She wore a beautifully embellished peach jora and he, a loosely-fitted suit with a peach tie to match. She’s married to the television and he, to the courtroom.
Despite belonging to completely different professions, they have similar stories and find comfort in each other’s company. TV show host, model and actor Mehr Bano Kazim aka Juggun Kazim exchanged rings with top-notch lawyer and columnist for The Express Tribune Feisal H Naqvi on late Saturday afternoon at Cosa Nostra in the presence of about 50 close friends and family. One guest told us that she has never looked this beautiful and this happy!
“We were introduced by mutual friends, Sanam Taseer and her husband,” Juggun says, narrating how she met Naqvi. She admits that the two did not get along right off the bat, saying, “We did not click when we first talked a year ago.”
Juggun, who has a very vibrant TV personality, says that the two are completely different people. “I am a very serious and practical person, whereas Feisal is completely chilled-out — opposite of what we both may look like!”
But somehow, Cupid struck and the two started to get along. “We were having lunch one day and he took me by surprise by asking ‘How would it be if we married each other?’” Juggun recalls. “I told him I would think about it only if he proposes to me formally.” A week later, Juggun went to meet his parents and soon after, she “started calling them mummy and daddy”!
But though she is delighted about having found her partner, the morning show host confesses that she had a strained previous marriage. “I had a terrible experience from my last marriage. I am in a better place — somewhere I hadn’t been in a very long time,” she says. Juggun, whose first marriage ended nearly seven years ago, has a son named Hamza. Naqvi is also divorced with two children. “Being with someone who has been married in the past and has children is good for me, because he can empathise with me,” she says.
Mutual friend Sanam Taseer had introduced the two. PHOTO: SHAFIQ MALIK/EXPRESS
Juggun considers Hamza an integral part of her life. “After God, I only have Hamza as my support,” says Juggun. “I wanted him to have a father who is loving, protective and caring. I have found a father for him in Feisal; he and Hamza connect very well.”
She says she would never have remarried without her son’s consent. “Hamza comes before anyone else. We take decisions together. I asked Hamza what he thinks about Feisal and he said he really likes him and encouraged me to marry him.”
As a single mother, Juggun had her apprehensions, but says that Naqvi made the transition easy for her. “Feisal is a father so he knows how to deal with Hamza. He is always nice to him and I could tell that he’s not just faking it in order to get close to me. His love for Hamza is heartfelt,” she says.
Talking about her relationship with Naqvi, she says “It’s so good to be with someone who is supportive, loving and encouraging. I have shed 12kg ever since I’ve been with him!”
“A while back, I would be embarrassed if any friends asked me to model for them. I could not say no, yet I had to, because I wasn’t in shape. But since I’ve been with him, I have started feeling good about myself.”
Juggun says her son Hamza's consent was important to her, Meesha Shafi was amongst the few friends and family who attended the engagement lunch . PHOTO: SHAFIQ MALIK/EXPRESS
Contrary to elaborate showbiz weddings, Juggun says the decision to not have an extravagant affair is mutual. “We don’t want a tamasha!,” she begins. “We are both divorced; I have a kid and he has two. It will be very stupid if we have an elaborate wedding with a mehendi, mayyun, milaad and other functions.” With a wedding event scheduled for June 30, the couple will also host a musical evening. The couple plans to honeymoon in Vienna, Austria, where Feisal has a house.
Juggun is adamant on not quitting her career. “If you find someone who is well-settled, you don’t have to work to make a living. Now I can do what I want without thinking that I am doing it for a living.”
When contacted, Naqvi was reluctant to give details but did say that he’s happy with Juggun. “She’s an absolutely fabulous person. I am really happy to be with her.”
We wish them all the best in health and happiness!
Published in The Express Tribune, May 7th, 2013.
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it's her second marriage,not third
what happened to bilal lashari??
Wow Express Tribune -- where did all the other comments go?! Since when is ET so concerned about people's reputations that it deletes so many readers' comments?
Nice couple, best of luck. My you have a long life and great family. Speaking of family and values let us hope our fav leader also finds a Pakistani Muslim woman and marry her. He has played his first test in England in the first week or June 1971, or exactly 42 years ago and first first class more than 44 years ago. During all this time there was not a single Pakistani girl good enough but they are all good enough to lead!
Feisal Naqvi is an astute political analyst. His oped.'s are coherently written. I love how he speaks for people who can't speak for themselves. Shias, Hazara and minorities who have suffered at the hand of terrorist and radicals. I rank him high along Pervez Hoodhboy and Hasan Askari Rizvi for his well articulated oped.
Faisal Naqvi owns a house in Vienna (one of the most expensive cities in the world?). Are you sure he isn't anything more than a part-time journalist and lawyer (as he claims)?
I like the crisp writings of Faisal ..... I like the lively smile of Ms Kazmi .... best of luck for the relationship as well as getting along with the kids of each other ..... it is a tough nut to crack but worth doing it for a family ...... if we come across in Vienna, i am definitely requesting a pic with you two ..... cheers
@Zee: Are you his or her relative???
Well settled or well established?!
If you publish your story in some news website, then people would obviously talk about it! Apart from marriages she has been in relationships as well, so count them too :) Good luck with this marriage :)
I feel Feisal do not suit Juggan. He does not seem fashion appropriate with our damsel of the nation. Atleast, something should have been done about the loosely fitted jacket. I am jealous, though.
This guy is one of the few sane voices in journalism in pakistan today. i feel truly happy to see you happy sir. Hope this brings all in your life that anyone can imagine and you can even increase the good work you are already doing by raising your voice against minority persecution in pakistan.
We are simply following the footsteps of western societies, sometime back it was Naveen and Azfar story, now this, we have lost touch with our traditions.
May they remain together and hope there is no one hurt and unhappy because of this marriage taking place. God bless
"Now I can do what I want without thinking that I am doing it for a living”, says Juggan. Hasn't she been doing exactly that on TV????
Cmon guys, 2nd or 3rd , what does it matter? nikah is always good. i hope they live happily ever after. congrats to the lovely couple!
To Umair Waheed : Please don't be jealous if Dorky successful guys end up marrying beautiful women. The Parents of every girl want their girl to marry financially successful shareef boys instead of awara MTV guys.
Amazing couple.............both intellient both opinionated. Wish them all the very best.
Re - some of the comments - this is not her third wedding - it is her 4th. There was a well respected feudal from lahore she claimed to have married but his family forbid him to bring her home as per her past reputation. It is good Faisel family has accepted woman like her which no family would take.
Congratulations and best of luck!
People here need to relax a bit.
Ermm you may want to check your facts ET. This will be Juggan's third marriage. Her first was to a guy in Toronto, then came a guy in Karachi, and now this guy. That adds up to three in my book.
Really happy for Feisal Naqvi. I am a huge fan of his writing; good to know not all is morose with him.
Congrats to Feisal and Juggun...really happy for them and their kids.
For those questioning the logic behind it, I think it is more of a celebrity marriage. Juggun is a TV personality and Feisal is a famous lawyer (he often blogs for ET as well in case you have noticed).
I am so happy for her! The couple looks great and she does look really beautiful. All th best to th couple! Such cuteness haye!
They don't want a 'tamasha' but long op-eds in the express tribune are fine?
cannot understand why this is news-worthy?
I dont even know who these people are?
@ET: As a single mother, Juggun had her apprehensions...
Based on how our society perceives single mothers, you might want to correct that to a "divorced mother"
No one cares...
A wedding is always good news. Hope this works for both of them.
ET..Please do not promote such riffraff in your paper.