10 things men do that make women fall deeper in love

Published: November 3, 2015
Ladies, most men may not be like the ones you see in movies, but if he does these things for you, he's the one. PHOTO: INSTAGRAM/IFAWADKHAN

Ladies, most men may not be like the ones you see in movies, but if he does these things for you, he's the one. PHOTO: INSTAGRAM/IFAWADKHAN

Films give you unrealistic expectations of love when they portray characters like Raj from DDLJ and Jack from Titanic. The real world is very different from the reel world — here, very few will spread their arms wide for you in public or die for you in the ocean.


However, men don’t have to sacrifice their lives in order to prove their love, they can make women fall deeper in love by doing other things:

1. Making plans


When a man plans, it’s almost as exciting as him proposing. Whether he’s organizing a date, weekend trip or an afternoon walk, it really makes the ladies happy. It shows them that he’s putting an effort into the relationship, and women really appreciate that.

2. Being a good listener


Listening to your woman without grunting and passing comments is rare, but highly appreciated. Whether she’s whining, complaining or just wants to talk about her, lend and ear and listen intently. She will feel cherished.

Remember things she mentions, especially from the past, she will truly appreciate it, and show her that you pay attention to what she says. Favourite flowers, books, chocolates — take note and remember them all.

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3. Showing vulnerability


It’s extraordinary when a man can openly and honestly talk about his feelings with a woman. This level of comfort is great because it shows that he trusts his woman with his feelings and emotions. It also allows the woman to be at ease around him when dealing with her emotions.

4. Cooking for her


Women find it particularly ‘cute’ when a man knows his way around the kitchen. It shows that he is capable and confident. Cooking takes patience and shows them that you’re cherish-worthy.

5. Going shopping


Shopping is a favorite pastime of many women, and though it may not be on many men’s to-do list, women love it when a man can keep up with her shopping sprees without throwing a tantrum. Tip: You get bonus points for giving your opinion.

6. It’s okay to be nerdy


Being a little nerdy makes women drool. Whether he’s excited about the novel he’s reading or giving math lessons to the neighbour’s kid, it shows that he’s not afraid to embrace his geeky side.

7. Compromise is key


When a man does something for his significant other that he wouldn’t ordinarily want to do, it makes the woman’s heart melt. Being sweet and thoughtful always goes a long way. They really appreciate you doing something you’re not eager to do.

8. Get sporty


Women like seeing men fired up and passionate about sports. When they roar at the TV and get involved in a match, women secretly love it.

9. Displaying affection


Being affectionate and sweet to a woman is the best way to gain her love. Whether you put your arm around her when she’s least expecting it, or hold her hand, it makes her heart skip a beat.

10. Love her family


Women absolutely adore it when men make an effort with their families. When he gets close and involved proves that he’s not just there to impress the woman, but also gain her family’s approval.

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Ladies, most men may not be like the ones you see in movies and are vastly different from what you imagined them to be, but if a man does the above for you, cherish him. He’s the one.

This article originally appeared on HuffPost.

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Reader Comments (17)

  • xyz
    Nov 3, 2015 - 4:54PM

    Most of it makes sense, but all depend on the timing too. Recommend

  • Ali S
    Nov 3, 2015 - 5:28PM

    This list is so obvious that you might as well add: 11.) Don’t smack her across the face for no reason in front of everyoneRecommend

  • Raja
    Nov 3, 2015 - 6:30PM

    Hello boss…are you sure about no.08?? In my case it’s opposite….Recommend

  • Mrs HighBall
    Nov 3, 2015 - 7:23PM

    What about that all-important deal-clincher: sporting a long bushy beard and gallant mustaches ? Just the things women throughout South Asia swoon for.Recommend

  • umar tariq
    Nov 3, 2015 - 8:36PM

    Useless ! Tried all of these. :/ Recommend

  • Milind
    Nov 3, 2015 - 9:48PM

    @Ali S – “This list is so obvious”

    Agreed.. However the first sentence “Films give you unrealistic expectations of love when they portray characters like Raj from DDLJ and Jack from Titanic” makes this list worth repeating, or emphasizingRecommend

  • Nov 3, 2015 - 9:50PM

    man some of them are we can do it but some of them are not possible bohat mushkil hai bhaiiiiiiRecommend

  • Jorukaghulam
    Nov 3, 2015 - 9:51PM

    Women are women…. Never happy with whatever you do!!! Recommend

  • echoboom
    Nov 3, 2015 - 10:59PM

    Typical out of reality nonsesnse….a crow trying to be swan stuffRecommend

  • truth_speaker
    Nov 3, 2015 - 11:00PM

    You forgot the most important one: Make lots and lots of money that she can freely spend ;PRecommend

  • Timorlane
    Nov 3, 2015 - 11:52PM

    1 thing women do that will make

    men fall deeper in love:

    Don’t expect any of the 10

    from men.Recommend

  • Aneela
    Nov 4, 2015 - 9:19AM

    @ everyone come on guys, this is not useless or crap these all are so damn true to make women happy Recommend

  • Nov 4, 2015 - 6:24PM

    @umar tariq:
    Continue doing all this to your wife you will get results iA.my husband continued and now I love him so much after so much of his try..Recommend

  • xubair
    Nov 4, 2015 - 10:29PM

    Very True Recommend

  • Malangi
    Nov 4, 2015 - 11:00PM

    Forget all this and be yourself don’t need to pretend any thing,, I can’t waste my life impressing others, Be a genuine person don’t author wants us to become Shahrukh KhanRecommend

  • prabhjyot singh madan
    Nov 5, 2015 - 1:58AM

    So guiding us fools :) appreciate the article. Rab rakhaRecommend

  • Nov 5, 2015 - 4:15PM

    oh I love number 9 :)Recommend

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