The way Pakistan’s middle class is raised has a lot to do with the lack of political and social activism that we traditionally display. “Politics and religion are two things you should never discuss with your friends.” I remember my parents repeatedly telling me when I was young. It’s always difficult to accept that your parents might be wrong — especially if their advice usually helps in the long term — but the time has come to disregard what we've been taught about the benefits of political disengagement.
More often than not, the lives of the brightest minds in Pakistan are a mad dash to accumulate value in their own lives. For example, when you interview bright, young Pakistani candidates for a job and ask them why they’d like to take that particular job, their answer is almost always something along the lines of ‘this will look good on my CV’ or ‘will help me grow my skill sets’ but they almost never talk about the value they will add to an organisation or how their skills will help an existing team grow.
What we need today is a ‘tsunami’ that reforms the individual before it seeks to reform society. Pakistan is a country anchored in patronage; we survive by exchanging favours and thrive by seeking to trade up in a zero-sum game. A mindset shift is needed to turn this game on its head. In a society where everyone is scrambling to accumulate value for themselves, can you imagine the impact one individual can make if they dedicate their life (or a part of their life) to create value for others. If you want to understand how men and women, who create value for others, make an impact on society, look no further than Abdul Sattar Edhi.
Now, let’s come back down to earth and understand how we can create value for others in our everyday life. Mentoring a younger colleague, cousin or an underprivileged child for just an hour a day is a great start. If you work in marketing, join a political party you care about and help them re-brand their image for a demographic group they’re struggling with. If you’re a banker, spend an hour designing a fund-raising campaign for a charity you care about. If you don’t want to do ‘real’ work, speak up within your circle of family, friends and colleagues to advocate causes you’re passionate about, for example, tolerance, respect for minority rights and a violence free society. The great thing about being a Pakistani citizen, apart from never being bored by the news, is that we have enough problems for each and every one of us to make a real impact in society, without having to wait for the government to tell us what to do and how to do it. Imagine the multiplier effect of a second tsunami — one that doesn’t seek to rally people around one leader but instead, seeks to make leaders out of people.
The flip side of the coin that views Pakistan as a dysfunctional country with a broken system of governance is that we as individuals have the opportunity to make a disproportionate difference in society. It’s infectious — the energy that comes with dedicating a part of your life to a cause bigger than yourself. A movement of individuals who seek to create value for society can snowball into an unstoppable force for good in the country. Perhaps, the time has finally come for us to rise to the occasion and become the leaders we’ve been waiting for.
Published in The Express Tribune, February 27th, 2014.
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The writer makes some very good points. When he says getting politically involved, to me it means getting involved in politics including running for elections and getting to legislatures. Although individual actions can do their bit, the conditions of our whole nation cannot be improved without improving governance. How to get governments made up of people who are willing to think beyond family and class benefits for everyone in Pakistan? That is our biggest challenge. The biggest hurdle is that the priviliged sit at the top perpetuating their own previlige providing little real governance. Breaking that vicious circle is the biggest challenge for Pakistan's new generation (and that involves everyone male and female, not just priviliged urban younth).
@Arslan, You and IK are confusing pakistanis. As Indian I never saw IK saying military should engage with those who do not want peace till recently. Only when TTP was willing to talk IK changed tunes, before that IK was bending backwards to every section of TTP / GOVT for going for peace talks. You can check all his speaches before elections, after elections, after KPK govt formation and after TTP looking out for peace talks you can come to your own conclusion.
Really ridiculous how you and IK change stance every weak or forthnight.
You nailed it ...
Indeed the time has finally come for us to rise to the occasion and become the leaders we’ve been waiting for.
@Ali S Hater will hate, Dont know which youth you represent, Dense Majority of people in Pakistan with little or even no common sense, Understand that war is no solution, the only way is peace. But the question is peace with whom?
Those who despite everything are ready to burn Pakistan our land to ground or with those who want to engage in a dialogue, definitely with those who want to come to peace.
"PTI and IK stance has been crystal clear on this matter, That Pakistan military should engage with only those militant groups who do not want peace and should proceed for Dialogue with those who do. It is a simple as that, media is confusing people."
History will prove to be a witness that despite no matter how many battles Pakistan will have to go for dialogues in the end. So why not now?
Beautiful, simply and inspiring.
As the comments by Ali S prove your point, rather than blaming leaders or calling others gullible, should do our part. There's no black and white in many thing including politics and leaders, even the dynamic and charismatic Khan are fallible. Continuing to change and evolve and adjusting according to the needs of the day and your changing viewpoints due to exposure is a good thing. Imran Khan's shift in stance shows maturity cause a leader who is willing o learn from his mistakes or is open to learning is certainly on the right track. Cheers.
Really a good article, and very positive to read amongst all the junk news. Its really the time for individuals to work and think for progress and indeed its the real Tsunami which starts from individuals. I am out of the country since last two years, and I know how much skilled each one of us is and it makes me feel real proud belonging to that nation.
@ Ali S It was not Imran Khan's 'policy on religious terrorism' that gained him the support of the young, educated middle class. (PML-N had the same policy) Youth supported him for his honesty and his stance on corruption & social justice.