Saaen to saeen, let the Mohajir also be saeen!

Someone cracked a Sindhi joke and suddenly, all hell broke loose: “Say that to my face jaahil!” she yelled.

Meiryum Ali July 25, 2012
A bunch of the loudest possible 15-year-olds had crowded a tiny fro-yo eatery. As one of them cracked a Pathan joke, on a table next to them, my four friends and I immediately turned our heads to gauge the reaction of our own Pathan friend.
“Dude, he just cracked a Pathan joke!” she yelled.

“Mashal, you’ve never even been up North and you know like five Pushto words. So calm down,” commented my Sindhi friend Noor.

But two minutes later, the same bunch cracked a Sindhi joke and suddenly, she stood up and all hell broke loose:
“Say that to my face jaahil!”

We couldn’t stop laughing at both girls’ hypersensitivity.

Ethnicity usually has no part to play in our lives, though we are quite a diverse group of friends: a Sindhi, a Pathan, a Memon, and a half-Mohajir-quarter-Punjabi-quarter-Pathan.  Rounding up this “Karachi only” mix of 18-year-olds' is me – completely, boringly Urdu-speaking, or a Mohajir. That was when I realised I was not a part of what happened in the fro-yo place.

No one cracked a Mohajir joke (do those exist?), and even if they had, my reaction wouldn’t have been that strong. If someone asks me if I’m Mohajir, I immediately respond with 'yes, my grandparents migrated from India'.

Strictly speaking, I am not a Mohajir and to call me “Urdu-speaking” is even weirder, considering everyone around me is technically speaking Urdu; or for that matter my friends may qualify as “English speaking”. I don’t have a place to go to “up north” or rural Sindh. My roots lie across the border, limited to sporadic bouts of nostalgia from my grandmother. The sense of place is missing.

Maybe the fact that “Waderai ka Beta” is a catchy tune, or that my best friend happens to be a hardcore Sindhi, but for the first time in my life I don’t want to be a boring, confused, Mohajir: I want to be a saeen. Forget saeen, I want to have something: an ethnicity, a province to call my own, some patch of land that existed before Pakistan.

I want to know an Ali Gul Pir, I want to correctly sing Punjabi songs, I want to understand what Pushto TV is saying, and I want to scream “Jeay Baloch” for no reason at all. I want to be an ethnicity, not as my Pathan friend put it, “a member of the Muttahida Qaumi Movement’s voting bank”.

But to be part of an ethnicity, you need to figure out what that means to you. And the 18-year-olds in this country, even the hypersensitive ones, have no idea. Maybe I’m just imagining this great pull towards 'who we are'.

Is it because we’re urban, as we live in Karachi you know, melting pot and other big city clichés? Or maybe it’s because I’m talking to the wrong people? The more I read about Karachi being divided along ethnic lines, the more I realise how sheltered my friends and I are from our own ethnicity.

Growing up, we’re told it doesn’t matter – even if in some parts of the country it really does. And I realise that my own culture is simply mainstream Pakistani culture, Urdu and English and everything in between. Until I visit my Sindhi friend’s house and her younger sister comes running to me. “Ma char saal ji aayan!” she squeals, showing me four fingers.

For you kiddo,
saeen toh saeen, saeen kay mohajir dost bhi saeen.

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WRITTEN BY:
Meiryum Ali A freshman at an ivy league school who writes a weekly national column in The Express Tribune called "Khayaban-e-Nowhere".
The views expressed by the writer and the reader comments do not necassarily reflect the views and policies of the Express Tribune.

COMMENTS (86)

Momo Jackson | 8 years ago | Reply I have never faced any prejudice by Punjabis even though i am an urdu speaking living in Lahore. Punjabis are outspoken yes, but that don't count as prejudice when u see them talk about their own people. Thats their style. Karachiites are prejudiced! Calling Lahoris or Islamabadians as PUNJABIS? WTH!? Its like a mini India down in Karachi. I ask the writer and everyone else, stop moaning and get out of this mind frame. We are Pakistanis We have to learn to be tolerant. We need to respect cultures within our borders. Lame article, just a way to vent out prejudicial trash at the rest of Pakistan.
Bilawal Tunio | 8 years ago | Reply Sami Malik /So in my view the place where you are born and raised is a place from where you belong to. A Muhajir identity should be ended with time and ways and means must be developed for proper integration/ What a hilarious POV! Proper integration? Urdu Speakers are the extremely well integrated in Karachi, heck they are the majority. Its the Sindhis, Balochis and Pathans who live in peripheral ghettos and need integration into the cosmopolitan urban society of Karachi. And why would Urdu speakers adapt Sindhi culture btw, when Karachi historically, ethnically, linguistically and culturally has never been a Sindhi city but always an Anglo-indian one. Karachi has always been more closer to Bombay rather than rural Sindh.
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