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The writer is a barrister and a public policy graduate from Harvard University mahreen.khan@tribune.com.pk
This past week has seen columns, in these very pages, promoting a new brand of hatred – self-hatred – inciting loathing amongst Pakistanis for themselves and their culture. Using the horrific Sialkot killings, these “western, liberal” columnists have labelled all Pakistanis as “degenerates” and “barbaric”, hurling abusive and shameful generalisations to justify a verbal lynching of Pakistan, its culture and people.
The thrust of one column was as follows: the Sialkot murders mean that ALL Pakistanis should now view themselves as “human cockroaches” that should be “quarantined” from the rest of the world. So what should the wretched Rwandans call themselves? They wiped out half of their population in a killing spree. Is quarantine enough or should they be culled to prevent them exporting their genocidal tendencies? A liberal fatwa is issued: due to the Sialkot atrocity all Pakistanis are now “undeserving of sympathy”. Not even the ones stranded in swirling waters, bereft of food and shelter, not the millions of hardworking labourers, drivers, and builders who toil in foreign lands to support families back home, not even the ones who have been maimed by terrorists, none of them.
The article “Don’t act surprised” penned by an Englishman resident here for a few years is full of gross generalisations, defective reasoning and inflammatory one-liners: “We (sic) are, and have always been, a barbaric, degenerate nation revelling in bloodlust (sic).” Firstly, his arrogance in speaking for all Pakistanis, particularly to emit such defamatory and prejudiced words, is nauseating. Next, the claim that the horrific violence during Partition was “revelled in” and gave “heady, almost orgasmic delight” is a blatant perversion of history. Muslims were more the victims of communal violence, as documented by various noted historians who also describe the role of the departing British colonisers as culpable.
This “bloody” Partition is used by George Fulton to conclude that Pakistan has always been a “barbaric and degenerate nation”. An intellectually feeble extrapolation, as most nations are born out of violence or war. Israel, in 1948, was born out of the terrorisation and forced displacement of Palestinians — tales of which are regaled with much pride to this day by Zionists, their chief leaders even going on to become Israeli prime ministers. Does Mr Fulton think that “Israel is a barbaric and degenerate nation revelling in bloodlust”?
He goes on to state that the Sialkot lynchings are typical of Punjabi culture because Maula Jutt movies prove Punjabis are a bloodthirsty, vengeful lot. So the popularity of gore fests like The Texas Chainsaw Massacre prove that Americans, who also spend hours playing violent video games killing, maiming and torturing for entertainment and relaxation, obviously “celebrate barbarity and vengeance” as per the writer. Attributing the propensity for violence to a specific culture or race is the bigoted reasoning of a racist. Africans were also called “degenerates”, “uncivilised barbarians” who deserved to be enslaved due to their “savage” ways.
These columnists would not dare to write in such sadistic terms about western cultures. No, they only prey on weak – pure lynch mob mentality – developing nations like Pakistan, battered by natural catastrophe, war and poverty. The reality is that Pakistanis are inherently no better and no worse than any other people. The best amongst us lay down our lives to rescue those in need, open our homes and hearts to complete strangers, protest peacefully for justice. The worst amongst us are as brutal as the mobs which massacred women and children in the streets of Gujarat, with the Indian police looking on, harbour as much bigotry as the preachers of hate, whether they be Christian, Hindu, or Muslim. When the rule of law is eroded, men, irrespective of race, turn into an unruly mob – as evidenced by numerous studies and the good citizens of New Orleans who looted and rampaged in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina – police officers turn into executioners and ordinary people into accomplices. Pakistanis will and must maintain pressure to obtain justice in Sialkot. They will do so not out of self-loathing or in response to the verbal lynching liberals, but because they believe it is the right thing to do.
Published in The Express Tribune, August 28th, 2010.
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What is so wrong with Maula Jutt?
Pakistanis in general are peaceful and religious, but have been taken for a ride by their arrogant and ignorant clerics. The clerics who were against the creation of Pakistan, who refuse to condemn suicide bombing and who label a section of peaceful law-abiding citizens as wajib-ul-qatal.Recommend
young girl you are only trying to defend us again,we dont need it anymore we are so wicked and so bad we need change of our mindset.start preaching love,not carrying God in mouth and evil ion heart.dnt blame the english man for speaking the truth.lack of truth is our greatest problem in our society we never stand up for truth.but always trying to compare evil.
is high time we should start emulating good not evil.the west or any other country is far better than us in pursueing love and peace.Recommend
I agree to what you have said. Perhaps a lot of us got too depressed. Fact of the matter is that what happened in sialkot happens almost frequently but it is not captured live. We hear about it and it diminishes away in the evening news or ticker. But this time the tragedy unfolded in such a live fashion that the whole nation was horrified and i think much of it depressed. Its mostly anger and frustration i guess on part of the ones that can express that has resulted in such generalizations.
We a majority have lost hopes from our leaders and have kept positivity and hope from our people but such incidents have shaken the most positive amongst us in our boots. Its like losing trust in humanity.
Having said that I understand your side and respect it and welcome it. Thanks for jolting some of us who were passing over to the other side!Recommend
Awesome piece of writing!!! Maza hee aa gaya parh kar!!!Recommend
Fully agree with the author. Well done!
Barbaric incident of Sialkot have been given so much exposure that the nation has been immunised. If it happens again and brutality is a little bit less, no one will notice.Recommend
Mahreen – Free press allow people to express their sentiments as they feel. Every single person has a different vision about the world. Neither you can stop people from talking, nor you can stop people from writing.
Replies received on an artile or news is every ones “Have Your Say”.
My concern is that why such things happen in Pakistan which makes people to think and express their views in a negative manner.
Negative acts will be taken as negative and positive acts will be taken as positive steps.
You can stop a person’s hand from beating another person, but you cannot stop people’s talking on the streets and writing articles in the newspapers and on the blogs about the negative things happening around us day and night.Recommend
Wonderfully written.The writer very rightly elucidates each point in the article.Recommend
Well-written and good rational come-back to Mr. Fulton and Mr. Zaka’s gross over-generalisations. Couldn’t agree more!Recommend
Thank you Mahreen for responding to the vitriol from these columnists. What really saddened me was how many of the youthful readers of the Tribune applauded this self-hatred. Having lived in the West, I have seen numerous dreadful episodes of violence and hate crimes but it never leads to the kind of self-loathing that many of Pakistan’s elite indulge in. No wonder the English press gets ostracized by many and the Urdu press gets more radicalized. I was going to write my next column in this vein but you have said what i intended to say far more eloquently.Recommend
Though one of my favourite columnists,but George overstepped not a bit but quite a lot this time.Mahreen,he deserved your counter attack.Well done.Recommend
Let’s accept the fact that by and large we are a ‘Jaahil Qaum’.
It would be unfair to blame that English man, he wrote what he has experienced and majority of Pakistanis have endorsed his views. Its a matter of collective shame for Pakistanis but we haven’t stopped yet. Even today a man stoned to death in Shujabad. What did we learn from the Sialkot tragedy ?
The so called Khadim e Aala of Punjab who should have rushed to victim’s parents place right after the incident invited the family to Khwaja Asif’s home and “ordained” condolence to them and that too after 8 days of the incident.
This shows their priorities towards “Humanity”, let alone Governance — but I am sure they will elect the same people again.
