The British state will have to tread carefully when dealing with this issue. Obviously, it can never condone or excuse ‘honour’ killings but it must not be seen as scapegoating the entire Muslim community because of the actions of a small minority. One possible solution is to partner with trusted clerics who have a more enlightened view and try to marginalise preachers who spew hate. This effort should encompass many different areas, from the rights of children to the tolerance of non-Muslims. The 7/7 London bombings are still fresh in the minds of many in Britain. Rather than use that as a reason to further marginalise an alienated community, British authorities need to figure out why some Muslims have essentially declared themselves at war against their own country.
In the 1980s, Norman Tebbit, a minister in the Margaret Thatcher government famously proposed what became known as the Tebbit Test. This test would ask immigrants if they supported England or the country of their origin in cricket. The test was correctly derided at the time as giving off a whiff of racism. Now, however, might be the time to update it. Muslim immigrants need to prove that they will respect the rights of everyone, even those in the community who may not follow the version of Islam they practice.
Published in The Express Tribune, August 5th, 2012.
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this is incomplete story ..the girl was forced to marry a Muslim boy in Pakistan but she refused ...why u go to Othr countries when u cant ignore cultural shocks....
I did research to write a comment this morning. What happened to it?
@ Zahid Qureshi
mare you thinking straight?
Please do not confuse tribalism with Islam
"Desi" people live a penny-pinching life abroad and doing so, they send their children to PUBLIC schools, which host assorted category of children, teaching them morality only. Children pass their most of time with Non-Muslims, resulting in reception of various racial/religious/non-religious affects turning into habits. Habit is the part which parents hate the most; however, had parents thought about this coming earlier, they would have been saved. To my perception, it is highly insecure for families to keep their children in western countries at age "reaching-to-puberty until they turn 25," and it could better be dealt with keeping children back in their home country during interim period where religious factors are quite dominant.
No version of Islam gives right to kill a person. Adultery, pre-martial sex and other sexual immoralities do not demand a capital punishment in Islam. IN the above stated case a parent killing their own children is not due to fear of God but in fact fear of community and society as they perceive it. Their religion is nothing but a sham philosophy of pleasing others and forgetting about the God in whose name they commit this crime.
The responsibility of the migrant community to assimilate with the country should be the migrants and not the country's. After all it is the migrant who chose to migrate. They can have their own language, culture etc etc,. But importing such obnoxious practices of honour killing, sharia law, preaching jihad should be out of question. If the country spends money and time to assimilate the migrant population, that is fine as it is upto the govt how to spend their money, But to demand that will be unacceptable. To migrate to the western country, live on a dole, run taxis and generate unaccounted money, pay no taxes, breed like rabbits etc will lead to civil unrest.
"Obviously, it can never condone or excuse ‘honour’ killings but it must not be seen as scapegoating the entire Muslim community because of the actions of a small minority."
No. They will just prosecute anybody involved in "honour" killings, regardless of their religion, ethnicity etc. From now on the taboo on considering izzat when finding dead bodies of teenagers in the UK is broken.
The tebbit test is useless because with the conditions in Muslim countries being what they are anyone wanting to come to live in Wstern countries will lie and say they will behave according to the law and then having recieved permanent residence go back to Islamic ways. Hundreds are fleeing Muslim countries and coming to Australia and on arrival here try to fleece the country by not doing jobs and living on government handouts. I believe only highly educated Muslims should be allowed to enter and others thrown out to prevent barbaric honour killings and genital mutilations of women carried out in the name of religion.
But there is no sword on top of their head so why are they still practicing the teachings of islam. That should give west answer to their claim that islam was forced upon people. As regards honor killing what did britain do to the case of princess Dianna honour killing.
The proposed solution to partner with trusted clerics who have a more enlightened view is fine except there are too few such clerics as compared to the ones that spew hate. An effort should be made to root out radical clerics at a very early stage. That may be accomplished when tolerance of non-Muslims becomes an integral part of study of Islam.
The problem is that it is the majority which condones honor killings, not the minority. Most of the cases of forced marriage among British Muslims involve SOUTH ASIANS. It seems to me that all people can be reasoned with, except Pakistanis, Indians and Bengalis. Britain's best bet is to revoke the nationalities of all South Asians, be they Hindu, Muslim or whatever.
Now, however, might be the time to update it. Muslim parents should respect the right of their children under the local law of the land.
They also need to upgrade their parenting software. Most want their daughter to be a good swimmer but do not allow them to wear swim suit or go to local swimming pool. They follow daughter to school, work and do not allow friends over or allow daughter to go to their friends. Daughters loose job becuse family member hang around work place. Islamic preacher are not the answer as relegion is not solution to all problem. e.g. parents send daughters to islamic school with false belief that they will learn to respect parents. They forget that respect is earned not demanded. they themselve will not respect the rights of the daughter e.g. enter her room without knocking, do not allow to have a lock on the door, listen to her telephone conversation, snoop daughters email, facebook account etc
Not only expatriate Pakistani parents have failed their children, their children have failed them too. Those children who are brilliant, get professional degree and join main stream professional life have no problem even if their parents are backward and rigid. Problem arises when Kids drop out from schools and start hanging out with white or black trash. They involve themselves in drugs and crimes and bring criminals to their homes. It shatters the dreams of Desi parents but western society doesn't care because they need this trash for low end jobs. Unlike white or black kids, Desi kids don't leave their parents homes, also force them to pay their bills, provide shelter and clothes. The roots of the problems can be found in these situations.
what is that means...