The meeting in late May followed months of clamoring by Islamabad, images of flag-draped coffins on TV, and widespread outcry from Pakistanis incensed by the US air attack that killed 24 of their soldiers on the Afghan border last November.
The breakthrough, in which Islamabad reopened supply routes into Afghanistan and Washington yielded to months of Pakistani demands to apologize for the border deaths, was praised as a prelude to improved ties between two nations whose security alliance had lapsed into mutual suspicion and hostility.
After US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton's discussions with Pakistani President Asif Ali Zardari in the cavernous Chicago conference center where world leaders met for a NATO summit, Clinton instructed Thomas Nides, a top deputy back in Washington, to do what it took to find a solution ensuring NATO could once again supply the war in Afghanistan via Pakistan.
At the heart of last week's denouement was a carefully worded statement that allowed the United States to accommodate Pakistani indignation without opening President Barack Obama up to criticism months before presidential polls.
Just as importantly, it aimed to avoid alienating those within Obama's government who had resisted apologizing to a country many in Washington see as acting to subvert US goals in the region, even while accepting massive US aid.
"A lot of people were holding their nose at the White House and the Pentagon at the notion of an apology," a US official said on condition of anonymity.
"The logic was that this was not a full-throated apology but that it was enough of a statement of regret, using terms associated with an apology, to get us across the GLOC finish line," the official said, using the acronym used for the supply routes - or Ground Lines of Communications - that Pakistan shut down after the November 26 border attack.
"It was a semantic high-wire act."
Taking it to the top
Clinton's talks in Chicago with Zardari proved pivotal because, for the first time, they elevated months of efforts to hammer out a solution on technical issues, including proposed fees on NATO supplies, to the senior political level.
Nides and his Pakistani counterpart, Finance Minister Abdul Hafeez Shaikh, then spent weeks crafting language that would be acceptable to both sides, sealing the deal during Nides' visit to Islamabad just days before an internal US deadline of the July 4 independence holiday.
Without a deal, US officials believed, fed-up lawmakers might act to clamp down on US aid to Pakistan after then.
In her statement, issued after a call last Tuesday with Pakistani Foreign Minister Hina Rabbani Khar, Clinton did not use the word "apology."
"Foreign Minister Khar and I acknowledged the mistakes that resulted in the loss of Pakistani military lives," Clinton said. "We are sorry for the losses suffered by the Pakistani military," she said.
According to sources familiar with the matter, the deal was aided by signals from the Pakistani side that parliamentary demands for an "unconditional" apology would not necessitate stronger language than Clinton ultimately used. Pakistan also dropped demands for extra fees on NATO supplies.
In what may have been another instrumental element, Pakistani officials said the linguistic hair-splitting in Washington would fade when Clinton's statement was translated into Urdu.
After months of rejecting an apology, the White House appears to have embraced the final arrangement in the latter part of June as bipartisan support emerged in Washington for striking a deal.
US officials saw political reaction to Defense Secretary Leon Panetta's June 13 congressional testimony - in which he said that the supply route closure was costing an extra $100 million a month - as a meaningful sign that an apology wouldn't trigger a political storm for Obama.
There were also suggestions that patience was growing short among Washington's NATO allies, who began to signal interest in unilateral arrangements of their own with Pakistan.
Another US official said that while France and Britain - British Foreign Secretary William Hague made a visit to Islamabad in mid-June - expressed eagerness to have the ground routes open, there was never any suggestion that fellow NATO nations would break ranks with the United States.
Reservations at Pentagon
Clinton's language appeared to have been crafted with one eye on the US Defense Department, where officials for months had refused to apologize for a confused nighttime incident that they saw as a case of legitimate self-defense: the Pakistanis, they said, fired first.
A US investigation into the incident - in which Pakistan refused to take part - found that both sides were to blame and said the deaths were the result of a "misunderstanding." Pakistan called it an unprovoked assault.
Importantly, Pakistan's military could scarcely afford to be seen as bowing to the United States just months after coming under unprecedented public pressure for the 2011 US raid, conducted without Islamabad's knowledge, that killed al Qaeda leader Osama bin Laden on Pakistani territory.
While the State Department advocated some sort of apology from the start, resistance by many officials at the Pentagon and White House was magnified by widespread frustration at Pakistan's perceived unwillingness act against militants, something seen as a top impediment to stability in Afghanistan as NATO nations withdraw their troops.
Pakistan vehemently denies turning a blind eye to insurgents and points out that many of its own soldiers and civilians have died at the hands of various militant groups.
At the Pentagon, both Panetta and General Martin Dempsey, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, were known to be strongly opposed to an apology. As late as June 21, Panetta suggested past expressions of regret and condolence were sufficient.
"We've made clear what our position is, and I think it's time to move on," Panetta said in an interview with Reuters, when asked if he would oppose a further apology.
Last week, Panetta welcomed the reopening of the supply routes in a two-sentence statement, saying the two countries would work together on security issues. There was no mention of the Pakistani soldiers who died.
Panetta "has acknowledged the regrets we expressed ... and the mistakes made by both sides," said Captain John Kirby, a Pentagon spokesman. "And he has been clear that it is time to move the relationship forward."
While the position of the US defense chief and others at the Pentagon many not have changed since November, they do not appear to be troubled by the wording of the message that broke the long impasse with Pakistan.
"Everyone at the end of the day can say they got what they wanted - the White House, the Pakistanis, the State Department, the Pentagon," the first US official said.
