KARACHI:
Even though Islam prohibits dowry, the practice is persistent in our society and leads to financial constraints, emotional trauma and violence against women who fail to meet excessive dowry demands. Dowry also creates socioeconomic disparities. Both federal and provincial governments have passed several bills that strictly prohibit dowry, yet people continue demanding dowries from brides’ families.
High illiteracy among the people and conservative norms have allowed such practices to continue. Many families wrongly believe that giving dowries to their daughters will secure their futures. But it does more harm than good. Rising inflation and dwindling purchasing power have led to increased demands for dowry as well as raised challenges for girls’ families. The prevalence of dowry fosters a culture where daughters are seen as burdens. Their education is neglected, and they have few opportunities for personal growth as parents prioritise saving money for their dowries. Yet, many girls are left unmarried if their parents fail to meet dowry demands.
The government needs to address this menace by imposing strict legal measures to deter people from giving and taking dowries. Those involved in dowry-related offences should be penalised. Laws should be designed to protect the rights of women and create a safe environment for them. Government should create rehabilitation centres and toll-free numbers and organisations for women to report instances of dowry harassment or violence. It is our collective responsibility to raise awareness, challenge this regressive custom, and strive for a society that respects the dignity, autonomy, and rights of every individual.
Faree Hoor
Lahore
Published in The Express Tribune, June 25th, 2023.
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