We don't appreciate men enough, says Nadia Afgan, highlighting selflessness of fathers

In a recent interview with Fuchsia Magazine, actor Nadia Afgan contributed to a thought-provoking conversation by shedding light on the underappreciation of men in Pakistani society. Expressing concern over societal norms that often overlook men's contributions and emotional well-being, Afgan passionately called for a reevaluation of how society perceives and acknowledges the struggles faced by men.

The star, known for her outspoken views, emphasised that men's hard work as providers often goes unnoticed. "It is very sad," she began. "We don't appreciate men enough. We always talk about the mother, never the father. Why not?" she questioned, challenging the prevailing narrative that tends to overshadow the efforts of fathers.

Afgan highlighted the demanding routines that many men undertake, leaving for work in the morning and dedicating their entire day to providing for their families. She described fathers as among the most altruistic individuals in the world, acknowledging their sacrifices for the well-being of their children. "What does that man do?" queried the star. "He leaves [for work] in the morning and stays till evening." She added, "I don't think there is a more altruistic person in the world than a father." 

The actor did admit, however, that "some fathers may slip up," and "not all fathers are made equal." However, she added, "But that man gets up, he goes to work, and continues to work for his children the whole day." She stressed the selflessness of fathers who, upon returning home, wholeheartedly dedicate themselves to their families, giving their all to their families openheartedly. 

According to Afgan, men seldom keep anything for themselves, a practice that underscores their ingrained sense of responsibility as caretakers. "It's a huge deal," she explained, pointing out that men are often taught from childhood to prioritise the well-being of their families over their individual needs. "One makes money and thinks that it's for themselves. Men don't do that because they've been taught since childhood that they're the caretaker," she shared.

The actor delved into the societal expectations placed on men, particularly the notion that they should refrain from displaying emotions such as crying. "'No crying, you must tolerate, you're a man, you cannot cry.' Why? Why can't he cry? Why can't he be worried? Men get worried too," Afgan passionately argued. She highlighted the significant responsibilities men take on and the emotional toll it can have.

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