The ‘Women in Male Fields’ TikTok trend explained

Women in male-dominated fields use humor to call out dating double standards in viral TikTok trend.

A new TikTok trend, #WomenInMaleFields, is taking social media by storm, blending humor with social commentary to address the gender double standards women often face in dating.

By mimicking behaviors typically attributed to men, such as emotional detachment and reluctance to define relationships, women are shedding light on the hypocritical expectations placed on them in romantic situations. The trend uses Nicki Minaj’s “Anaconda” as a backdrop, adding a playful tone to what is, for many, a serious and relatable topic.

In viral videos, creators like Marla Fitz have gained millions of views by mocking stereotypically male behaviors in relationships. Fitz’s video, which amassed 4.4 million views, captures a comically exaggerated role reversal: “He was crying in bed so I said ‘here we go again’ and turned around and fell asleep.” This humorous clip resonated with many viewers, as the comment section was flooded with phrases like, “Can you go cry in the living room, I’m trying to sleep” and “It’s something new every day with you,” highlighting the universal nature of these frustrating experiences.

@marla_fritz

lol #womeninmalefields

♬ Anaconda - Nicki Minaj

Other creators, like Maayan Yve, add to the trend by sharing their own satirical takes. Yve mocks a partner’s flood of texts by only responding to the last and least important one, poking fun at the emotional distance often attributed to men. The trend has quickly become a conversation starter, with many women commenting on how familiar these behaviors are in their own relationships. One user jokingly wrote, “ARE WE ALL DATING THE SAME MEN?” while another commented, “The red flags are crystal clear now.”

@maayanyve

this trend has me cackling #womeninmalefields

♬ Anaconda - Nicki Minaj

 

@jessicawetz6

Women in male fields trend is teaching women that it’s not our fault. Its the subtle guide to red flags. Men teach each other to act poorly and they’re responsible for teaching each other better if they want the privilege of a wife and kids. Single women are happier than ever, whereas men are the opposite. Their happiness relied on taking women’s away for too long. I feel so grateful to be a single woman living alone child free at 29, no one else in my family has had that luxury. #4b #4bmovement #womeninmaledominatingfields #womeninmalefields #wetz #feminism #equality

♬ original sound - Jessica Wetz 🍉#6

 

@relatablespodcast

#womeninmalefields #fyp

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@residebt

Love this trend 🎀 #womeninmalefields #womeninstem #medicine #residency #medstudent

♬ Anaconda - Nicki Minaj

Interestingly, the #WomenInMaleFields trend has inspired men to flip the script with their own “Men in Female Fields” videos. In these, men parody behaviors typically associated with women in relationships. For example, user  posted a video where he humorously describes picking a fight when he’s having a bad day, with the caption: “When I have a bad day, I pick a fight because I feel like arguing.” This playful reversal adds to the growing conversation around gender roles in dating and relationships.

Ultimately, the #WomenInMaleFields trend is more than just a viral moment—it’s a powerful commentary on how behaviors like emotional neglect, ghosting, and reluctance to commit are often judged differently depending on gender. By exposing these double standards, the trend encourages viewers to reflect on how these behaviors are perceived in society and to challenge the toxic norms that perpetuate them.