The blessed season

It is time to reclaim this blessed season and bring back the one thing it was meant to inculcate — empathy

Aisha Sarwari July 16, 2015
The writer is a freelance writer based in Islamabad. She blogs at She can be followed on Twitter @AishaFsarwari

The holy month of Ramazan can have three sides to it, depending on who is on the receiving end. There is the good, the not so good and the bad. Because there is a lot more of it, let us start with the good. Philanthropy goes up during the month. Alleviating human suffering is not just the cornerstone of our religion; it is a practice among all devout people. In Pakistan, in particular, this month sees a sharp increase in the giving of charity from across the socioeconomic strata. Even if they don’t have a lot of money at their disposal, Pakistanis still have big hearts to help those in need in cash and kind. Any sceptic just needs to visit a Shaukat Khanum or an Akhuwat fundraising iftar to realise that Pakistanis are, perhaps, the most generous and conscientious people in the world. The above organisations are among our most credible charitable institutions with publicly available account audit reports.

Then there is the festivity the season brings. In the days leading up to Eid, Pakistan becomes the diametrically opposite experience of everything the HBO show “Homeland” depicts it to be — there is colour, henna, embroidered Sunday bests, house upgrades and all the beauty parlours make up for the energy shortfalls of the year. This is not insignificant; this is the experience that every child growing up in Pakistan will remember and this will be the reason why he or she will eventually be pulled back to contribute to his or her motherland. We are building a cache of memories, which will help make a future for Pakistan.

The aromatic meethi Eid is perhaps, the sweetest day Pakistan has, and God knows we could do with sweet days. Eid is also a day we retrospectively connect with those who lost loved ones. It humanises us and we could do with that too: some more humanity. As slowly and steadily what defines Pakistaniat is taken away from us by an intellect-less leadership — Basant being a case in point — we need to hold on to the traditions we still have. The Islamic State now thinks Eid prayers are un-Islamic. We need to turn exactly 180 degrees away from that obscurantist mindset. Such a turnaround lies in adorning our children with the colours of festivity and culture.

Peaceful rituals often enable us to develop the ability to ward off evil — the addictions, the loneliness and the isolation. They bring harmony to thousands, ensure that there is a sense of sacrifice and control the beast that Pakistanis are often found unleashing in the form of road rage and domestic disputes. Yet, how much of this goodness do we channel positively? Much of it unfortunately ends up in the bad category.

The generosity that peaks in Ramazan is hardly organised, despite it being abundant. This month provides the 15 minutes of fame for the religious right, who actually profiteer from religiosity instead of being humbled by its blessings. There are many groups that are indistinguishable from hard core terrorist organisations. They have franchised terror and yet are found opening Zakat/alms collection centres at busy traffic points, without fear for any censure from authorities. People who are taken in by the symbolism of religiosity donate to these organisations openly to compensate for their human failings and guilt.

Then it gets really ugly too. A man from Somalia asked a mufti in Saudi Arabia if he should fast when there is no food to break the fast or to keep it. The mufti broke down and cried after listening to his plight. In Karachi, around 40,000 people were treated for heatstroke and over a thousand could not be treated and hydrated in time, resulting in around 1,300 deaths. The poor were the biggest sufferers here because they often have to work with their hands to get the wage and food that will fuel them for another day of work. Making the miserable more miserable has got to be a greater sin than any other.

It is ugly to convert this month of simplicity into a month of excess and artery-clogging food, while on the other hand the poor get sick and die. It is time to reclaim this blessed season and bring back the one thing it was meant to inculcate — empathy.

Published in The Express Tribune, July 17th,  2015.

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Parvez | 8 years ago | Reply Well said but most will agree with you even loudly say what you say....and then go out and do exactly the opposite. So obviously the message is not registering......possibly what we need is less religiosity and a return to basic religious beliefs .......leave it up to man and his God.
Adil Khan | 8 years ago | Reply Exellent Aisha. Well said, just what we need to hear in this month when people go to great excesses and forget the obvious and the reasons for the whole exercise. Touching words towards the end.
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