Agha Ali and his wife Hina Altaf have landed themselves in hot waters over insensitive comments made on a local morning show.
Talking to the host, Nida Yasir, about their life as a newly-wed couple, actors Agha and Hina decided to share a request that the former had made right before their marriage. “Right before our wedding, Agha showed me a picture on his phone and just asked me one thing. He said, ‘If you ever get this fat…” relayed Hina, before being cut off by Agha.
Agha then explained what he ‘actually said’. “Before our marriage, I only asked for one promise. I said that I don’t want anything else except this one promise,” he said before turning to Hina, asking her to share the ‘promise’. “Please don’t get fat,” said Hina, as Agha and Nida laughed along.
wtf is cute about it??? it’s disgusting and he’s feeling proud about it pic.twitter.com/VSHW6ZyJlB
— sar dard | wiz stan acc (@deadbitchhhh) August 8, 2020
The one-minute clip was shared on Twitter by confused viewers, who criticised the couple for promoting ‘body-shaming’ and normalising it. Some also called them out for showcasing ‘conditional’ love.
“Appalled at how men dismay women in the name of love. Love is supposed to be with you through thick and thin but sadly it has become trafficking for men to begin with. They start from objectifying your body to controlling it,” wrote one user.
Appalled at how men dismay women in the name of love. Love supposed to be with u through thick and thin but sadly it has become a trafficking for men to begin with. They start from objectifying your body to controlling it. Men are not lovers, they are more perverts than trash.
— Sana♠️ (@sannyhehe) August 9, 2020
Another shared how the issue hit close at home. “I’ve seen fat-shaming happen openly. It happened to my sister in front of other people. It is not okay to ask for something so unrealistic when weight gain can be caused by a number of things,” they said.
One user pointed out how there were more layers to be pondered over. “We should also talk about how this was probably normalised in his house growing up which is why he thinks it is okay to continue to process. Disgusting.”
We should also talk about how this was probably normalized in his house growing up and that his mom and sister probably were treated the same way which is why he thinks it's okay to continue to process. Ugh disgusting.
— AUGUST 21st! ⁷ (@cheonunbangtan) August 8, 2020
Indeed, the clip has left a sour taste in many mouths, in a society where men and women, both, are judged by their appearances. The cycle needs to end and it is high time that celebrities rise to the challenge and make good use of their platforms.
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If saying, "try your best to stay fit, toned and healthy" would have been okay. Saying "do not get fat" is really that bad? Seems overreaction by over sensitive people.
It’s about personal preferences. There is nothing wrong to talk about being fat. Obesity in real and it can happen due to overeating, laziness or because of certain disease. In some case it can be caused by personal habits and that is when people say something about that.
We all r so 2 face we all mostly don't like to be fat .how many people u see in showbiz married to fat ladies let alone in real life.although been fat is not good for health but i have seen so many beautiful fat people in my life.so leave poor man alnoe and happy
Body positivity is a thing you know?