Jennifer Lopez first ex-husband Ojani Noa, claims she cheated during their marriage

Ojani Noa, Jennifer Lopez’s first ex-husband, has responded to the singer’s recent comments about her past relationships, accusing Lopez of infidelity during their brief marriage. In an Instagram post, Noa took issue with Lopez’s claim in a recent interview that she had never "truly been loved" by any of her exes.

Noa, who was married to Lopez from 1997 to 1998, urged the singer to stop playing the victim. "The problem is not us. Not me. The problem is you," he wrote. "You are the one who couldn’t keep it in your pants. You have been ‘loved’ a few times. You have been married four times and had countless relationships in between."

-Instagram/Ojani Noa

He further asserted that he had been honest and faithful during their marriage, claiming that he had left everything behind—including his career and family—to support Lopez’s rise in Hollywood. "I was good to you. I’m too good of a man for you," he added.

Noa also stated that Lopez chose fame over their marriage, alleging that she lied and cheated during their union. "That’s why I left you, that’s why I divorced you. Tell the truth for once," he concluded, urging Lopez to take responsibility for the breakup. "You should be embarrassed, ashamed of yourself."

-Instagram/Ojani Noa.

This latest exchange comes after Lopez, 56, shared her thoughts on love during an appearance on The Howard Stern Show. She claimed that while her exes had given her material things—rings, houses, marriages—they were not capable of truly loving her. "They gave me all of it, every time," Lopez said, adding that her past relationships had fallen short in terms of emotional depth.

In past interviews, Noa has suggested that Lopez's relationship with Sean "Diddy" Combs played a role in their divorce, accusing the rapper and producer of causing deception and lies that led to their separation.