So the fault lies within ourselves.Recommend
Mahreen, America is much more than Texas Chainsaw Massacre. They send millions in aid when you need it, you take education in their brilliant Harvard, they give you complete freedom of religion when you are in their country and prosecute anyone who tries to bar you from your rights.
What you don’t realise, despite being a Harvard graduate, is that for every evil in US and west you can count fifty good things there too. Not so in the land of Maula Jatt Punjab, who when not burning Christians alive are denying them flood relief, even when a lot of Christians all over the world are contributing millions of dollars to Pakistan flood relief as we speak. Where is the good in Punjab?
Fulton knows what he’s talking about whereas you don’t.Recommend
@ Hassan
That’s what the writer is trying to say. America is much more than Texas Chain … and so are we. She used that as comparison with Maula Jutt analogy of George.Recommend
@F. Alam:
West is much more but we are not. Where are the examples to the contrary? Even when ordinary westerners many of whom are Christians are helping in millions the nation that loathes them, we are barring the same aid from our Pakistani Christians. Where is the public outrage on this from the “good guys” like Mahreen? We are cockroaches indeed as Fasi has aptly put it. The only good things in us are in our talk of which there is a lot.Recommend
In defense of Fasi Zaka & George Fulton: they were shocked, angry and frustrated like any other Pakistani. They didn’t mean all that.Recommend
In every post, there is a guy trying to spread rumours about Christian denied aid. There was one report about Ahmedis and even that didn’t mention any cogent facts.
I am not saying that this doesn’t happen. I remember Al Jazeera documentary about this problem in India. So far, International media hasn’t reported any such thing. Even the aid is being distributed by Western charities themselves.
Here is report about India. Did Indians say that they don’t have right to exist?
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/sep/02/india.naturaldisastersRecommend
Injustice can happen anywhere and is not exclusive to Pakistan (no evidence to prove yet about aid being denied). Look at these examples:
India’s untouchables being denied flood relief, say aid agencies
Relief supplies in Bihar are going to the highest castes first, ignoring plight of the most desperate, according to reports
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/sep/02/india.naturaldisasters
INDIA: Flood victims face caste discrimination
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/7610999.stmRecommend
well mahreen I agree to what you have said… ive read those fulton and zaka articles and they forge nothing but despair, some facts they mentioned may be true in their essence but you know what is healthy criticism, it was not that and their full of despair utterings were not helping anyone or getting us out of this system anyway! If they are so great a Pakistanis why dunt I see them working on some movement on small scale, why do they want us who are still working on a hope to loathe ourselves and get depressed! why do they wish to make us believe we can never be better if they themselves are so weak that they have given in despite the positions they hold in civil society! it is their own weakness, and if they are ashamed of themselves as Pakistani they should be, because they are to weak to help this nation, and it is because of people such as these we are suffering now, very keen pessimists who hide their inability to help make a change by fostering despair! after-all it is easy to criticize a system, but it is very difficult and needs real effort to change it!Recommend
Dear Barrister Sahiba
People of Pakistan have been brutalized for the last eight years with suicide bombings, video taped beheadings, target killings and now this inhuman killing of two teenagers. Madam, normal people feel disgusted by this abhorrent acts of violence, this is called empathy and can be expressed in words. Instead of attacking these conscientious objectors you should be condemning the cockroaches of our society that have inflicted unbearable pain on their victims and the general populace. Hiding behind generalizations and labeling people will not help nor will they stop the barbarians knocking on our doors. People of Pakistan deserve better Madam, they deserve the truth, no more lies please.Recommend
Mahreen, Liberals want to have all the goodies and also right to demonize uneducated masses.Recommend
if we’re as good as other nations, why are we facing this collapse of society, that other nations dont?Recommend
Now Ms Mahreen Khan, I think you don’t realise that this is the first time your country has ever been able to view a real example of the sort of acts this wanton and barbaric society revels in on a widespread scale. There is no point grovelling over how Mr George Fulton described the events, as every sane Pakistani has condemned the act and are openly declaring their shame of being a Pakistani. How can anyone, after seeing such a ghastly event, stick up for their country or society?. Your article reeks in condescension towards a citizen of Pakistan who has every right to criticize it’s state of affairs, his words and those of Fasi Zaka, truly did speak of the predicament of these Muslims and their loss in humanity. Knowing how Mr George Fulton is a Pakistani, picking on his British roots just sounds foolish and utterly racist!.
And these sudden calls of condemnation by the Mullahs and Politicians is nothing but an act of cajoling the media, as these same people are as worse as that accursed mob. The only real watershed of widespread condemnation has been from the young students from the cities and the old folk who have truly been affected by this sick event.
Ms Khan has shown to be too over sensitive for Muslims, and the fact is that she has no room to defend the history of the Muslims of Pakistan, as their history in this part of the sub-continent is replete with a dark and savage history left, right and centre.Recommend
couldn’t agree more. thumbs up!Recommend
Its time we stopped hiding away our bad points and made people aware – especially Pakistani people our problems so we can deal with them. Pakistan has a lot of potential and power and it has been squandered away by corrupt politicians and assorted mullahs….Recommend
thank you! brilliantly exposes the weak arguments and the hypocrisy of the so called liberals who sit in judgement on us. excellent article – thanks for articulating what so many of us were feeling when we read those 2 abusive rants. The truth is exactly as you say – good and bad. We should never accept this kind of abuse from anyoneRecommend
Bravo!Recommend
@ArifQ – the gross generalisations were in George’s article not this one. No one is lying – but abuse and self hate is no answer to injustice – otherwise people will just be abusing each other all the time. abuse isn’t constructive. And the George and cockroach articles were just abuse.Recommend
@Hasan – so anyone who studies at a US university can never ever point out anything about their society? Defeating your own argument for free speech!!! By the way – Harvard costs a lot – it’s not a favour they do people by “letting” them study there.
George Fulton knows a few things which he tried to piece together in a highly irrational way. He also hasnt read his history books or maybe is too deceitful – as he totally ignored the brutal role of the British in partition. If partition made us brutal then the British are the mother of brutality. Look at their record – South Africa, Palestine, US civil war, northern ireland etc etc.
@Hasan – you seem to have an inferiority complex with the west. Their negative stuff doesnt get as much press. I live in the west and have done for most of my life – their media is a lot more patriotic than ours and doesnt expose so much about their scoiety. So dont write unsubstantiated statements like ” there are 50n good things for every bad in the US” and come and ask how much freedom to practice we have – when our masjids are being attacked and graffitied.
Article is an excellent well reasoned and classy response to a couple of liberals wanting to shock and create controversy.Recommend
now THAT’S what i call a rebuttal! nice job, mahreenRecommend
Excellent article – thank God someone is taking on this self important crowd always criticising and never supporting pakistanis. I am sick of the self hate nonsense. We have problems – but so does the rest of the world. Heaping abuse is no use. Get out and do something.Recommend
For 30 years we recruited civilians to wage proxy wars. Teenagers belonging to poor families faught in Afghanistan and Kashmir and all this happened with total support from the public. Doesnt this reflect the callousness of our society?Recommend
Great piece! The wild swipes that columnists have taken to deride all Pakistanis is pathetic. I agree with Ms. Khan that like any other people, most Pakistanis are decent, in the main liberal and extremely hospitable. They certainly do not command a monopoly on mayhem and/or murder!
