Ashley Tisdale mom group fallout tied to broader tensions, not single Charlie Kirk post

Ashley Tisdale’s recent estrangement from a circle of high-profile celebrity mothers has sparked widespread speculation online, with some attributing the rift to her public comments following the assassination of conservative activist Charlie Kirk. However, sources tell Page Six that the situation is more complex and cannot be attributed to a single incident.

According to Page Six, the High School Musical alum recently addressed the breakdown in relationships in a personal essay published in New York Magazine, writing that members of the mom group abruptly distanced themselves without explanation. The group has reportedly included Hilary Duff, Meghan Trainor, Mandy Moore and food blogger Gaby Dalkin.

One prominent theory circulating online suggested that Tisdale’s social media response to Kirk’s death caused friction within the group. In her post, Tisdale compared the national response to the tragedy to the unity felt after the September 11 attacks, arguing that political differences should not diminish empathy for loss of life. Following backlash, she clarified that she opposes political violence and supports progressive causes, including women’s rights, LGBTQ+ rights, voting rights, reproductive rights and gun safety measures.

Despite the speculation, a source told Page Six that “it’s a myriad of things, not just one specific,” indicating the conflict developed over time rather than stemming from a single post.

Reactions from individuals associated with the group appeared to underscore lingering tensions. Meghan Trainor, who still follows Tisdale on social media, posted a TikTok video using her song “Still Don’t Care,” which some interpreted as a subtle response to the controversy. Hilary Duff’s husband, Matthew Koma, shared a satirical post mocking the essay format, a move later praised publicly by Mandy Moore.

Moore reposted an image of Koma at a benefit concert for victims of the Los Angeles wildfires, calling him “one of the most talented and generous humans” and thanking him for previously offering her family housing during an evacuation. Duff herself has remained publicly focused on her music, promoting an upcoming release.

Tisdale, who a source previously described to Page Six as difficult within the group, has largely stayed quiet since the essay gained traction. She shared a photo of the ocean on social media amid the ongoing discussion, suggesting she has found calm despite the fallout.

A representative for Tisdale declined to comment on the situation.