KARACHI:
There was a time when grandparents and other elders were not just family members but also teachers, mentors and protectors for children. Through their love, experience and guidance, they taught children moral values, respect, responsibility, patience and religious principles. Parents also felt reassured that their children were growing up in a safe and positive environment. Family members used to sit together, share meals, discuss their lives and support each other during difficult times, creating an atmosphere of love, trust and blessings.
In the past, people were also more connected with nature. Waking up early, engaging in physical activities, spending time outdoors and living closely with family members were part of daily life. This lifestyle contributed to better physical health, mental peace and stronger family relationships.
However, today the situation has changed significantly. Joint families have gradually disappeared, and modern lifestyles, excessive use of mobile phones and social media have created distance even among people living under the same roof. Parents are often occupied with their routines and digital devices, making it difficult for them to provide quality time and attention to their children. At the same time, elderly family members, who were once considered the strength of a household, are now facing loneliness, neglect, and emotional stress.
When children do not receive enough love, guidance, communication and emotional support at home, they often search for acceptance elsewhere. This emotional gap can sometimes lead them towards negative influences, including unhealthy friendships, substance abuse, violence and other harmful activities. This is not only a problem for individual families but also a concern for the future of our entire society, as today’s children will become tomorrow’s citizens and leaders.
If we want to build a safe, responsible and morally strong society, we must benefit from modern technology while also preserving our family traditions and values. Respecting and involving elders, spending meaningful time with children, limiting unnecessary mobile phone use and creating an environment of communication and affection at home are the needs of the present time. If we fail to strengthen our family foundations today, future generations may lose the support, guidance, and strong relationships that are essential for a healthy society.
Ujala Gill
Karachi