While two wrongs don’t make a right, let us be reminded of the fact that the graveyards of America are littered with the corpses of black children, women and men who were lynched only because of the color of their skin. South Africa and the Indian sub-continent, two of the many colonised territories, have had their share of the cruelties that the British Imperial project had ruthlessly inflicted on them, lynching hundreds, if not thousands, only because they were non-whites and wanted their rights restored and their land returned.
Let us also not forget that Pakistanis hosted some of the largest displaced populations in the history of the world when an estimated 3.2 million Afghanis crossed over into Pakistan in the aftermath of the Soviet invasion of Afghanistan who later dispersed througout the country.
Ours is also the land of Abdus Sattar Edhi, Ansar Burney and Imdad Khan, who having lost everything in the earthquake refused to take money for the food we ate at his dismembered restaurant in Bagh, AJK, during a disaster assessment visit that I undertook with three of my colleagues. One of whom broke down at the gesture, awe struck she stood in graceful silence paying homage to Mr. Khan’s moral courage and boundless hospitality.
Interestingly, if Katrina brought about splintering of communities, the Pakistani earthquake had a diametrically opposite affect when communities came together, allowing for a relatively efficient mobilization and distribution of resources while spearheading a number of remarkably successful relief and rehabilitation programs.Recommend
Just loved this piece of work and to be honest, she answered to articles mentioned in best possible way..
I have been reading some articles here where some foreigner keeps humiliating Pakistanis for few unpleasant incidents witnessed in Pakistan, ignoring the major incidents occuring on daily basis in other parts of the world against MUSLIMS Minority.
I just liked this piece.. and would encourage such people to write who still feel we are not as bad as been portrayed by our fellow country men.Recommend
Well written Mehreen.. the nation is in a state of shock and self loathing over such incidents is natural. What has added to the the element of loathing was the role of police and the indifference of the onlookers. Otherwise such crimes do happen in other parts of the world too… Yet we ought to be ashamed what we have become; this is certainly not the face of Quaid’s pakistan!Recommend
Oh Mahreen, why are we afraid to see ourselves in the “Mirror of International Community”??? Remember, If it is George ka Pakistan then he also has the right to say what he sees on the streets. Fusi is also correct. It is time to come out of our hidings and the “State Of Denial”. We are the worst when it comes to Human Rights Violations, Maiming the Minorities, a society with Intolerant Mindset” and as such morally bankrupt. We hear from every citizen that Muslman ye nhi kr sakta, Muslman woh nhi kr sakta then why are we all citizens in so much “Shock in English and Saqta in Urdu”.Recommend
The need of the time, Madam Barrister, is to conquer self-approval by staring straight at what is unbearably painful.
The highly publicized Sialkot case, and all unnoticed rapes of humanity, including the four hour long reality TV show of May 28 Ahmadiyya Muslim massacre cry out loud for courage for mental change as articulated in the NYT article: http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/24/opinion/24brooks.html?_r=1
I quote from the article: “We’re all less conscious of our severe mental shortcomings and less inclined to be skeptical of our own opinions. .. We have confirmation bias; we pick out evidence that supports our views. We are cognitive misers; we try to think as little as possible. We are herd thinkers and conform our perceptions to fit in with the group”.
I also invite attention to comment #74 to the NYT article. May be it will force the lazy minds to think objectively before rendering a verdict.
“1. review what was actually said as opposed to what we heard (or wanted to hear)
2. research into the topic, look at what has been written or said
3. reflect by taking time to let all these things settle and ‘cook slowly’ in our brain
4. respond through thoughtful words and arguments.”
Regards.Recommend
A feel-good article from Mahreen! Oooh, that felt so refreshing…
Ok, now, lets get back to the real world. Whatever Mahreen might say about West, India, Rwanda, this and that, there are several unavoidable facts. None of these places have an instituitionalized culture of violence, terrorism, and religous bigotry. And, they do not export terrorism to other countries the way we do. Yes, there are instances of these things in any country. But, not an everyday occurence that threatens the very state itself.
As Pakistanis, we are brain-washed since a young age about many many things: about our history, our heritage, and our identity. And, we are taught to blame everyone else for our problems: Zionists, Americans, Indians, RAW, Hindus, whatever. Some one has to come out and call our own bluff. That is the only we can get better. I really don’t care what the West and Rwanda does or does not do. I am worried about the “man in the mirror”.
AhmedRecommend
Hm. . . it is surprising that we are all discussing the cause in all these articles, and not the effect. Did anyone write articles like these about the genocides in Africa? Or Katrina? Or the murder of the Czar? Or Nepal, where the whole royal family was wiped out? Or Iran? I am sure such discussions did take place. The net effect is the same. Some nations are better than others, some lynch mobs are better than others. A cockroach is a wonderful creature, very resilient. We hate it. We compare the worst of us with it. Why? Because ALL cockroaches breed in circumstances which WE humans feel are unhygienic. The difference, try to understand, is that it IS possible for a whole nation to have common characteristics. Including cowardice. No one stood up for the brothers, no one is standing up against the mismanagement of the flood waters.
Who wants to bet the EXACT same people will be elected on district level in the next elections by the SAME people?Recommend
I agree entirely and completely with Mehreen.Recommend
An intelligent reply to vitriolic remarks by Fulton & faseeh.Recommend
Yes! I agree with this, writer wonderfully pointing out the things which were openly shared by above mentioned two writers in a pathetic manner, even I was very surprised to read that how it is possible that a man coming from another country, spending few years and commenting on Pakistan’s culture, history and society in very harsh manner. I would say Mr. George, you cannot understand how much our ancestors have sacrificed to achieve this country, even you cannot understand the word sacrifice. Mr.Fasi Zaka writing some thing, reflects the mentality of the writer so get out of that mentality and try to do some thing positive.Recommend
There are three kinds of people: one kind is of those learned people who are highly versed in the ethics of truth and philosophy of religion, second is the kind of those who are acquiring the above knowledge and the third is that class of people who are uneducated, and fortunately 80% of our population come under the third class as mentioned above. We do not fear Allah, do let the Devil lead us to Hell. Our leaders are the reason behind circumstances our nation is in. They have misguided the whole generation of men around us. Having no faith in the truth of Islam they have led others astray. They have thrown us in the depths of ignorance. They have enticed us towards the abyss for unenlightening and illiteracy. Even though Satan has certainly started instigating his forces and has collected his army in order that oppression may reach its extreme ends and wrong may come back to its position. The person Mahreen Khan had replied to have not put a correct Blame on us (every Pakistani) it doesn’t make any sense and if it does than we see every American like Bush and every Jews like Rosh HaMemshala, this will not be justice between there nation and themselves.Recommend
the very fact that every segment of society has condemned the incidentreflects the human approach of pakistanis. however people looking at the barbaric view should be viewed as saddist atendency developed by gen. ziaulhaq by publically flogging and hangings during his barbaric region.the nation needs psyclogical treatment. not only the real actors in the incident also the people enjoying the incident should also be tried in the court for abetting.Recommend
I completely agree with you.Recommend
Excellent article, Ms. Khan. I completely agree and I am glad you wrote this.Recommend
Mehreen I read both of those articles yesterday, and I felt the same as you did. How could we be termed barbaric on terms of freedom struggle..or on the basis of a movie?
Well written, good work.Recommend
Mahreen you seem to have completely failed to see what the writers who’ve tried to rouse some ‘shame’ into us are actually trying to acheive. What harm can asking us to view ourselves a little more critcially cause anyway??
