Kate Bush mourns close friend lost during festive swim

Kate Bush is heartbroken as her longtime friend Matthew Upham remains missing after a Christmas swim

Kate Bush has expressed her heartbreak after her close friend, Matthew Upham, went missing during a Christmas Day swim off the Devon coast. The 67-year-old singer confirmed that Upham, an antiques dealer she had known for 30 years, was one of two men still unaccounted for following a major rescue operation in Budleigh Salterton. Emergency services were called on Christmas morning after several swimmers got into difficulty amid stormy conditions. While some were rescued and treated by paramedics, Mr Upham, 63, remains missing despite extensive shoreline and offshore searches.

In a statement on her official website, Bush described Upham as “one of my very dearest friends,” highlighting his kindness, thoughtfulness, and zest for life. She noted that he was a strong swimmer who had a deep respect for the sea and a love of kayaking. Reports suggest that Mr Upham attempted to help a woman in distress before being swept away by the waves. “The world has lost someone incredibly special,” Bush said, paying tribute to his warmth, generosity, and spirit.

Tributes have poured in from Upham’s family, friends, and customers. His business released a statement expressing that they were “heartbroken by the loss,” while locals and loved ones thanked the RNLI, coastguard, and emergency responders for their efforts. Friends remembered him as “the kindest person” and “a bringer of joy,” reflecting the deep connections he had within his community.

Authorities have urged the public to exercise caution during festive sea swims, warning that cold water shock and unpredictable conditions can quickly become life-threatening. The tragedy serves as a sobering reminder of the risks posed by winter seas, even for experienced swimmers.

Bush’s heartfelt tribute underscores the profound impact Mr Upham had on her life over three decades of friendship. While rescue efforts continue, the loss has left a lasting mark on the singer and all who knew him.