Written in the stars: Ensnare the Aries man

With his natural charm and masculine looks, an Aries man is a real catch who will instantly slip into your fantasies.

March 20 — April 19

Attracted to an Aries man? Ms T has the inside scoop on how to make the irresistible Aries fall in love with you for life

Inside the Aries head

With his natural charm and masculine looks, an Aries man is a real catch who will instantly slip into your world of fantasies. However, every Ram needs some space to wander off on his own and so does the Aries man. He is bossy, impatient, demanding and lives life on his own terms. If you have managed to tickle his romantic bone, he will not take no for an answer. But beware! His impulsive drive means he will get over his infatuation and hop onto the next adventure before you even know it. Despite having a hunger for freedom and independence, what he is looking for in a partner is completely the opposite: trust, honesty and security are paramount to him in a relationship. He is analytical and loves a challenge but if you want to stick around for the long haul, get ready to embrace his lifestyle.

How to put a leash on your Ram 

1.  How long he stays is really up to you. Be intelligent, mysterious and let him explore your layers. The sooner he finishes the task at hand, the faster he will walk all over you.

2.  Be confident, independent and make sure you have a life of your own. An Aries man likes a girl with some brains and her own set of interests.

Don’t get his goat

1.  Have a large group of male friends? That’s not likely to go down well with the Ram who is prone to jealousy. Such friendships are only likely to wake up the beast inside him.

2.  Are you clingy? Enjoy a great deal of pampering? Aries is not your guy! The Aries man is unable to understand the finer points of a relationship so don’t expect this one to nurture your feelings.

Match made in heaven

Aries man – Sagittarius woman

This is a relationship that comes to life naturally. Both are fire signs and both have similar mindsets. A Sagittarius woman’s romantic warmth can heal every wound the Aries gets from his strong attitude towards life while the Aries man’s bravery and deep-seated sentiments are likely to gain admiration from her.

DON’T even think about it

Aries man — Cancer woman

A Cancer woman is an epitome of calmness and sensitivity unlike the Aries man. He is not interested in her feelings and the Cancer woman may feel that he is very self-absorbed. On the other hand, he prefers instant physical intimacy and may not have the patience to wait for this cool maiden.

Published in The Express Tribune, Ms T, March 24^th, 2013.

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