The purpose behind such artciles is far more constructive and positive than the effect your ‘we’re not such bad people’ ,’america/rawanda did the same thing’ artcile does. Please open your eyes and look around, this country is not a mess because of our leaders or the natural calamaties, it is a mess because each and every one of us has failed to play are part. The first step towards reconstruction will involve accepting our faults identifying our problems! All you’re doing is indulging our petty egos. We don’t need that molly coddling, we’ve had 60 years of telling ourselves, its not us, its America/india/israel.
These articles were written in pain and rage, because that mob included each and every one of us!! Thats what mobs signify! Till we repent for who we’ve become, we’ll never be able to undo the harm we have caused ourselves. One would expect a slightly more objective response from the educated elite like yourself.Recommend
Mahreen I agree with you one hundred percent.Recommend
An excelent article and very well timed. No doubts that we, like all other nations do have Black sheeps amongst us and I do not think the entire nation be blamed for the wrong doing of a few.
Mehreen, Your positive approach is appreciated and please keep it up.Recommend
Regardless of your ‘reasoned’ argument, there is no justifying what happened in Sialkot. Let us acknowledge that we, as a society, are ill, and need to change – question is how?Recommend
You are absolutely right, I fully agree with you.Recommend
an excellent piece, a great reply to aticles written by Fasi Zaka and Mr. Fullton who apparently still lack wisdom to grasp the current situation and went on a usual RANT……….Recommend
Glad Mehreen brought up this issues. I am sorry it was bad editorial judgement to let George fulton write about us as “we”. I don’t think he has any right to write about us and then pass crude judgments abt us as people. We are Pakistanis we have a mix of good , bad , and ugly amongst us like all nations.Recommend
@ Sara: That is a rather inane statement. When Pakistanis go to Europe and get married there, they become citizens within three years. What makes us so superior as a society that when a person like George comes here, learns the language, gets married, converts to Islam, and still doesn’t qualify as one of us? True maybe you are right, he doesnt lynch people, has an honest original’ degree from oxford, ánd pays all of his taxes. True he isnt one of us. He is way better.
On another note, who is us? The balochis who want independence, the threek e taliban, the bengalis who said farewell decades ago? What is this national culture the author speaks about. The truth is Pakistans culture and nationhood are a myth.Recommend
Two thumbs up:) mahreen rocks…Recommend
We Muslims are supposed to be the best of nations but we are not and we have no one whom we can blame but ourselves. We have brought all this upon ourselves. Ban this, ban that hasn’t worked and won’t work ever. We have to bring an individual change in ourselves while looking around us at the same time.Recommend
Thank you for writing.
Moreover can anyone tell me how come two cameramen were there with their cameras and still it took three days for the video to reach News Channel. I am from Sialkot and I know it is not a mere Co-Incidence that these Cameramen were there.Recommend
Upon further reflection, what happened in Sialkot is a vivid and macabre manifestation of what is normal for Pakistan.The mob enjoying the macabre murders needs to be subjected to a good non-lethal thrashing – where is Islamic Law when you …need it? There is nothing Islamic about the Islamic Republic of Pakistan or the people who enjoy watching murder taking place in front of their eyes. The fact that it happened during Ramadan and a day after our Independence Day, casts doubts about the claims of moral superiority made by many Muslims and Pakistanis.
And we should come out of the Alice in Wonderland bigotry and stop acting like Ostriches. Collectively we have failed and although I may not necessarily agree with my friend, George Fulton’s view the other day: he did took a dig at our rotten cultural which was right.
Failed Nation. Failed, People.Recommend
this article is a breath of fresh air, keep it up mahreenRecommend
Well written Mahreen, keep up the good work…Recommend
well expressed and balanced response to stereo typing of some columnists. we are aggrieved and ashamed of Sialkot incidence and others like them but it does not mean that the whole nation is like this. we have good rather great examples like edhis, imrans, abrars, shehris as well. what lacks is only the central leadership. that is also not too far. so there is no point in getting disappointed.Recommend
Look at the comments section of your piece and of George and Fasi pieces, you easily can understand, for whom your are talking and whom were represented by them. You are fuelling our chauvinism and narcissim and they are trying to neutralize it by hard talks….Recommend
To those using Sialkot incident to demonize Pakistanis: STOP IT!
Stop generalizing. The Sialkot incident was a mob action and it’s representative of nobody except the people who were involved in it. There is also government failure here beca…use the perpetrators allege rightly or wrongly that the two kids killed one of their own. Nothing justifies this crime and all involved must be punished but this is mob action. There have been many cases where people arrested and killed thieves and burlars because your democracy and politicians can’t run the police and the justice system right. Where were you when Sindhi waderas threw pregnant 19yo Nasim Solangi to hungry dogs? Where were you when Balochi sardars buried 3 women alive? When Chaudhries in Punjab abuse and kidnap women? How are poor Pakistanis responsible when these powerful people do this and are brought to power because people like you ‘love democracy’ and see them as having the right to rule over us? Plz check your own hypocrisy before generalizing a single incident.Recommend
Mehreen , I used to love your show but now i have found new respect for you. Fantastic read. Thank you for giving me hope and making me believe in myself. It is great to see a positive attitude from someone with all the self loathing going on.
I request that you write a sequel to this article on logical and maybe even individual ways that we can reduce the frustration and extremism in our society. It is absolutely unnerving to hear of violent incidents one after another on the media. And there are so many that go unnoticed. We can feel the desperation to change that,well that’s step one but what next. In a few days this fervor would die down and then it’s back to the old days of indifference. Please give us your take on how to solve this problem.Recommend
Fasi and George, to give them the benefit of doubt might just have crossed the line with some in order to get their point across. I sympathise with their feelings of outrage but generalisations especially in these sensitive cases are never a good idea. Yes I do agree that more and more people in my country are crossing the divide into bigotry and intolerance….But
When just existing is so hard for an average man that getting up in the morning is difficult. When you dont know if you will have food to feed your family. When you see a loved one die because you dont have money to treat them. You tend to develop a very harsh shell around your heart. Imagine a parent willing to sell a child for food ! Its comparitively very common in Pakistan.
These harsh conditions give rise to a very hard talibanised way of seeing the world and life, it gives rise to them and us and black and white and it colours our souls in brutal shades of Black and white, without any tempering shades of grey.
I cried when I saw what happened in Sialkot but I cry more everyday when I see what’s happening every day in Pakistan.
I can see where George and Fasi are coming from as I have felt the same anger and hate almost everyday but they are letting events colour their judgement.
Thank you Mahreen for providing the balancing shades of grey.Recommend
Thank you for defending us those articles are exaggerated a bit perhaps all the bad news has pulled their emotional trigger. BUT it is articles like those which can help wake up the ‘Parhai likhae jahil’ of our country which despite having education continued to be pulled in by crazy myths and conspiracies. Myself coming from a so called elite educational institute have experienced first hand their lack of logic and clear reasoning, which even i fall victim to at times. Help to disaster victims, protection of minorities, ENSURING of fundamental human rights are basics of western society the very society hated by most people including ‘unparh’ or ‘parhai likhae jahil’.Recommend
So glad someone responded to those over dramatized articles. Thankyou Ms Khan.