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@Aryabhat: very well said and your question raises the true priorities of Pakistanis and their confused mindset. Apology does not make you any better than yesterday because Pakistanis, their rulers and their army all move in three different directions without any goal...
@ayesha_khan: "We are sorry for the losses suffered by the Pakistani military."
Last time I checked language construction it doesn't equal to "We are sorry for attacking Pakistan and killing soldiers.".
So many, fooled so easily. Its called.. "the english language" for a reason
@Raj - USA:
"Your comment is very realistic and I fully endorse your views. If Pakistan can get Shale Gas Technology from USA, it would transform Pakistan."
I don't think Pakistan has any deposits of shale. Besides, it does not have to GET the technology. All it has to do is give a contract to any international company that has expertise in this area such as Halliburton.
@Ammad Malik: "We are a blind, deaf and stupid nation." Yep, you got that right! And smelly.
@Shahryar: It's hard to respect a country that is (1) unscrupulously corrupt, at every level and (2) harbors terrorists. Respect is not given, it is earned.
Respect is earned, true but is this the way to earn respect??? I'm not sure if you going to earn any respect this way.
You can't isolate yourselves from the other, hence needs to have a mutual understanding between all parties ( USA etc). As soon as NATO leave Afganistan , I will see how much corporation pak will get from them. So we need to make a partnership which lasts long and which serves interest of both parties. Agreement where only one side benefits doesn't last long, it's simple.
@GrimmJow: No - respect is earned.
@Dr. Saleem Siddiqi: Your comment is very realistic and I fully endorse your views. If Pakistan can get Shale Gas Technology from USA, it would transform Pakistan.
@Tahir: OK then what solution you have. Instead of criticizing you must also give a workable solution keeping in view of the fact that:
USA is the only World Power and Watch dog / Policeman Pakistan economy depends on US aid. US has over 90 countries strong allies. It has influence over IMF and other loan lending agencies.
Regards Dr. Saleem Siddiqi
@Shahryar: "Pakistan does not need aid n’ trade, we also demand respect!"
Respect has to be earned. It can't be demanded.
@Shaheer Malik
I think that is a special talent from God that you and most of our fellow Pakistani's posses. I wonder why and how we're in such a state even after possessing such powers ?
@Iftikhar-ur-Rehman
Bulldozed??! Millions of $s and 7 months later they submit to Pakistan's 'initial' demand (albeit partially), how is that bulldozing Pakistan to open routes?
Tell me, if your memory serves, which government in the history of this country has been able to resist a super power for over a month? and that to ending it with fulfillment of their demand?
And finally, I think you forget Pakistan's position in this relationship - factor that in and you should be praising the people who brokered this.
We are a blind, deaf and stupid nation.
To all those asking for "Apology" from US for dead Pakistani soldiers -
May I please ask you to show your Courage and ask for the SAME APOLOGY from TTP for killing soldiers in Gujarat?
Just look at the face of our president everything will reveal.
@Shahryar: "Pakistan does not need aid n’ trade, we also demand respect!"
Respect is not demanded but Commanded.
@Shahryar: I would loved to see all the fantasy dreams you are day dreaming but alas BEGGERS ARE NOT THE CHOOSERS. Be happy and contend with what you can extract from US based on our current position.
Regards Dr. Saleem Siddiqi
@Moise: Apparently ET did see the apology written all over as they made it sound like america is as sorry as a man who has killed his own son (by mistake)
How many apology we need, Salala attack, OBL red, Rymind Davios and daily Drone attacks ? way we are not worry about the Drone attacks because the victims are poor Pathans, and useless part of Pakistan? just move on, apology and all is not our line we borne to be loyal servants.
@Dr. Saleem Siddiqi:
Dr. Siddiqi, where were you at the time of 9/11? Why did you not suggest Mr. President at the time to move on and consider 9/11 an isolated incident and work towards global harmony and peace?
We could have helped US in gaining an apology from anti-America Talibs based in Afghanistan. Pakistan would have also promised in assisting tracking down the culprits.
Moving on, us, Pakistanis have to think as a nation for once. The issue here is not an apology but the case of dead soldiers.
Pakistan does not need aid n' trade, we also demand respect!
Apology??? What apology??They bulldozed Pakistan into opening the route to supplies!!!
Fully endorse Dr. Saleem Siddiqi views! Move on & try to improve the economy instead of looking at the wordings of apology.
@Moise: "Anyone seen apology text?"
There was no apology just regret and condolence, so naturally there is no apology text. Here is the official statement on the US state department website http://www.state.gov/secretary/rm/2012/07/194502.htm
I fully agree with your statement. The real question is that the establishment does not want this. They rather have the Haqqani Network than a progressive Pakistan. So sorry, nothing will change as to your wishes.
Instead of beating the bush, we must now move forward from here. US has already promised that they will help and assist us in TRADE and not aid. This statement is welcomed to accelerate our Exports to earn much needed foreign exchange.
Bilateral agreements and execution needed in the Energy and Power Sectors. Unlike USA provided Atomic Energy to India, If we are assisted with the traditional Power Houses, it would be great.
Similarly, we need US assistance in Oil and Gas Exploration both onshore and offshore to do away oil and gas dependency on others.
If all these are happening, I am sure, lot of employment will also generate for a better economy at large.
Regards Dr. Saleem Siddiqi
Anyone seen apology text?