A mortar bomb shredded him from the waist down as he led an advance against Taliban fighters in 2007 in Pakistan's unruly northwestern tribal areas on the Afghan border.
Instead of enjoying full retirement benefits, he underwent rehabilitation, was given artificial limbs and returned as a commander to a desk job in the militant-infested region where he was wounded.
"What more can Pakistanis do?," asked Rehman, 35.
That question has often strained ties between Washington and Islamabad, but it has been posed far more frequently since US special forces killed Osama bin Laden in May in a Pakistani town, where he had apparently been living for years.
Admiral Mike Mullen said before retiring as chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff last month that a militant group that had attacked US targets in Afghanistan was a "veritable arm" of Pakistani intelligence.
Then President Barack Obama put Pakistan on notice that it must go after militants or risk severing ties to the United States, the source of billions of dollars in aid.
Pakistan denies links with militant groups and says it has sacrificed more than any other country that joined the US "war on terror" after the September 11, 2001 attacks.
Officials say more than 3,000 Pakistani soldiers have been killed, greater than the combined death toll among Nato forces in Afghanistan. Nearly 10,000 have been wounded.
"Imagine how the US would react if such a number had lost their lives and then comments would come from other countries, which said that, 'You are the problem, you are part of the problem'," Pakistani Foreign Minister Hina Rabbani Khar said in an interview with an American radio programme.
For the relatives of soldiers killed in battles against the militants, the charges are especially outrageous.
Living on memories
Captain Omerzeb Afzal Baig and two other soldiers died in the prime of their lives when their vehicle was blown apart in May 2009 by a remote-controlled roadside bomb planted by the Taliban.
His father sits proudly in the family living room beside a large photograph of Omerzeb in military gear, taken two hours before his death in a quick reactionary force mission he had volunteered to lead.
"Look at his smartness, look at the way he is smiling, right in the battlefield area. Look at the way that he is all prepared," said Muhammad Afzal Baig, himself a retired colonel.
"Do you see anything like worries on his face? Not a single wrinkle. He is all prepared; he is fully charged, and that is what a Pakistani soldier is made of."
The United States wants Pakistan to crack down on militants who cross its border to attack Western forces in Afghanistan.
But although it has one of the largest militaries in the world, Islamabad says its hands are full fighting militants who attack government and civilian targets in Pakistan.
At a military rehabilitation hospital in the garrison city of Rawalpindi, amputees are surprisingly frank about how vulnerable troops have become to the Taliban militants, described as masters of guerrilla warfare, with plenty of firepower and precision.
"You just don't know what to expect. When you launch an attack they can hit you from any side," said wheelchair-bound private Zaheer Abbas, recalling how he flew up in the air after stepping on a home-made Taliban bomb.
"Everyday, they are growing in number. The situation is getting worse."
Paralysis
Critics say Pakistan is partly to blame for the chaos because it nurtured militant groups for years and used them as proxies in Afghanistan or against rival India - creating a Frankenstein in its own back yard.
Pakistani officials blame US policies - such as the 2001 invasion of Afghanistan - for the instability. Thousands of militants fled from Afghanistan to northwest Pakistan at that time and formed alliances with other fighters.
Nowadays, Islamabad complains that Washington is ungrateful no matter how many losses Pakistan suffers battling militants in the border region. Many of its soldiers are determined to see the battle through.
Private Ansar Javed for instance. During a three-hour battle to reach a Taliban position in May, the 24-year-old slowly made his way up a mountain, dodging incoming rockets and grenades.
Then, in an instant, a sniper's bullet struck the front of his neck, causing paralysis from the waist down. He is barely able to move his arms and has no control over his bowels.
"We are doing everything we can. We have to finish them off," he said, speaking from a hospital bed.
"We don't need anyone's help," he added bitterly, referring to the United States
The tense alliance between the two nations is likely to come under more stress, with stepped up demands from the United States for Pakistan to take decisive action against militants - including those Pakistan regards as assets.
Washington hopes to stabilise the region as much as possible by the end the of 2014, when all Nato troops are due home from Afghanistan. For Pakistan, any relationship with the militants in Afghanistan will be a vital lever after the withdrawal.
The calculations mean little for people like Sahib Khan Awan, who has already given his oldest son, Faiz Sultan, to the cause of stamping out militancy.
The lieutenant hurled grenades into a Taliban bunker killing 30 fighters before he was shot repeatedly in the chest. When his son's commander phoned him with the tragic news, Sahib asked just one question.