The articles by Mr Fulton and Mr Zaka were upsetting on two counts. Firstly, Instead of providing an intellectual response their emotional arguments were merely attempting to ride the wave of populist anger on this tragedy. Secondly, it was depressing to see how easily their readers got caught up in their insulting generalizations, as evident from the reader comments.
Mr Fulton may be partly excused upon the grounds that he may lack deeper knowledge of the region. But Mr Zaka’s rant was a cheap trick attempting to rouse reader emotions and anger to further his own liberal line that he often advances in his columns. And then how is the mentality of our so called liberal columnists any different from the mob when we all know what their positions are on issues such as the killing of the girls of Jamia Hafsa and the drone attacks in the tribal belt. If they are such concerned citizens of Pakistan, they should begin by checking their own hypocrisy.Recommend
I like your article .I have a question why do you have to mention Indian situation to justify everything .I am against those forces in India which are negetive and there are many organisations and specially people of India have literally isolated those who were involved in Gujarat incidence plus government is working against them if you closely follow the news in India.Thank you.Recommend
All Mr. Fulton and Fasi have only shown us the mirror. We can,t blame them for our ugly face.
As far as Rawanda or Sudan or Palestine etc. are concerned, I fail to understand how attrocities there justifies one carried out in Sialkot. Should we not talk about injustice in Sialkot because of those carried out elsewhere?
We should be greatful that liberals would only keep their lynching verbal, which can’t be said to be true for rest of us. Let’s not also forget that this is not first such incident in Pakistan of this kind. Have we forgotten about the mobs that attacked cristians few months ago and tourching of people in Karachi? What about Ahmadis massachered in 1950s and then in 70s by similar mobs. Closing eyes to a problem does not solve itRecommend
Spot on, madame! But it is amusing really, amid the tragedy. An excellent reply to those who failed to get shocked on the Sialkot tragedy. Good shot.Recommend
Mahareen, I am stunned at your utter insensitivity towards horrible lynchings of two young boys. You have the audacity to question the Pakistani media’s outrage at the brutal killings? Your anger and argument expressed in the article are ridiculously trivial. Your reference to Gujarat massacre, New Orleans, Rwanda are inconsequential because these horrible events of human history were universally condemned. In India, Gujarat killings took many a long years to fade away from the mainstream media.
Let me remind you those immortal words uttered perhaps by Lloyd george “defeat of modern society lie in the comparing an evil with other, instead of calling an evil as an evil”. Aren’t you proving him right?Recommend
These are not just word but a huge favor to the nation. After reading all those early articles that were mentioned, i literally prayed someone may tell them what they are actually trying do. This is a chance for them to give up on looking for a reason to hate this country !Recommend
Your article brings relief to me, at least to know that there still are people who have optimism and a sense of patriotism. I SERIOUSLY LOVED THIS ARTICLE ! Hats off !
All the journalists must understand that they heavily influence the direction of the society with their pen. Even in the worst situations you guys can create optimism and vice versa.In these critical times, when we need hope, when history is in the making, we need some optimism and encouragement.
“Love Pakistan, OR leave Pakistan”.
Thank You Ma’am for this beautiful defense, especially by countering the totally senseless logic george came up with. Maula jutt huh ?!!! are you kidding me ?
Self criticism is social and moral suicide. Our ancestors were always positive in the worst of situations and we’ve seen that in the life of our Prophet PBUH repeatedly.Recommend
As a British Pakistani I have grown up facing racism and vicious Pakistan-bashing. I was incensed by George’s hypocrisy – he should try and write the same for England when elderly people are beaten to death in their homes for a few pounds, black people are stabbed to death on a main road and no witnesses come forward allwoing the killers free and the police is indicted as “institutionally racist” ref Stephen Lawrence. No george wouldnt dare write in such words about his own kind and nor would anyone else – we would be lynched if we wrote such things here about britain. the BNP would crucify us. Britain is far more intolerant of ethnic minorities but it never gets exposed.Recommend
It’s futile to argue with people or the writer through the comment boxes.
But I will say this, at least the people you call the ‘liberal lynch mob’ are not out there killing people with their words or actions. Neither do they advocate such a mentality.
However you, the authoress, never cared to condemn the brutalities in Sialkot in the entire article, shifted the focus to Gujrat in India as ‘people amongst us’ and provided justifications for such savage behavior. Now this is sic!Recommend
Loved the article – superb response – in true barrister style. Exposes the hypocrisy, self righteousness and prejudices of the liberal westoxicated.Recommend
//The reality is that Pakistanis are inherently no better and no worse than any other people.
True! After looking at the reaction and the number of protests against the lynching, I believe that we are not that much bad.Recommend
How about a perspective from a Muslim who lives in the UK, rather than a ‘western’ view. http://bit.ly/bHY4Oe
Pakistan as a whole has responsibility in this but so do Muslims all over the world – we are One Ummah and when something happens in one part, it affects the whole body!Recommend
Firstly, anyone who even contemplates the massacre that place in 1947 as indicitive of our [Pakistani] mentality, pry drink some really strong coffee and face facts! Though britalities occurred on both sides, the most definitive acts of barbarism are well demonstrated when train loads of refugees were butchered en route to Lahore. Did ‘we’ do the same? Nay!
As the writer rightly highlights the fact that individual acts of evil cannot be used to vilify an entire nation, what logic is this?
Jhalianwala Bagh where the British massacred an entire rally, as they did in US, and every other part of their wonderful empire.
The Germans in WWII, remind me again, 5 million ‘unwanteds’, hmmmm
US bombing Hiroshima Nagasaki when they knew the Japanese were going to surrender? Hmmmm (add Iraq, Afghanistan etc etc etc)
The French in Northern Africa, hmmmm
So we use lone, horrifying incidents to paint an image for an entire people – hypocracy, double standards and down right prejeduice against us [the Pakistanis]!!
Surely, the revoltion felt through every strand of the populous is more demonstrative of the Pak people’s mentalitity?
And as far as these liberal ‘do-gooders’, ‘morally higher than thou attitude’ are more of a hinderence than an asset for us. They have yet to do anything good practically, save a few mug shots with the destitute.
If you are so concerned – donate your houses and your VIP life styles to these people… Abdul Sattar Edhi can? Even the most liberal, yet MOST SINCERELY concerned person put his money where his mouth was… Who? Muhammad Ali Jinnah!Recommend
i couldn’t agree more with those who criticized Pakistan and its people.
those drowning in floods are no better, culture in our rural areas is barbaric.
what could be more barbaric then giving away your daughters and sisters to settle feuds?
dosnt this practice predates islam?
still call them muslims?
the fact of the matter is that our country instead of evolving towards civility is indeed moving in the other direction.
i for one take it.. albeit with sadness…as a wakeup call to do some thing about it.
sitting in it we often overlook what others see plainly from a distance.
i can see their moral degradation obvious among other things which they cant from within.Recommend
Ms. Khan, can you make up your mind? Didn’t you express the following views about Pakistanis in another article on this very website:
“However, the coverage of the Airblue crash reflected our insensitivity and immaturity as a society. In death, as in life, we accord our citizens scant privacy, dignity or peace.” “Another layer added to tragedy — gruesome relish in uncovering what should remain alluded to — of ripping the shroud of decency and dignity from the dead and destroying even a semblance of compassion for the living.”
And now Ms. Khan claims that we are no better or no worse than anyone else. Contradiction, anyone?Recommend
good stuff….extremely required and much appreciated.
