The real challenges for any couple begins a few months into their relationship, when the so-called ‘honeymoon phase’ begins to wear off. Everyone has problems that need to be solved. Things are said out of anger, jealousy and frustration. But at the end of the day, what matters is that you love the one you are with.
Thus, It is important to stick around through ups and downs, the good and bad. Isn’t that what a relationship is all about? So as compiled from Pinkvilla, here are six tips you can use if are in it for the long haul.
1. Talk about your feelings
No matter how difficult it may feel to express your deepest thoughts, it is important to channel out your energy and express all kinds of emotions in a relationship with your partner. Doing so gives you a perspective and will make you feel lighter thereafter.
2. Be honest about your intentions
It is better to be clear about your intentions at the beginning of a relationship so that the other person is aware of their expectations and knows how to deal with it. Instead of playing mind games and giving the silent treatment, opt for honesty and trust your partner they will do you right.
3. Give them space
When you are with your partner 24x7, it gets a bit frustrating. You have more fights, there is no chemistry left and there are only arguments about small things that don’t matter in the bigger picture. Hence, it is better to give each other space and time.
4. Stick to your decisions
This is an important step for anyone who is in a long term relationship. Making big decisions and sticking to them is the biggest challenge. When you say something without thinking twice or make false promises, it often leads to disappointment and resentment. It is essential to stick to your decisions, whether your partner is in favour of them or not as it avoids giving them false hope or leading them on. Don’t go back and forth; be clear and concise with your intentions.
5. Choose to express and communicate
Communication is key for a happy relationship. Being vulnerable is not a taboo; it is good to express your feelings as this implies that you care about your partner.
6. Have faith
At last, with everything said and done, it is important to have faith and not be scared to commit. Take a leap of faith for the right person and hold your ground as this shows signs of maturity and stability.
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