Enough has already been written on Malala’s historic moment and so I will not comment further, but allow me to dwell a little on the larger topic of child rights in South Asia.
First, it is very significant that Malala’s co-winner of the Nobel Peace Prize is Kailash Satyarthi, a child rights activist from India. This joint win clearly exhibits that despite the attempts to show India and Pakistan as polar opposites, by certain quarters in both countries, their problems, solutions, and indeed destinies, lay intertwined. For example, Mr Satyarthi has to date saved more than 80,000 children from the menace of child labour in India — something which still plagues Pakistan. His work is as critical in India as it is in Pakistan. Similarly, issues relating to child education (both Pakistan and India have a right to education law), and especially girl child education and basic rights, are a shared struggle. By recognising the joint struggle of India and Pakistan in this endeavour, the Nobel committee has certainly put us in the right perspective.
Secondly, a few weeks ago, I watched a very well-made documentary from Britain’s Channel 4 entitled, “Pakistan’s Hidden Shame”. It is a harrowing tale of people we see almost every day in our lives but care little about — street children. There are about four million street children in Pakistan — in itself a tragic situation — but what is worse is that a large percentage of these children are regularly sexually abused. We all know about it — tales of such atrocities abound —but neither society nor the government seems to care much. A society’s progress is certainly known by how it treats is most vulnerable and our ambivalent attitude towards protection of street children is simply unforgiveable. Time has come for the government to make clear laws protecting children from child abuse and increasing arrest and prosecution of offenders. What use is there of the government to protect us from the Taliban when a percentage of our next generation is repeatedly being dehumanised under our own eyes?
Thirdly, I want to raise the issue of child abuse within families. Recently, I have come across many people who were abused as children, and even in their twenties and thirties — and even later — the memory of those events scars them deeply. For those of you who have seen the recent movie, Highway, character Veera’s (Alia Bhatt) monologue about her repeated abuse by an ‘uncle’ is not just a film script but a reality suffered by hundreds of thousands in our midst. Over the years, I have repeatedly heard the complaint in Pakistan that in the ‘West’, children have too many rights and can even get their parents arrested for slapping them. While some child protection laws in the West might have gone a bit overboard, generally these are very good laws and protect children to a large extent. Paedophilia is a real crime and is pervasive in our society and needs to be controlled immediately. The emotional and psychological scars children suffer at the hands of such monsters affect them for their whole lives and it is our duty as a society to help prevent such happenings.
Being a historian, I usually have a pessimistic view about drastic changes in society. Hence, my scepticism about the ‘inquilab’. However, if in reality things are changing, and the country is waking up to smell the coffee, so to speak, should and can we not begin with protecting the youngest and most vulnerable members of our society? Only then will the real inquilab begin.
Published in The Express Tribune, October 14th, 2014.
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Well i thought the article would tell about the malala incident and would summarize the education system but sad to say people only criticize like in this article by so called yaqoob sahb..... wht u have done so far in your life to protect child labor or just criticizing in every article why not Eidhi sahb who led so many children in his whole life struggling fr this child labour...... Show the other side every time dnt make Pakistan image naked only other side must also be told...
@Mirza:
You cannot hold people responsible for the choices they make in personal lives, unless you are a hidden fascist. If Imran married a White woman and then separated from his wife and she got custody of the kids, why does it pain you so much? It is none of your business. Your business is to hold people holding public office expending public funds. Your hopeless PM goes on junkets at public expenditures all over the word to grow his personal business and instead of complaining, you sing praises of him.
I mean what kind of a morality have you cultivated over the years? I sympathise with you as think your childhood trauma at the hand of unsavoury relatives has left you confused. I suggest a prolonged psychotherapy to get back to your senses.
@Anjaan: Indian Nobel Peace Prize Laureate Satyarthi considers that "Child labour, illiteracy and poverty is a triangle." He also cites examples of child labourers being sexually exploited and points out that poverty is used to justify child labour and that it is not entirely about poverty. Child labourers are also routinely flogged and subject to violence so violence is an issue in both groups relevant to both Nobel Prize winners..