Good Work.. keep it up plz.Recommend
And an addition to Ahmed Qureshi’s comment: how is that people like you dont talk about generalizations when it is all positive? That Pakistanis are a wonderful hardworking lot, is equally gross a generalization. What empirical evidence do you have to support the tall claims that you are making? Sialkot incident is not an anomaly, it is indicative of the mindset. Just like denying that we are a morally, socially, politically and culturally degenerating is also indicative of your ostrich-approach and feeding on textbook version of Pakistan and history is.Recommend
Good article Mahreen, the main question is that how can we change the image of Paksitan and Paksitanis worldwide. During the past eight years we have been downgraded so much taht at the moment we are maybe considered to be the worlds most ‘digusted and cursed people’. A few days ago I read a news article in Australia saying that
“who should tell the Pakistanis that even ALLAH has gone against them”.
Now I was pretty amazed as that article was published and written by an Austarlian journalist.Recommend
These barbaric incidences tend to occur in lawless societies. Sialkot incident is the prime example of lawlessness, and the failure of the law enforcing bodies! Mahreen has a valid point, and thanks for writing an article like this one.Recommend
Thank you Mahreen it is good to see sanity…after the cockroach and maula jatt haters..to term our partition like it was in those articles was a true and total disregard for any historical accuracy. Yes people died in the partition on both sides but that does not mean the whole of Pakistan is made up of killers and rapists …i wonder why the respected authors continue to reside in this filthy place?Recommend
I am from India – women are raped and lynched here too and it does not always even get reported. At least your media in pakistan showed it to you. This is a problem in our country. We need to spread message of peace not hate. i like the article.Recommend
Brilliantly written.Recommend
@Mariam – totally agree!
pakistanis take more criticism and bashing than anyone else – the fact that those 2 articles got printed shows our tolerance.
Great response MehreenRecommend
well argued. hats off to you!Recommend
Mahreen let’s see, here is the worst;
Pakistan relief organisations ‘discriminating against Christian flood victims’
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/pakistan/7968046/Pakistan-relief-organisations-discriminating-against-Christian-flood-victims.html
Where is the equivalent good?
The same people who are raising aid for us in millions (British kafir public has raised $30 million so far and German kafir public $10 million in just one night) are making fun of us for discriminating on religious grounds even in distributing this free aid. What an incentive for them to help us. We want compassion from others but have none ourselves. How are we as good or bad as others, specifically west? And why do we not act like developed nations if we are just as good or bad?
Even God hates us. What more evidence do we need that we are the worst of the worst? Fasi you rock.Recommend
Never knew what the big deal was about Harvard – now i can see it… great writing!Recommend
Self check and correction is the first step towards progress which Mahreen fails to understand.Recommend
Really? There was nothing else going on in the country that you felt you should write about? Not one thing? Apparently all our problems are solved to the point that the only issues left are what this editorial columnist thinks of that editorial columnist.
Actually, right now, this moment, Pakistanis are worse than other peoples. Our corruption has delayed foreign aid, our laziness has prevented dams from being built, our intolerance has damned the Ahmedis, our greed has increased poverty and our violent tendencies have resulted in lynch mobs, women with acid thrown on their faces, suicide attacks and god knows what else. Every one who did these things was also a Pakistani.
Your best defense was that we aren’t as bad as Rwanda? Congratulations! Pat yourself on the back for not being as vicious as a civil war torn African nation. High standards you set for yourself there.
These “western, liberal” columnists CAN criticize us because, like the torturers, killers, bombers and murderers, these columnists are also Pakistanis. So they can feel anger and disgust at themselves and their fellow people.
This column betrays a proud ignorance. There is nothing wrong with being ashamed of your country. Or angry at it. Those are the emotions that make us improve ourselves. Unfortunately, continuing blindly in this direction is only going to hurt us.Recommend
Wah wah jee – tussi great ho! Mahreen ji.
Ridiculous rubbish from george – if we are all maula jutts how come you still wanna live here? Havent been “maula jutted” have you? Stop Pakistan bashing. We are not going to take it.Recommend
I agree with Fasi Zaka and George Fulton… Whenever I leave my house I have to think that I might be the next victim of a lynch mob or something just because I was at the wrong place at the wrong time. We truly are just a dirty pack of ‘barbarians’ and ‘degenerates’. that was my 2 cents worth…Recommend
wonderful response mahreen – thanks for taking a stand for all of us.Recommend
wonderfully written. I cant understand how people abuse their own motherland or support that. Thanks for giving them a fitting response with such eloquence.Recommend
Pakistanis are good people. I have found them warm, hospitable and kind – never hateful or spiteful. Their family values are something we have lost in the west. Your “rule of law has been eroded” – quite right and that is the reason for the barbarity of Sialkot, not your race or history.
Good job mahreen.Recommend
@ Hassan – also look at the video from r Qureshi then. The Telegraph is a right wing paper which often writes such Pakistan bashing articles without any proof. Stop being such a defender of the west. No one is being chauvinistic or defending sialkot – just pointing out the prejudice of targeting Pakistanis alone.
@ Adnan S Khan – youre right – that was just worth 2 cents! Also black people feel the same as you in the US, Muslim women in Germany, France etc etc, Pakistanis in Britain.Recommend
I like how you equate the publishing of two blogs on a website with being beaten to death by a howling mob, as if the offending of your tender sensibilities is as grave a trauma as the lynching of two boys. The very fact that anyone can seriously equate the two actions shows just how deep-rooted the malaise is in our society. While I personally found both the articles in question to be tasteless and hyperbolic in tone, they don’t come close in offensiveness to your own.Recommend
THANK YOU Mahreen! A perfectly worded rebuttal to Zaka and Fulton. Excellent, excellent, excellent! More of the same please!Recommend
Looks could be so deceptive,degree from a foreign university can not change a mindset.Our educated people are uneducated.George knows our society more than a NINJA without a hijab.Recommend
http://www.thepakistanupdate.com/2010/08/the-mob-mentality/Recommend
“Muslims were more the victims of communal violence, as documented by various noted historians who also describe the role of the departing British colonisers as culpable.”
Firstly, as a History major, I am appalled to see a qualified writer utter something that is historically as inaccurate as this. What writers may I ask is the author referring to? I suspect these ‘noted historians’ are apologists for Islam and in addition blame everything on colonialism. Perhaps this is where the fault lies.
Very few writers offer a balanced view on Pakistan anymore. Either they are sympathetic toward the country’s plight and in turn offer glimmerings of support, or they revel in hating the roots from which Pakistan emerged. It is very simple to fit into either of these two categories. I am perhaps guilty of falling into the latter category as are many others who were deeply disturbed by the barbaric acts committed in Sialkot.
But we cannot say it is one or the other and be done with it. We must carefully look at and understand these two points of view. Is there something so wrong in thinking that there still exist leftovers from the era of Partition as Fulton suggested? Contrary to what the author has argued, any historian will confirm that both Hindus and Muslims did in fact “revel in bloodlust,” giving the most sinister of definitions to Hindustan or Pakistan. The question is why not let 1947 deduce who we are as a people? The answer is simple: visiting 1947 for any Pakistani so often means blaming the Hindus and English for everything that went wrong and victimizing the Muslims. This victim complex still exists. It is ostensible in this very post. Only when we learn to overcome and fully heal from the scars of Partition will we ever be able to define ourselves as a people and fully understand our roots. Then such articles wouldn’t be necessary.Recommend
I agree Maheen; Truth is a friend emailed the Sialkot video (i was unaware of it being shown on TV till that time) with the abandoning statement of “I am ashamed of being a Pakistani after seeing this. I think British were much better rulers of us than we can ever be”. and it struck me how quick people are (and young ones like us!) to doubt the very existence of the nation.
