New Delhi and Islamabad are in the midst of negotiating a peace deal. Foreign secretaries and foreign ministers have met to pave the way for a summit between the prime ministers of the two countries. They are the ones to push the pace of talks which, at present, oscillate between the steps needed to eliminate terrorism and the formula that would find a common ground between India and Pakistan.
However, I do not pin much hope on governments on the two sides. They have different priorities and have locked themselves into snarls of fear and mistrust. No settlement is possible without involving the three — India, Pakistan and Kashmir. And I do not think that there is such a formula possible, although Pakistan’s former foreign minister Khurshid Kasuri claims that Prime Minister Manmohan Singh would have visited Islamabad to sign the agreement at Islamabad if the lawyers’ agitation in Pakistan had not come in the way.
I still hope for an agreement and my optimism is due to the response by the ever-increasing number of people who attended Attari-Wagah border event and raised the slogan: “Long Live India-Pakistan Dosti”. This time, it was a sea of humanity. Nearly 200,000 people had come to the border to participate in the function where we talked of peace and friendship and where we heard the leading singers of India and Pakistan displaying their skill.
The most heartening and somewhat surprising aspect was the presence of the Pakistanis right at the border to exchange candles and to raise the slogan of friendship jointly between the two countries. Never before had the Pakistanis come to the zero point at the border, sometimes because of government pressure, sometimes because of threats by Islamic parties and sometimes because of mere diffidence.
Happily, I find that a group of Pakistanis has come up to dare the anti-Indian opinion makers in their country. They have braved more difficulties than us because theirs is still a military-blessed civil government. We too got threats from the saffron crowd but the democratic structure in India strengthened us in our resolve to span the distance between the two countries.
Former Prime Minister Nawaz Sharif, a sane voice in Pakistan, has said that person-to-person contact should continue as it was linked with peace and prosperity. He said both Pakistan and India competed with each other in defence, due to which Pakistan was lagging behind in infrastructure, health and development. India’s poverty is also linked with too much expenditure on defence.
The media on the Indian side was once again caught napping. For it, thousands of people shouting for peace and thousands from the other side lending their voice to the demand for friendship does not make news. Most newspapers and TV networks suffer from prejudice against Pakistan, which they have had for years. Have they ever considered consequences of Pakistan disintegrating or going under the Taliban?
It was Prime Minister Atal Behari Vajpayee, leading a government of the Bharatiya Janata Party which still thrives in disseminating hatred, who wrote in the visitors’ book at Minar-e-Pakistan — the place where the resolution for the formation of Pakistan was adopted in 1940 — that India’s integration and prosperity was dependent on the integration and prosperity of Pakistan. The process of peace can be accelerated if this is understood both at New Delhi and Islamabad. There is no alternative to friendship between the two nations.
Published in The Express Tribune, August 22nd, 2011.
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I think you should wait till iftaar before you start posting on the ET boards.
@Adnan Lets be honest. Pakistan needs peace more than India. As India gets richer they will can afford to ignore us. They will just build a big wall around us and let us fight among our selves. We are seeing this right now.
Normalizing of relations between the two countries is not just desirable, it is necessary for both countries in the long haul. I hope better sense prevails in both countries.
Long live Janab kuldip nayar sahab and i hope dream come true.
Inshallah there will be friendship between India & Pakistan!
@FARHAN: "...despite problems both countries have no way forward but to except each other. Long live peace in South Asia." Amen! Exactly my thoughts. The two countries "have no way forward but to except each other". Only when we "except" each other can peace in South Asia live long!
Mr Kuldipji well done and well said. I have always enjoyed reading your columns but the latest is the best.you sir, seem to be the true follower of the traditions, preached, followed and practised by all the spiritual masters and saints of India including, Ghandeji, Tagore, Arobinder Ghosh, Mulana Azad, Dr.Rahda Krishnan and Khan Abdul Ghaffar Khan. May you live long Kuldipji, to see the fruits of peace in Asia.
Good line. Who ever thinks that Pakistan and India live with this anti-friendship Pooh-Pooh, are not looking at the ever changing world with increasing economic dependency.
I seriously believe that despite problems both countries have no way forward but to except each other. Long live peace in South Asia.
Just as we discover India murdered 20,000 people in Kashmir, we should be all lovy-dovy?
Nicely written article.
I believe that if both governments and media play positive role to bring peace in region and maintain atleasttttttttt "Working Relations"...even then it will a blessing for people of this region. I am not using word FRIENDSHIP...only wishing least i.e. Working Relations.
I wish all the best for the people of South Asia. Good luck and I'm optimistic that soon we will be living like many other neighboring countries. If big enemies of the history, Britan and France, can live peacefully for the sake of peace, why not Pakistan and India?
India stole Kashmir. India cannot pose as s peace seeker and at the same time also insist on keeping what it stole. We are ready for the long haul.
Im glad that Kuldip sahib has accepted the prejudice Indian media has for Pakistan " Most newspapers and TV networks suffer from prejudice against Pakistan, which they have had for years."
Very well written Sir. While I fear our numbers are not large, there are numerous Pakistanis who want to build a lasting friendship.
"... The media on the Indian side was once again caught napping. For it, thousands of people shouting for peace and thousands from the other side lending their voice to the demand for friendship does not make news. ... "
Respected Kuldipji, this very statement of yours lays out the reality. Media does not spend time on things that do not interest people. Indian people have no appetite for closer integration of any sort with Pakistan. Our value systems are totally different. And I am sure, the sentiment is echoed by the majority across the border.
Left wing lunatics who have no regard to culture and national identity or the nation state DO NOT speak for the rest, and must not be allowed to dictate turn of events. And that goes for you too, dear author.