In defence of Mehwish Hayat and all Pakistani women who make it big

Published: March 26, 2019
SHARES
Email
PHOTO: MEHWISH HAYAT/INSTAGRAM

PHOTO: MEHWISH HAYAT/INSTAGRAM

KARACHI: “People say that I’m so controversial but I think the most controversial thing I’ve ever done is sticking around,” Madonna said at the Billboard Awards in 2016.

In Pakistan, it takes but a cigarette, an item number or a relatively short dress for women in the entertainment industry to have all of their achievements discredited.

Such was the case when Mehwish Hayat announced that she was being conferred with a Tamgha-e-Imtiaz last week. What followed was an excess of backlash on social media. Many questioned whether she was deserving of such an esteemed honour or not – which is fine; to each their own. The problem was that most of them reduced all her career achievements to an item number she did once.

PHOTO: MEHWISH HAYAT/INSTAGRAM

PHOTO: MEHWISH HAYAT/INSTAGRAM

So here’s my question: is that all Hayat has ever done that really matters? Did she not deliver one but at least two of the biggest hits of Pakistani cinema, namely Jawani Phir Nahi Ani (2015) and Punjab Nahi Jaungi (2017)? Does she not sing, dance and act effortlessly enough that her entire career is being relegated to that one infamous item number?

Social media has been repleted with memes, edited pictures and videos making light of Hayat receiving the Tamgha-e-Imtiaz and all her other achievements.

PHOTO: MEHWISH HAYAT/INSTAGRAM

PHOTO: MEHWISH HAYAT/INSTAGRAM

The irony is that prior to this, the actor was deemed the best Pakistani star by the very same social media moral brigade. But now that she has made it big enough and been given a Presidential Award for all her hard work, we have reduce her to an “item girl.”

The same point has been highlighted quite aptly by journalist Fifi Haroon recently. She tweeted, “If Mahira Khan had gotten the award, they would bring the dress and smoking up. If it was Sanam Saeed or Amina Sheikh, they would say, ‘Oh, Cake’s producer is in PTI. Be it Mehwish, Maya, Mahira or Mawra, the fact is we pull our female actors down. We will always find a reason.”

Can’t help but agree with what Fifi is saying. Hayat is hardly the first female star of Pakistan to be attacked in such a way. We saw the very same trolling  when Ayesha Omar revealed she was being presented the Pride of Pakistan trophy by an international NGO.

PHOTO: AYESHA OMAR/INSTAGRAM

PHOTO: AYESHA OMAR/INSTAGRAM

The model-turned-actor was repeatedly queried on what exactly she has to deserve such an accolade. It doesn’t matter if Ayesha has, and continues to, tirelessly work for over ten years in the showbiz industry because well, she too did an item number.

Even everyone’s favourite Mahira Khan isn’t immune to cyber bullying. Remember those pictures of her enjoying a smoke with Bollywood heartthrob Ranbir Kapoor in New York two years ago? Just a couple of cigarettes and a short white dress were enough to threaten the collective ghairat of Pakistan and make us all forget of everything else she has done so far.

Mahira Khan. PHOTO: Instagram

Mahira Khan. PHOTO: Instagram

The normally badass Saba Qamar has lived through it too. No doubt, she is a fine actor. A massive Bollywood hit and multiple TV serials here in Pakistan were also not enough to spare her from being trolled over a somewhat ‘transparent’ shirt.

PHOTO: INSTAGRAM/SABA QAMAR

PHOTO: INSTAGRAM/SABA QAMAR

Oddly enough, even when a female celebrity tries to use her celebrity status for the greater good, us Pakistanis are not happy.

Take the example of Momina Mustehsan: the singer is one of the handful of local stars to come clean about their personal experiences with mental health issues. And yet, no one took it seriously. “Why would you have depression when you’re so pretty?” was probably the most oft-repeated comment on her Instagram space. What the connection here is, only God knows… Good for Momina, she takes it all in her stride and laughs it off, as she should.

PHOTO: INSTAGRAM/MOMINA MUSTEHSAN

PHOTO: INSTAGRAM/MOMINA MUSTEHSAN

All of these ladies are huge deals in their own rights and no one can deny that. Yet, somehow, we cannot seem to help but ridicule them. Are we so insecure about women who are making it big? It’s high time we stop that.

Have something to add to the story? Share it in the comments below. 

Facebook Conversations

Reader Comments (3)

  • AJ
    Mar 27, 2019 - 2:39PM

    I don’t think this is a gender issue. Was any other woman receiving the national award subjected to the level of scrutiny comparable to MH?

    The core question is why she got the award? Her contributions are in question, not her gender. Recommend

  • Jawad
    Mar 27, 2019 - 4:18PM

    I cant understand why we bring the women element into everything. All this backlash is because presidential award has some worth and by giving it to any one will only reduce its grace. There is no tamgha e imtiaz for the director who gave it these two block buster movies but wow… mahwish hayat got one for his acting. There are a lot of actresses who have been working much before m.hayat with better acting skills but still waiting for any recognition.Recommend

  • Syyed Nauman Ahmad
    Mar 27, 2019 - 10:08PM

    If Amir liaqut was given this award, we would still be criticizing. Issue is not gender but the character. She has done nothing but vulgarity to achieve such a respectful award given by ISLAMI jamhuriya Pakistan.
    I pity on the person who gave this award to her.Recommend

Leave Your Reply Below

Your comments may appear in The Express Tribune paper. For this reason we encourage you to provide your city. The Express Tribune does not bear any responsibility for user comments.

Comments are moderated and generally will be posted if they are on-topic and not abusive. For more information, please see our Comments FAQ.

More in Gossip

-->