Strict laws might help to overcome the situation by curtailing the amount of spending that takes place during weddings
ISLAMABAD: In Pakistan, weddings are associated with overly extravagant events. Even though such events may be pointless, the mindset of having fancy events have permeated the lower-middle class. It is observed that nowadays people prefer signature makeup, branded dresses and a huge buffet of food. Now let’s be honest, those struggling to survive are not able to afford such luxurious events. What happens then is that families save all their lives just for this occasion or are forced to take loans in order to meet societal pressures and needs. This has created a toxic culture in Pakistan where bridal dresses, jewellery and photography cost a fortune. Why can’t people understand that this is something that cannot be used again. It is necessary to stop this bad practice, and because of emerging trends such show-offs are adopted by those who cannot even afford them. It is high time we changed our attitude and adopted a more practical approach. The media can play a vital role on educating the people. However, the media is doing the exact opposite. It is important that the media should adopt some code of ethics rather than promoting a materialistic approach. The government should also play a role in discouraging such practices by inspiring people to adopt a realistic approach towards these unnecessary marriage functions. Strict laws might help to overcome the situation by curtailing the amount of spending that takes place during weddings.
Hadia Aziz
Published in The Express Tribune, February 20th, 2020.
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