Everyday heroes

You don’t need to be super to be a hero. You can just be you


Juggun Kazim March 27, 2016
The writer is an actor, an anchor and a model. She is currently the host of ‘Morning with Juggun’ on PTV Home and can be reached via Twitter @JuggunKazim

The world is a very strange place. Our role models are usually people we have never known in person. And, most of the time, the superhero we want to be is not even a real person, but the figment of a cartoonist or scriptwriter’s imagination.

Why does your kid wish to be Wonder Woman and not you? Think about it. You wake up in the morning to go to work, no matter how terrible you feel. You juggle twenty different tasks at one time. You work extremely hard but you still remember to pay attention to family and friends. Name one superhero that actually made time for his family or even had a group of sincere friends?

I remember when my son was desperately eager to be Spiderman. It was an adorable phase but today I look back and wonder what made Spiderman cooler than me. A mother saves her kid’s life on a weekly basis, if not daily. From making sure they don’t slip down the stairs to ensuring every electrical socket is childproof, to sterilising the whole household numerous times a day — a mother’s work is never done.

What about the parents who work all day, come rain or shine? Who pays all the bills, plans vacations, buys groceries, remembers PTAs and makes sure the homework and incomplete classwork is almost always done. Doesn’t that sound like somebody worth admiring? You don’t need to be super to be a hero. You can just be you. We have been conditioned our entire lives to look for a hero outside of our homes. But who says you cannot be your own hero? There are plenty of situations where unconsciously, we save ourselves and the people we love every day, yet when is the last time you congratulated yourself on your achievements or the fact that you’ve managed to survive life up to this point?

What is the definition of a hero? Someone who meets tough challenges and overcomes them. Someone who never ever quits! These challenges are the opportunities they use to push themselves beyond what seems humanly possible. The thing is why should you desire to be like some fictitious hero when the real superhero is, in actuality, you? It’s time you started patting yourself on the back for a job well done.

You need to become the change you want to see in your life. I recently got a text from someone saying, “There is a superhero inside you; you just need to have the courage to put the cape on.” For once, it didn’t feel like a senseless forwarded message, but an opportunity to wake up and take charge.

We need to stop waiting for life to happen to us. No one is going to come and save anyone; that just happens in the movies. You have to take control of your own life. The first step to doing so, is to take action. Bad job situation? Send your resume out and resign from the current dead-end situation. New things are frightening and they take time. Just don’t give up. You need to be consistent and, of course, be brave. It might all appear terrifying, but it’s the path to a better future. Finally, while you should definitely take risks, you should also choose wisely.

The trick is to commit to creating a better world for others and yourself. Nothing comes out of nothing. There is nothing stopping you from emulating the actions and courage of the superhero you so admire. Do that and you will become the hero of your own life. Do that and you will become the real life superhero that your kids or siblings will never grow out of admiring. Choose to make a change. As scary as it seems, choose to be your own hero.

Published in The Express Tribune, March 28th,  2016.

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COMMENTS (5)

Rex Minor | 5 years ago | Reply I see a misuse of the word 'Hero' , they are usualy those who sacrifice their lives for something greater than life and loose it in the process. I do not mean to disappoint madam author who is very elequent in writing style, but based on latest clinincal science research, a normal child born after a 9 months pregnancy has a perfectly developed brain in control of all its organs. He or she needs to be fed ofcourse to live and grow and if imprisoned in a room, apartment or a villa, is at the mercy of mother or father or the house maid. In the following years the child learns involuntarily from what goes on in the sorroundings where other people live, the parents, the house maid or whatever. and then comes the period of torture, to do this and that command of the parents and later in the kindergarten.thereby destroying the motivation function of the childs brain which was fully in tact at the time of birth after a period of 9 months in mothers protected space. Now the child having lost all this is sent to the school to start real learning without the presence of motivation. Rex Minor
Parvez | 5 years ago | Reply My two cents worth.....being a hero has nothing to do with material gains, it has all to do with doing the ' right thing ' so that every morning when you look in the mirror you should not be ashamed of what you see. As for the children, as long as you are ' there for them ' even in most trying of times you will always remain their hero.
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