Does the example of people like Edhi make the whole nation a saint? then how can this make everyone (as you so rightly pointed out) undeserving and barbaric. i agree that we really need to rethink where we stand and preach love. take a stand at the wrongs we see. But it does not mean that we lose hope in ourselves and get “quarantined”.Recommend
A well reasoned and more than adequate rebuttal to Mr. Fulton. Thank you for balancing both sides of the arguments so diplomatically, we are not a nation of feral beings, we are a proud people with a rich heritage. Granted, we have flaws and are usually connected with the most heinous of crimes, but even the most disciplined person in the world is a potential barbarian at the best of times. Unless there is alleviation of poverty and an imposition of the rule of law, and a general acceptance of this, such atrocities will continue. The sad fact is that we cannot attribute blame to any one specific factor, however, self loathing is not the answer and neither is a change in government.Recommend
excuse, excuses, EXCUSES and pointless excuses!
Those articles by Fasi and George Fulton highlighted the core realities! but well of course people will spit it out since it was bitter but no doubt was absolutely truth! I’m sick of people trying to justify what can’t be justified, face it! and if people are so offended by what Fasi and George showed us in the mirror and find it too “nauseating” , then they should go and change themselves and become something better than a cockroach!Recommend
dear Mahreen, for some reason from the tone off your article one is trying to comprehend for some odd reason that you are trying to justify the actions off the lynch mob, yes just because it happens in other countries doesnt mean it happens here in pakistan, giving its due ISLAMIC REPUBLIC OF PAKISTAN , in history if i can recollect only two countries have been created on religion as its foundation pakistan and israel, the fact that these atrocities were committed by the muslims towards the muslims its painful..the countries you have quoted rwanada has a muslim population of 4.6 percent, majority being christians, similiar statistic probably apples to america…AND MOST ABOVE ALL THEY ARE NOT MUSLIM countries.. secondly this is not an odd occurance here or there but its a regular occurance off unislamic behaviour from the people whose belief is islam…fortunately for the BUTT brothers theyre might seem a glimmer of justice but i wouldnt hold my breath..so Maheen its not about pakistani hating or not patriotism its about standing up for what is JUST..and highlighting the pitfalls off our nation…surely for us to progress as a nation we need to identify and realise PAKISTAN IS A FAILED STATE, and hence we can move forward..since independance what have we really achieved bar the one atomic bomb???Recommend
Agreements/disagreements. Too many citizens expressing views and intents. Please dont waste time being pundits. no one can solve the problems of Pakistan. Every body, stay calm, and ponder. Help yourselves first. And help your generations be better humans. If you can do that, you will be at peace. God will not consider any one of us liable for problem solving (sadqah/charity/zakat etc are there and sincere ones are doing it). We are to give an account of our heart and faith. That must be pure. Pakistan, its problems, all remain out of our reach and responsibility. Our issues are beyond the capacity of 17 million pakistanis. All that you do, make sure you do it the pure way. Stay away from filth.Recommend
Yeah, that’s right. Rant & rave against others when they criticize you. Turn a deaf ear to your own barbarism, corruption, lack of any decency and general inhumanity that passes for a nation!Recommend
very well-written piece…& aptly concluded…could not agree wid you more..!Recommend
Any one can remember by going through the youtube video of Italy where a 21 year old lady was also lynched. People kicked her to death. Even she literally had a peice of cloth on her body. So making generalization (based on only one incident of its own kind) is not unacceptable. And also as said that the five fingers of a hand are not equal so good and bad are everywhere even that may be in England or in USA.Recommend
i think finally we come across a piece that does not birate our own nation. It is factually correct, politically sound and intellectually stimulating. I think the author has done a spectcular job. how many a people have revolutionalized and mobilized themselves out of austere situations by means of self-loathing and self-birating? unless we know we can change, we wont. we as a nation are not wretched. i refuse to accept such generalizations. And im sure all the well-read, and otherwise, have sense enough to reliaze this.
Im impressed by this piece.Recommend
How is the author going to deny what has been going on this country ever since it’s inception. We deserved to be cursed and that has nothing to do with liberalism or western civilization. I don’t even know why the author brought that into the discussion.
Let us not be blind and use this oppurtunity as a wake up call to mend our ways!Recommend
Looking at the long chain of comments, I think Fasih Zaka was correct in saying …. “There is such a sense of sickening moral superiority in Pakistanis, it needs to be addressed. All we care about is foreign policy, eager to point out the hypocrisies of the world, silent on our domestic, or even local life. Why should the world take what you say seriously, why should you be a regional power, or a leader in the comity of Islamic nations?
Truth is, there is only one way to get change, and it’s not hanging the people who killed these boys. It is raising your voice to contradict people who advocate death for others, no matter who they are speaking of. To internalise that murder of any kind, for anyone is wrong. Sounds easy? Well just try it.”Recommend
Masha Allah, Madam. You have done an excellent peace which brought me back to senses after watching the cruelity of some misguided people amongst us. I know there must be more than what we have seen but it goes unreported and unseen. Every nation has their their shaiateen amongst them and we have seen their cruelty. Why blame the whole nation when some people do wrong. Do we or the world blames German, Americans, Africans Indians and others for the wrong their people have commiteted and do commit every day. No. Then why Pakistan and Islam is always in the news. There is a big international conspriciy to downgrade us and we must all wake up and realise it sooner.Recommend
Just a repeat of whats been said endlessly lately.Recommend
Excellent piece! very well done! We really needed this..a reply to all those keyboard warriorsRecommend
I agree partly with the writer. However I would like to add that such articles are often used to give apologetic defense to native barbarism. Rawanda or Israel are not our countries, Pakistan is. So therefore one should not use example of their misdeeds to “soften” the bitter reality and ugliness in our own countryRecommend
Dear Ms. Khan
First of all, my heartfelt thanks for setting the record straight concerning, the “pure lynch mob mentality of the western and some so-called Pakistani pseudo- intellectuals”. It is a shame that instead of condemning an individual act of inhumanity or violence of a group of people, these opportunists – disguised as liberals – always criticize Pakistan as failed state and Pakistanis a violent prone nation. You are spot on, when you say that these columnists would not dare to write in such sadistic terms about western cultures. The media would not even allow it.
I work with Islamophobia in the western societies and monitor the media on daily basis. You would not believe what is being said, written and propagated against Islam, Muslim communities and Pakistan in this part of the world – right from serious magazines like Economist, Time and Newsweek, Der Spiegel and many more. BBC World, CNN, Fox TV, Deutsche Welle and Danish TV on daily basis insult Islam and the Islamic world. All this with the help of reporters, journalists and experts who have Pakistani/Muslim background and should know better.
I am all for freedom of speech, critical view of a society and relentless information to the public for their rights but and this is a big BUT, it must be done with objectivity, nuance arguments and with the purpose of bridging the gap between people. The last thing, Pakistan needs right now and in the future is that its elite should not spit in the plate, they eat. Western powers have their own interests and not Pakistan’s. Many western politicians are even saying that we should help Pakistan in its worst disaster otherwise Taleban would take over. What a way to help the needy.
