sure that the children turn out Muslim since we follow a patrilineage and that Muslim women have less freedom of choice in choosing their life partner, but I will never agree with it. It is wrong.
" as long as he converts to islam", So muslims have one set of rules for them and another set for another. How is it different from Nazism which has one set of rules for people and another set for another. Remember this discrimination is codified into laws . If non- muslim countries ever do that muslims are the first to cry hoarse. Muslims must not do to other religions what they expect other religions not to do to them.
Pakistanis will one day SOON face the choice of fire or conversion to a reliogion other than Islam. That is the law of cause and effect and payment for these heinous acts. We shall see what these brave voices then say, or who their bums protect.
@American: I am Hindu from India. Two of my uncles have married Muslim women. They're doing great. I have three cousins who are either Hindu or Muslim: I never bothered to ask :-)
@American: The answer to your question is no! I am a muslim and I totally understand what you mean.. If a Muslim girl, with her own free will, marries a Hindu man.. everyone (ppl not even related to her) would be upset.. In my book, treat others how you want to be treated! If this same man's sister wanted to marry a Hindu guy..he'd give her hell!
@American,
Did Muslim retaliate when a Hindu man like Hrithik Roshan marry a Muslim woman? Did we attack AR Rahman's father when he married a Muslim woman and brought up his kids as Hindus? Muslims are not against a marriage between a Muslim woman and a Hindu man, granted that man embraced Islam. This rule applies to a Hindu woman who planned on marrying a Muslim man. If he/she would not embrace Islam, then that marriage will not be approved by the religious law and the country's law. Just like Muslims are prohibted from marrying more than one woman in Western country, the law of the land should hold supreme in Pakistan too.
@Observer Religion is merely part of your jingoism. But for Muslims, it's also about following rules and regulations stated in their Holy book. Muslim men are allowed to marry Christian and Jewish women. But Hindus are out of this "people of the book" description and hence you need to convert to Islam. How is it possible for you to fall in love with a Muslim and yet refuse to love his religion and culture when you know clearly that Islam is very strict when it comes to the religion of the spouse? If you don't want to convert, don't fall in love with a Muslim. Simple, no?
If Muslims know that his/her sudden crush from another faith would refuse to convert, he/she should know better whether to continue the relationship or not. After all, you see many Indian men "goofing" with White women only to reject their marriage proposals for a chaste Indian woman waiting in the backwater of India. Just like you are obssess with your "Indian identity", we care about our "Muslim identity".
Islam is not alone in calling for conversion. Most Christian denominations called for conversion. Judaism demands the same. If you don't want to convert to Islam, Christianity or Judaism, don't fall in love with us. As simple as that.
Let me ask the question again
will the muslims tolerate a muslim girl marrying a hindu/christian ?
nobody seem to give a direct answer
@Mohammad Ali Siddiqui
Though I haven't heard of it, still I have no problem with this marriage if it really happened. She was surely not abducted and forced into the marriage.
i hope all hindus in pakistan convert to islam if that is what helps them lead a peaceful life and avoid being targetted and discriminated against.it's a shame to live a life of constant harrasment.
The number One practiced religion of Pakistani society is "Jahalat = illiteracy ........ one can differentiate between educated illiterates and uneducated illiterates!
The grand daughter of Hindu extremist political party Shiv Sena chief Bal Thackeray has married a Gujarati Muslim in Mumbai.India.
@Aryabhat If they were in love, they fell in love when Boy was Muslim and girl was Hindu. Why should either change the religion?
Hmm.You won't understand this paradox unless you are a Muslim.
Jodhabai had her Mandir inside Delhi Fort! That is whay Akbar is the one called Akbar “the Great” ! And don't mention this Akbar, he is to sophisticated for us to comprehend. We are comfortable with Aurangzeb.
@Aryabhat:
". Why should either change the religion?"
That is the important question.
There is nothing wrong in marriages between people of different religions as long as they are consensual. The fact is that it is only Muslims (and Islam) that insist that their spouses convert. Why should that be?
As for this particular incident, based on past history of kidnapping, forcible marriage and conversion of Hindus, Christians and other minorities in Pakistan, it does raise suspicion of foul-play.
@Asad: Who did this translation from Arabic to english ? If Quran itself teaches you discrimination, how do you call it religion of peace ?
“I was not abducted by anybody and I married Ajeeb out of my own free will after completing all legal formalities,”
Poor girl has to say this otherwise, she knows that, her parents' and brother' lives are in danger.
A lawless failed state, failing everyday. I pity the citizens of this country.
@Optimist, asad
You are not getting the point American made.......
What would be the reaction if a muslim girl in Pakistan or Saudi or Qatar etc. married a hindu and converted to Hinduism out of her own free will ie. exactly analogous to what has happened here?
Honest answer please...
@Asad: Well said .. Hear Hear...
@Optimist: What other option she had after the forced marriage. And such statements under threat are common place. Otherwise which lady doctor would marry a dispenser so please your quote "Tariq used to work there as a dispenser."
We all know what happened when a Muslim girl had just gone to a Hindu boy and whole incidence of murder of Hindu Doctors.
@Optimist, I am sorry but I can not find what you have quoted in this news report even after charging my reading glasses. You may also help us all to clarify why she had to change her religion to marry a Muslim? If they were in love, they fell in love when Boy was Muslim and girl was Hindu. Why should either change the religion? Jodhabai had her Mandir inside Delhi Fort! That is whay Akbar is the one called Akbar "the Great" !
In any case, Hindus lives in Pakistan are destined to be raped and pillaged! What else can they expect in "Citadel of Islam(a religion of peace)"?
@American Get your facts right. There are examples of Saudi/Qatari women falling in Love with and Getting married to American Marines and eloping with them to the US. You and your folk blame the muslims in such instances.
Now even when a non muslim woman falls in love with a muslim man and marries him and accepts Islam out of her own free will, you still blame the muslims. Just hows how bigoted you are against the muslims.
It proves true the Quranic verse(2:120) : "And never will the Jews or the Christians approve of you until you follow their religion. Say, "Indeed, the guidance of Allah is the [only] guidance." If you were to follow their desires after what has come to you of knowledge, you would have against Allah no protector or helper."
@American: dont shoot your guns too soon, change your reading specs and read the below “I was not abducted by anybody and I married Ajeeb out of my own free will after completing all legal formalities,” she told Justice Maqbool Baqar and Justice Imam Bux Baloch.
If a Hindu or a christian had done it, the muslims would have retaliated en masse on the minorities. on the first place will the muslims tolerate a muslim girl marrying a hindu/christian ? golden rule: dont do to other communities what u dont want others to do to your community.