Marina Khan on embracing grey hair, fame and staying grounded

Veteran actor says authenticity, humility and education matter more than chasing quick fame and success

Veteran actor Marina Khan has revealed that her decision to embrace her natural grey hair was inspired by her mother, whose distinctive appearance left a lasting impression on her during childhood.

Speaking in a recent interview, she reflected on her now-signature grey hair, the criticism surrounding her drama review show, the pitfalls of overnight fame and the importance of arts education.

Recalling the memory that shaped her decision, Marina said she was attending a function as a child when she spotted her mother from a distance. "I recognised her immediately because she was the only woman with grey hair. I then thought to myself, 'Why shouldn't I do the same?'"

She added that constantly colouring hair had never appealed to her. "It was very difficult to dye your hair. Once you start, you have to keep doing touch-ups."

Known for experimenting with different hairstyles throughout her career, Marina said she had never been afraid of changing her look. "I've always loved experimenting with my hair. I've even had perms several times. Once, my hair started falling out, but I didn't worry too much because I knew it would grow back."

She also recalled a humorous encounter in one of Karachi's markets, where a child briefly mistook her for an elderly woman.

"I usually walk very fast in markets because people tend to bump into you. I suddenly heard someone shouting, 'Ami!' At that time, I still had some black hair and braids. Then the child realised the mistake and said, 'Oh sorry, aunty, aap agaye,' which made me laugh."

Discussing the criticism directed at Kya Drama Hai—the television review show she co-hosts with Nadia Khan and Atiqa Odho—Marina said many viewers judge the programme based on short clips circulating online rather than watching complete episodes. "The criticism we receive is because people don't watch the entire episode. They only see snippets or clips taken out of context. At the end of the day, every channel wants views."

She said constructive criticism should be viewed as an opportunity to learn rather than something to fear. "When a professional criticises your work, take it with a pinch of salt. Don't take yourself so seriously. If you can't laugh at yourself, you can't be happy in life."

Reflecting on Tanhaiyaan (1985), the classic drama that established her career, Marina said she could envision a new generation of actors taking on her iconic role of Sanya. "I think Dananeer or Hania could do it," she said.

Turning to the industry's culture, Khan stressed that lasting success comes through patience and hard work rather than chasing instant fame. "I think some people's educational grounding and upbringing are not strong enough. They simply want to become famous. But if you haven't put in the work, how long will that fame last?"

She cited actor Wahaj Ali as an example of someone whose success came after years of perseverance. "Wahaj has been in the industry for a long time but only recently achieved widespread fame. I think that's a good thing. When fame comes too quickly, people surround you, you make false friends, and it's easy to lose your grounding. That's why it's important to stay humble."

Marina also spoke about practising gratitude and making reading a regular habit to maintain perspective. "When we go through life, we often take things for granted and complain. Reading reminds you of what's happening around you and how fortunate you really are."

She then quoted a well-known motivational passage highlighting the value of health, education and basic necessities, saying it serves as a reminder to remain grounded and appreciate life's blessings.

Turning to the state of arts and culture in Pakistan, the actor called for greater emphasis on music, drama and the performing arts within schools and colleges.

"I think when schools and colleges introduce music and drama classes from a young age, it helps nurture talent. When we were growing up, there would only be one annual play and one rehearsal. If students had those opportunities throughout their education, it would make a real difference."

She said providing young people with consistent exposure to the arts would help cultivate future performers while strengthening Pakistan's creative industry.

Marina is currently appearing in the television drama Dr Bahu and recently featured in the film Love Guru.