I'm older, I have wrinkles and I'm okay with that: Ainy Jaffri slams age-shaming comment

Actor found herself at the receiving end of absurd trolling


Entertainment Desk July 18, 2023

In a peculiar and unfortunate incident, Pakistani actor Ainy Jaffri Rahman found herself at the receiving end of absurd trolling and age-shaming on social media. The incident unfolded when Ainy shared a picture from the Wimbledon semi-finals on her Instagram account, only to be confronted with a comment questioning the changes in her appearance.

An Instagram user took it upon themselves to ask, "What have you done to your face? You used to be so pretty." The Balu Mahi star promptly responded to the comment with a dignified and self-assured reply. She educated the user about the natural process of ageing, stating that wrinkles and lines are a part of growing older. 

Furthermore, Ainy emphasised her acceptance of these changes and clarified that she had not undergone any cosmetic procedures apart from microblading her eyebrows. Moreover, she asserted her right to make decisions about her own face, leaving open the possibility of pursuing cosmetic treatments in the future if she desires.

"It's called ageing," retorted the star. "I'm older, I have wrinkles and lines and I'm okay with that, and just to answer all the questions about what I have done to my face...nothing! I've never done anything except for microblading [my] eyebrows. Having said that, if I feel the desire to do something to my face later, I will do it. My face. my business. But since you're all so curious: everyone gets older and their faces change. What ridiculous questions."

However, the Instagram user later expressed regret for their comment, stating that their intention was not to troll or criticise Ainy's appearance. They explained that they had been surprised by the picture and had observed a transformation in her overall persona. The user clarified that they had not intended to discuss ageing or offend Ainy. They offered an apology for any hurt caused by their comment.

"It didn't mean to be trolling. The picture came to me as a surprise. I used to follow you on Dreamers. Your whole persona to me has changed. Never talked about ageing or meant to troll. Chill. Also, I am sorry to hurt you. Sincere apologies" stated the user of the photo-sharing app in response to Ainy. The actor graciously acknowledged the user's apology, expressing her appreciation for their kind gesture. Despite the unfortunate incident, she handled the situation with maturity and grace. "Thank you for your apology. That's kind of you," replied Ainy. 

The incident shed light on the issue of online trolling and age-shaming, which has become increasingly prevalent in today's digital age. Social media platforms often provide a breeding ground for anonymous users to target public figures and subject them to unwarranted criticism.

This incident serves as a reminder of the importance of empathy and respect in online interactions, urging individuals to think before posting hurtful comments. Additionally, Ainy's dignified response to the age-shaming incident highlights the need for compassion and understanding in online interactions. 

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