"I said, 'Tell me where did my son receive the bullets'? If the bullets are in his back, then just bury him there. If he has bullets in his chest, then bring him to my village," he said, explaining that only cowards run from the enemy.
"The commander told me, 'Congratulations. Your son has received 22 bullets in his chest'."
That same day Sahib signed up his other son to help fight the Taliban.
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@H. Ali: secularism was chosen to express the extention of free thought.Its doctrines have been taught by free thinkers of all ages.Of them Bradlaugh was an athies,holyoake was too.They claimed that secularism should start with disproof of religions.The logical consequence of the acceptance of Secularism must be that the man gets to atheism.Which is protest against God.The fundamentel principle of secularism is that any thing that is above or beyond the present life(it may be any or 21st century) should be entirely overlooked,whether God exist or not, the soul is immortal or not.The atheist can only be consistent secularist. what is to say of Muslims even catholics reject this curse.
and pakistanis need to keep an eye on taliban-sympathisers;this is not that hard,becuse invariably a mullah will be involved
I really feel sorry for the family of the soldiers and the soldiers themselves. They are fighting no one's cause. They have been systematically indoctrinated with Religion, Hate India and other uncivilised policies of the pak army that they have become cannon fodders instead of the jihadis who were the cannon fodders earlier. The rot is right at the top. Correction must start there. Then only the feet can stand and stand well. Good luck.
@Saleem: I'm not indian. you see this kind of thinking is all what we are regretting now. you can't think that their can be a single reasonable, rational pakistani who can object in such way. Come out of the cave. Welcome to 21st century. It's not late.
@Parvez: yes this is the issue.
@Usman: you are right.
"Pakistanis wonder what more they can do in war on militancy" Not difficult at all, just break all relations with the militants and warn them that the game is over and they must go back home. Our military cannot take revenge from India, as it is so powerful that even China has become its friend. Only solution is to make Pakistan economically so strong that India will try itself to solve Kashmir dispute and that can be on Pakistan's economic position and not on a weak suicidal high military leadership. America supported and created Taliban, Haqaani Group and induced Pakistani Military (via General Zia) to fight 'cold war' and succeeded but the same technique will not be successful against India with American money, but can be successful with only Pakistani money that we don't have. My heart goes out for Sahib and thousands other who are sacrificing their all in the name of whatever you call....
“We are doing everything we can. We have to finish them off,” he said, speaking from a hospital bed.
described as masters of guerrilla warfare, with plenty of firepower and precision.
“You just don’t know what to expect. When you launch an attack they can hit you from any side,” said wheelchair-bound private Zaheer Abbas, recalling how he flew up in the air after stepping on a home-made Taliban bomb.
That is what the soldiers are saying, and then people like Imran Khan say we should negoitate with these murderers.
Now initiate action against the educated elite who very often extend their moral support to terrorists through their write ups , Meeting in mosques and madarssas should be duly registered and records of the minuts should be kept .
I pity the soldiers of pakistan. They do have rights to live a peaceful life with their family. They have been mis-used by their government, suspected by americans, cursed by indians and targeted by talibans
We could start by doing something about the madrases and their foreign sponsors.
We are fighting our war even if this started out as another's...We are bleeding young lives here this is our war...and if we created them then we are paying penance for it...But Allah Willing the sacrifices of the men and women of our nation will not go in vain
well.. If pakistanis don't do anything, that would be the greatest contribution to the war on militancy...
The sad thing is, not one Pakistani English newspaper had the ethics to run their own story about Pak Army's sacrifices. This story's copied from a foreign media source.
What more can you do to defeat militants? How about: 1) extend the writ of the state to all territory in Pakistan; 2) establish working courts and a working police force in the tribal areas, then arrest and prosecute terrorists; 3) trace and eliminate funding of extremists groups; 4) reform pakistans educational system to remove extremist propaganda; 5) monitor mosques and madrases to insure that extremism is not being taught/preached.
Stop sympathizing the taliban and secularize yourself is all what you need. Millions of pakis still think they are fighting american war and/or killing their brothers.
Pakistan is suffering because it is following a dual policy of fighting and supporting the terrorists organisations simultaneously. Until zero tolerance policy against all militant including sectarian oufits is adopted, there will be no peace and economic progress in the country.
The issue with Pakistan is not just religious extremism, it is an inherent feudalism. The lower middle class contributes to the countries security through these wounded soldiers. But when the world accuses Pakistan of not doing enough, it really accuses the ruling elite, who consort with the extremists. They have grandiose dreams of not just an Islamic republic but an Islamic empire and do not think twice of having to sacrifice the lower classes for these goals.
how about not creating militants?