Keep up the good work.
Kind regards
Bashy Quraishy
Chief Editor – MediaWatch – Denmark
Board Member – Institute for Human Rights -Denmark
Board Member – World Cultural Center – Copenhagen
Mobile; 0045 40 15 47 71
Phone; 0045 38 88 19 77
http://www.bashy.dkRecommend
Mahreen khan just earned my respect
V need such media persons.A perfect slap on the face of Fussy Zaka n George FultonRecommend
Mehreen you have your heart and mind in the right place. A couldn’t agree more with your concluding paragraph. Bravo!Recommend
Thumbs up!!Recommend
Very well written article. Thank you!Recommend
”These columnists would not dare to write in such sadistic terms about western cultures. No, they only prey on weak – pure lynch mob mentality ”
its quite ironic what you say here , because it is prophesizing exaclty what the other columnist is saying and you are trying to negate! but yes i agree, its not just us , but humans put in the situation and circumstances as our history probably would end up in a muck like this… questions that need to be raised are how to fix it , and not just what went wrong and how cock-rochy have we become.Recommend
Really glad you wrote this…A true Pakistani you are. Proud of u :)Recommend
i have three words for you : I LOVE YOU!
mr zakas article made me so angry!and every one was posting it as if it was a literary masterpiece..full of crass language and useless ..rhodes scholar please show what ‘you’ have done before you begin generalising..mr fulton i ignored..pointless hes not of this landRecommend
@Farheena
I Second your comment…regarding da Hypocricy of these “liberal” & “enlightened” columnists…who condemn da killings of minorities but at da same tym raise slogans in favour of Massacre & Bloodshed of hundreds of muslim sisters & children at Jamiyah Hafsa…tht’s called PURE Hypocricy..!Recommend
@ Raza Raja : I disagree – nowhere is the article justifying the actions in Sialkot or softening our misdeeds. It is just saying that race is not the determinant of bad deeds – by giving examples of other countries – the presence of rule of law is. And self-hate is not the way to go in resolving the issue.Recommend
Pakistanis seem so keen to belittle themselves. I have had friends at uni from Pakistan. Great people and I love Pak culture – but you are always bad mouthing each other. In India wev too has a lot of problems like poverty and illiteracy as well as religious fanatics. Stop scratching each other’s eyes out and sort it out.Recommend
Wow – brilliant piece. Sialkot was indefensible but screaming and self flagellation is not the answer – fassi and fulton are just milking a tragedy to be controvresial and totally over the top. Surprising editorial judgment to let such baseless statements through.Recommend
The Texas Chainsaw is not reflective of the American society since the movie’s plot is not seen happening in everyday American life, at least not since the KKK lynchings 60-70 years ago. A few months ago a cab driver of Pakistani origin in Britain attacked the alleged boyfriend of his soon to be wife with acid and went on to torture the girl. Incidents such as these have become so common that there is an organization within Pakistan called Acid Survivors Foundation (not that there aren’t similar organizations in other countries but, is this the company we want to keep?). If anything this incident should prove that Taliban are just an excuse for us to ignore a strand of exremist behavior underlying the fabric of our society. George Fulton or other journalists may have nothing vested in Pakistan but we are all ‘in’. We must relegate concerns for a positive image for the sake of a healthy society.Recommend
Pakistanis on the whole are simply a bunch of frustrated, complexed and uneducated lot!! We need to apread alot of education in this society so that we can get rid of such brutalities and barbarism… The problem with us lot is we bring Islam into everything…well, where was Islam when these two helpless innocent boys were being lynched to death infront of the ‘police’ and other so called ‘religious and pious’ spectators….in the holy month of Ramadan??? A young boy was seen lashing out at the dead corpse of one of these boys!! What are we teaching the next generation…that violence should be condoned without any significant proof whatsoever?? On top of that, I guarantee you that justice will sadly never prevail for these two martyrs of Sialkot!!!!!Recommend
Wonderful piece mahreen. Thank God someone is writing sense instead of peddling racial stereotypes and self recrimination. If you dont like Pakistan and you think we are cockroaches – then leave.
I like the way you ended – absolutely right. We will get justice for the victims in Sialkot because that is the right thing to do. Not through shame or self hatred.Recommend
Brilliantly written. You said what so many of us feel but cant write as well. It is so sad when people belittle Pakistan. We have major problems – yes – but to stand in judgment and say we are “barbaric” particularly someone who is from the race who had the most evil colonial record is sickening.
Thanks for having the courage and intelligence to write this.Recommend
Ms Mahreen – I am so glad that not all young people are suffering from an inferiority complex where they indulge in self hatred and swallow western stereotypes and policies just to be accepted in our “elite” circles.
This country was created through many sacrifices. Fulton’s remarks about partition were deeply offensive and totally biased. I lost many relatives and to this day the pain is unbearable. It saddens me deeply to see the state Pakistan is in but abusing this country and its people is the sign of a weak and juvenile mind.
Your analysis is intelligent and solid. Well done.Recommend
Fassi and George normally write in an entertaining way but they both lost the plot with their articles. Lowered my opinion of their writing. It was like the tabloid version of a serious issue.
Glad you rebutted them both in such a measured, reasoned way.
Sialkot needs to be investigated thoroughly and everyone prosecuted. Hope the PML-N doesnt cover up for any ViP’s that are bound to be liable.Recommend
Glad to see this and Salman’s responses. Those 2 columns by zaka and george fullton were unworthy of publication in my view for the sheer stereo typing displayed. If they had been about any other nation/race they would never have been printed. We are the punching bag. As are Muslims in general.
Thanks for setting the record straight although mahreen you need to write about the way forward – solutions to the our social degradation as evidenced in sialkot.Recommend
simply brilliant!Recommend
@Marjan – name calling/abuse is the lowest form of communication – no wonder you enjoyed the fulton and cockroach pieces.
Barrister Khan – keep it up. Very good column.Recommend
@Rizwan – KKK lynchings went on well into the 60′s. Not that long ago!
Abuse is not warranted no matter what the situation – thats the point – not that bad stuff isnt happening. Self hatred is counterproductive and advocating is is simply a weak and feeble way of not providing any answers.Recommend
the fassi and george pieces were laughable and shallow. why give them any credibility by penning a response?Recommend
Lovely piece. Exactly the right way to answer the fussy and george – claiming to speak for all of us – was deceitful and “nauseating” indeed!
Superb writing mehreen.Recommend
I agree with A Waseem – I dont trust the Sharifs at all. Justice wont be done for the two boys. our politicians are all above the law and so are their friends. Rule of law has been shattered.
Great writing though – talented.Recommend
Mahreen – I don’t think that George meant to be offensive but i agree with you – he had no right to speak on behalf of all (or any) Pakistanis and the statements were gross generalisations and inflammatory (you missed the one that was a take on “violence is as american as apple pie”).
But I disagree with your last para – many pakistanis will get engrossed in theories about whether the boys were guilty. Justice will not be done – it will just be a PR exercise by the politicians. The system is totally corrupt.Recommend
Loved it! You are amazing! Thank you1 thank you! A well deserved right hook, Ali Style, to those who think they can keep punching Pakistan.Recommend
thank you for writing this. RESPECT!!!Recommend
loved it! awesome!Recommend
this article just gave more attention to the fassi/george nonsense. you should have ignored what they wrote as it was just so ludicrous.Recommend