10 pieces of advice for first-time solo travellers

After a few solo adventures, we’ve learned going off on your own isn’t as easy as it may seem. But, as compiled from The Huffington Post, here are a few bits of wisdom that could make your journey easier.

1. Be truthful about your needs

It’s okay to not know what you’re getting yourself into. There are so many things that are and aren’t going to happen on this trip unexpected. Therefore, you should also be truthful about what you want and need. If you want to meet new people, then you can plan your trip in a way that caters to that. If you want to sleep a little more comfortably, spend the extra money and make it happen.

2. Don’t have everything planned

Sounds scary but leave some room for spontaneity and unforeseeable adventures.

3. Be prepared to be vulnerable...

Be hyper self-aware of your awkwardness and insecurities. This is not meant to scare you, but being alone in a new place and meeting new people can be terrifying. Just remember there’s a reason you wanted to do this and also, that you can do it if you’re going through with it.

4. Always keep more cash than you think you’ll require

Never keep it in the same place! You won’t have someone with you to spot you or bail you out. You never know when you’ll need to convert more money, when cash is the only payment type accepted or if you have ended up losing your cards.

5. Maintain travel records

Email a copy of your passport, airline tickets and lodging confirmation to yourself and a loved one. You never know when you might end up needing it so best be prepared.

6. Don’t pack more than you can carry

You are solely responsible for your belongings throughout the journey. You’re going to want to be comfortable with them, whether it’s walking up three staircases in a hostel or taking public transportation to and from the airport. Plus, you never know if you’re going to spontaneously want to hop on a train to a neighboring city for a night. So invest in a lock, pack light and choose a practical day-bag with zippers and pockets so you can store everything safely.

7. Bring a deck of cards and a good book

Cards are a great way to break the ice with other travellers. A good book is great company at cafes, solo meals and on a bench with a spectacular view.

8. Keep a journal

Journaling works wonders when jotting down adventures and memories but also exploring one’s feelings, thoughts and fears. At least write on the flight to your destination and the way back. It’s incredible to see the difference in your mindset.

9. Remember: people are inherently kind

Talking to strangers can be a scary feat but grab that deck of cards and just do it. Hang out in common spaces in the hostel, make eye contact, smile and be aware of how you’re presenting your friendliness. Initiate conversations when you have the slightest desire to and go to that social event by yourself. People are likely to be kind in return, nine-out-of-10 times. Also, talk to the locals of wherever you are. They’ll give you tips you wouldn’t have known on your own. You’ll directly learn so much about the history and culture of a place by talking to the people who live there.

10. Embrace the awkwardness and loneliness

Don’t fight these feelings and get upset when they overwhelm you. They are critical and uncomfortable aspects of traveling alone, but they will teach you so much about yourself. Remember: you are equipped with everything you need — strength, intuition, a sense of adventure — to make this trip everything it should be. 

Published in The Express Tribune, July 21^st, 2016.

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