How I Raped Your Mother: Indian filmmakers fight sexism with satirical videos

An all-women Indian production team is out to challenge conservative attitudes

An all-women Indian production team is out to challenge conservative attitudes. SCREENGRAB

From The Period Song to How I Raped Your Mother, one all-women Indian production team is challenging conservative attitudes with no-holds-barred satirical videos that are causing a stir online.

Mumbai-based filmmakers "Girliyapa" have released a series of hard-hitting clips that tackle misogyny, with subjects ranging from marital rape, which is not a crime in India, to social stigmas surrounding menstruation cycles.

"Our videos aren't preachy but laced with humour and to the point, which drives the message home rather effectively," group head Tracy D'Souza told AFP in an interview.

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The five videos, which vary from music and dance sequences to mini-sitcoms, have received more than five million total views since the first one was uploaded onto YouTube last October.

But the ten-member Girliyapa team have also faced plenty of online sexist abuse from anonymous critics wanting to silence them.

Tracy D'Souza, head of the filmmaking group Girliyappa, with team members during a meeting at their office in Mumbai. PHOTO: AFP/Indranil Mukherjee


Their skits are the type that never screen on India's main television networks, dominated by soap operas whose sari-clad female characters almost always play traditional roles of mother and housewife.

Girliyapa is one of several filmmaking teams taking the internet by storm, tackling social issues, but also tapping into a growing desire among India's youth for a more modern portrayal of women on screen.

India's massive Hindi film industry has been regularly criticised for depicting women as meek and subjecting female characters to aggressive methods of wooing by dominant male leads.

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Critics point to Bollywood superstar Salman Khan's controversial comment recently that his heavy training schedule for wrestling movie Sultan left him feeling "like a raped woman", as an insight into attitudes in the industry.

In How I Raped Your Mother, a play on the title of hit American sitcom How I Met Your Mother, Girliyapa tackles old-fashioned familial attitudes towards marital rape, which is not illegal under Indian law.

In the 13-minute satirical video, a daughter complains to members of her family that her husband has been sexually abusing her. The mother says it's just part of marriage while the father terms it "intense love-making".

"Political statements aren't solving the real issue. So we decided to make the video to highlight rape and violence against women," Ratnabali Bhattacharjee, a Girliyapa scriptwriter who plays the role of the mother, told AFP.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLLxUvdmQpw


Indian filmmaker Paromita Vohra also deals with the subject of consent in a short online sitcom entitled The Amorous Adventures of Shakku and Megha in the Valley of Consent uploaded on YouTube in March.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLsqNCzSkZQ

It's part of her project called "Agents of Ishq," meaning love in both Hindi and Urdu, which aims to create awareness about women's rights and sex education through videos and animated graphics.

And both sitcom web series Girl in the City, on youth television channel Bindass, and Ladies Room are also proving a massive hit online with their 21st century depictions of independent-minded women.

Girl in the City is about a 21-year-old who moves to financial capital Mumbai to follow her dream of being a fashion stylist.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S3E8FHEglbs

Ladies Room sees two female protagonists discuss subjects ranging from relationships to pregnancy, all while in a women's washroom. In one episode they even smoke drugs, something rarely seen on Indian television.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNBmWstLZp0

Girliyapa's The Period Song celebrates the menstruation cycle, a taboo subject in deeply patriarchal India where women are often banned from religious sites and even rooms in their own home during their periods.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MudzWRLTHCw

Another of their videos deals with young women buying condoms, while trying to navigate internet dating is the subject of one of their other productions.

Analysts say the videos are playing an important role in overturning gender biases.

"Digital media can help educate, advocate and encourage people to adopt attitudes and behaviour that promote gender equality," Mumbai-based women's safety activist Elsa D'Silva told AFP.

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However it's also online where women are being subjected to misogynistic trolling, including sexual slurs and threats of rape, all in a bid to shame them into silence.

The Girliyapa team say they have faced such attacks every time they have released a new video, but remain determined in their quest to change attitudes.

"We won't stop telling our stories. People will have to accept the narrative despite all their inherent inhibitions," co-writer Shruti Madan told AFP.
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