@SV: First thanks for those who bothered to read my post. I appreciate that. @Ranjha: I have no time to hate anybody. I do not like the lifestyle of those who never worked for a living and never took care of their own Girls and Boys. Leaving kids all around the world is easy but be responsible and taking care of them makes humans better than animals. I have a Pakistani spouse and I am a proud parent and take care of my kids with my own money and not leave them for someone else. I cannot live far away from my kids let alone not even recognize them and embrace them openly and honestly. I have several cousins and hundreds of countrywomen who are without a husband. Those who love only rich white western women deprive our sisters of a husband. There has not been a single Pakistani woman this Playboy liked in his entire life. Now for political reasons there is a talk of a marriage of convenience with a Pakistani woman. I have had enough of men who come to west and enjoy all their life and at the end when it comes retirement time they go home and marry a desi wife. I speak for many traditional Pakistanis when I say that IK, Shahruk, Amir, or Salman Khan could be my favorite heroes but they are not role models for my kids and families in Pakistan. I think you would agree that I have freedom to chose my role models? Regards, M
@Realist
Should the Government intervene and set age limits for men and women in a community is the question? Is it not the responsibility of the community leaders or elders to define the age for couples?
Rex Minor
@Mirza:
Did you even see the documentary "Hidden Shame" that the author eludes too? The only Pakistani politician who had the guts to appear on it and condemn this malice in open words was .....drum roll......Imran Khan! Yes, the same Khan you never tire to berate, denounce and insult in most of your balderdash postings.
At least watch the documentary before spewing more hatred.
Our problem is that even if we have the laws in place........we lack the implementation process and more importantly the will to do the right thing. On the issues of children's rights and most other societal problems and much else......I place the blame on our dysfunctional and politicised judicial system, that needs immediate attention.
@mirza: Very courageous of you to share your experience and how you have dealt with it. Salutes to you.
@Waqas Tariq
Age of puberty starts around 11, not 14 or 15. Girls that age cannot consent or effectively resist an arranged or forced marriage. On top of that, they're usually married to (much) older adult men.
@Animal Farm I am sure you are pointing towards Muslim family law. To clear your thought i must state some statuates. In Muslim family law, marriage is allowed on behalf of guardian but both partners can only consume the marriage when they reach puberty. Now if the girl reach puberty and she refuses to consume the marriage then she can not be forced to go to her partner. Now the age of puberty is 14,15 years. Even then the consent of both the partners is taken into account. So please refrain from giving us that rubbish western point of view where virginity is lost in school days mostly..............................
This is second Op Ed that is pragmatic, truthful and hits at the core issues. It is true that both India and Pakistan have similar problems. However, there is constant progress in India but we fail to even recognize these problems. If any UN or HR report brings these issue out for discussion we attack the report itself and try to prove that we are all fine. Like most kids in Pakistan I was molested by several people including relatives, neighbors, teacher, and mullah. I tried my best to protect myself but they did try with limited success. Of course this abuse leaves a scar for life. However, my partner and I made sure we never leave our kids(s) with anybody at all. One of us has been with them all their young lives. Making a dozen babies is easy and even animals can do it. Raising them properly and taking good care of them is difficult. That is the difference between East and West where there are not too many unwanted kids on the streets. In a birthday party in West only kids are invited and in our society all old relatives come and steal limelight. In the end you have hit it out of the park by demanding that let us start New Pakistan with the protection of children. However, there would be no Dharna for kids and their rights at all. Our leaders want to go for chair not for the future of the country.
The powers that be are macho and there priority is spending money on weapons and destabilizing each other so the poor on both sides of the border esp the children have to wait a long time perhaps their whole life .
The child labourer and street children of the world, alluded to in this article, is an issue of poverty ... Malala raises an entirely different issue ... violence against girls in a feudal society with regressive mindset ...
Child rights cannot be fully implemented in a country where marrying a pre-teen or teen to an adult is fully legal just because it was legal several centuries ago.....
These marriages are just legalized form of pedophilia