Anguished in Afghanistan

A Pakistani businessman caught in the Kabul crossfire narrates the hatred Afghans have for Pakistanis.


Amber Darr July 19, 2011
Anguished in Afghanistan

Around 10 pm on June 28, Umar Rafi stood waiting for his car in the parking lot of Hotel Intercontinental in Kabul. Umar, an executive in an Islamabad-based multinational, had arrived in Kabul with his marketing team earlier that morning and was now looking forward to the comfort of his room at the Serena, which was nearby. Just as his car drove up, Umar heard the sound of shots being fired. Next thing he knew, bullets, rockets and grenades were flying around him.

The news of the attack made headlines the next morning. We were informed that in the battle that had lasted nearly four hours and had come to an end only when Nato troops intervened, at least seven people were killed and three terrorists had blown themselves up. Although the media reported a sense of chaos and panic, no one picked up on the fact that even at a time when the only thoughts, for the Afghan forces at least, should have been the security of the hotel and the safety of guests, the latent tensions between Afghanistan and Pakistan managed not only to rear their ugly head but also to threaten the life of at least one unsuspecting Pakistani.

I met Umar a few days after he returned to Pakistan. His appearance at that time was more harrowing than his story. When I asked him what was the one thing about his ordeal that he would always remember, he replied simply: That the Afghans hate us!

I was struck and intrigued by his answer. He told me that in the confusion following the attack, he had been separated from his Farsi-speaking colleagues. Alone and afraid, he crawled nearly 100 meters on his stomach amid shelled cars and corpses, finally taking refuge under an old Corolla. It was dark and he could not see much. Umar closed his eyes and recited the Kalima, believing that this was the end.

However, it was the security forces and not the terrorists that discovered Umar. Thinking himself to be safe, he told them that he was a Pakistani. It appears that was a mistake. The officers immediately pinned him to the ground, stole his dollars and his cell phone and would not release him despite the shouted explanations of his Farsi-speaking colleagues who had managed to escape the compound.

After several minutes of this torture, a vehicle arrived to take away some injured Afghanis. The official detaining Umar, perhaps finally taking pity on him, told him to make a run for it. Although he was afraid that he would be shot if he did run, Umar decided to take the risk and nearly collapsed when he made it to the van.

He passed a difficult night without any medical aid, but in the morning luck favoured him and he ran into the Pakistani ambassador and the foreign secretary in the hotel lobby. When he told them what he had been through they not only arranged medical care for him but also promised to take up, at the highest level, the treatment meted out to him by the Afghan security officials. It was an off the record remark by a Pakistani official that was perhaps most telling: We are paying for having supported Pakhtuns and the Taliban especially now that the Farsi-speaking are back in power! When will we learn, I wonder?

Published in The Express Tribune, July 20th, 2011.

COMMENTS (25)

Nabeel | 13 years ago | Reply I fail to see how the attitude of one group of Tajik/Uzbek, either way numerically inferior groups in Afghanistan, can represent the rank and file of the Afghans? Channel 4 news recently showed a documentary on UK troops in southern Afghanistan and the picture there was portrayed as completely different. UK/NATO/US troops were the ones the villagers hated and openly supported the Taliban. Here in the UK, the Pashtun Afghans openly live and intermingle with the Pakistani community - always claiming to be part of 'us', all of us are the same, brothers and sisters etc. (BTW 'Us' = Pakistanis) Not surprisingly, the non-Pushtuns are the ones who do not consider the UK-Pakistanis as friends or even socialise with us - they are lost in their own world - could this be a mirror of the ground swell opinion in their own homeland?
M. Siddiq | 13 years ago | Reply

It is over eight years now since I have been working in Afghanistan. my projects are mostly in the Tajik and Hazara country where i enjoy a very good relationship with the locals. I don't remember feeling insulted by anyone in these areas during the last eight years. they do some times complain through, when GoP openly pushes for a dialogue with Taliban, but with the Pashtoons it is an entirely different story. I always face a very hostile and discriminatory attitude from Pashtoon in Kabul or on the way through Torkhum to Peshawar, if I ever travel there, which i rarely do the last three years now.

There are two very visible signs of this hatred you can feel while traveling in Afghanistan and without talking to people.

First is at the Torkhum-Jalabad road built by FWO. Pakistani flag and the word Pakistan is painted black on every single signboard or are broken.

Second is the hundreds of busses that Pakistan donated to Afghanistan a couple of years back. these buses where bearing the flag of Pakistan and Afghanistan on both sides with a goodwill message of "Long Live Pakistan- Afghanistan Friendship" in the Pashstoon regions the Pakistani flag and the word Pakistan is washed with paint but if you go to Bamyan all the buses carry the goodwill message where ever they go.

I agree with the comment! when will we learn?

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