Battleground Facebook: The right way to deal with Muslim bashers

Encouraging friends to "block" hateful pages on Facebook en masse is a futile effort - we are just spreading the hate.

Amna Mela December 20, 2010
In the world we live in, Mark Zuckerberg is ‘Person Of The Year’ and slacktivists can click a button to soldier on for a cause. Gone are the days of long marches, debates, writing letters to leaders or newspapers, or mobilizing petitions. Now it’s all about the ‘like’ and ‘share’ buttons.

Every now and then when I log on to Facebook, I see messages saying:
“Delete this page - Islam expletive Allah obscene language Muhammad (PBUH) offensive remark”

Unless you’re a kindergartner, your brain processes words as fast as your eyes see them. Every time someone joins these groups, I automatically end up reading the hate-speech which I would otherwise try to avoid. I find myself clenching my fists with frustration. Making such groups which contain the same obscenities and ranting is only propagating them.

I’m disgusted by those pages as much as anyone else is. But to try and mobilize our entire country against a random Facebook user is almost as ridiculous and futile as the page itself. I say futile because no Facebook page or cartoon could ever weaken Islam, or harm God in any way.

When a bully manages to make the weaker kid in class cry, does that make him stop? There are better ways to make people change their minds about Islam than loudly protesting.

Protesting peacefully

When Pamela Geller dubbed the “queen of Muslim bashers”  started a bus campaign deliberately designed to spread Islamophobia by touting the words “Leaving Islam? Fatwa on your head? Is your family threatening you?”, the Muslims of Chicago and New York didn’t take to the streets to burn effigies or shout slogans as we sometimes do in Pakistan. They donated funds for a rival bus and for another site, which is designed to educate people who are curious about Islam and to correct them about misinformation that people like Pamela Geller, Glenn Beck, and Ayaan Hirsi Ali spread.

Yelling isn't the solution

Maybe we’re used to raising our voices to get what we want. Spoiled children get what they want at home by throwing a fit, but that doesn’t work in the classroom. In Pakistan, yelling solves problems with tailors and servants. Even the kids that talk louder and get angrier during debate competitions are the ones that win, but yelling to get what we want will never work when dealing with people in other countries.

People who share these offensive groups not only fail to realize that what they’re doing annoys others, they are also helping the people who created these hate pages. By all means report them (even though when the entire country was in furor recently over a page all Facebook did was block us from viewing it in Pakistan - not delete it). But please send a message to all of your friends with a warning, just so they’re mentally prepared before reading hate speech. Better yet, be productive instead and try making a page without expletives, one that explains why Islam is the religion of peace.

Matthew Inman of The Oatmeal fame made a post to educate people on Facebook about habits that will get you ‘de-friended’. But even if the Quiz Taker, The Horrible Photo Tagger, or the Desperate Marketer won’t be able to stop themselves, maybe they’ll feel a twinge of embarrassment before they hit the ‘share’ button next time. I’m hoping the sharers of expletives against Islam on Facebook do the same. I’d rather not read that, thanks! Now you know.
Amna Mela A student at Allama Iqbal Medical College whose interests include literature, journalism, pop culture, politics, fashion, human rights, food and travel.
The views expressed by the writer and the reader comments do not necassarily reflect the views and policies of the Express Tribune.


Abdul-Mughis Rana | 13 years ago | Reply @ Harry These days there is an activity going on internationally to put Muslims in line of fire ultimately trying to put Islam! Islam and humanity are like an example of an elephant and a group of blinds, someone touched the tail, 2nd one felt the leg, 3rd touched the abdomen, 4th touched the trunk and the last one touched the tusks.The caretaker of elephant asked them how did you all found the elephant like? The gentleman who touched the tail commented like a rope, 2nd who touched the leg said like a pillar, 3rd who got abdomen said like a mountain, 4th like a hose and 5th one commented pointed! So you see, if you want a true experience there is nothing like experiencing from inside rather than just the outlook. Its our belief that all Prophets (peace be upon them) from first human and Prophet Adam (peace be upon him) to Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) all were Prophets of ALLAH (God) the most merciful details are available in Islamic centers in your area but life you me we all have to develop to present the same to ALLAH SWT. May ALLAH SWT guides us all. Aameen!
harry | 13 years ago | Reply I'm familiar with Pam Geller though I have not read her much. In my life I have met several Muslim people. They were open and able to discuss religous ideas and philophy without taking any offence to where we differed in opinions. Unfortunately to many acts around the world carried out by Muslims can only taint the how those of differering beliefs view Islam. In Pakistan, the blashemphy law is being used to incrimate both infidel and Muslim; the only way to grasp that activity is to believe that small selfish and self serving individuals are using a Sharia law for thier own benefit. The bombings, threats and killings of christians in Iraq and Egypt don`t help the cause. The attempted Christmas period bombings in Portland, Oregon and Baltimore, Maryland and Sweden cannot give a positive light on the Islamic religion. Christianity went through a period where evil men used the authority and influence of the christian belief to enforce thier petty views for thier own selfish satisfaction. They manipulated and used others in their selfish and vain pursuits. Unfortunately I see much of this happening in the Islamic religion today. People abused others using the influence of the church, they did so against the teachings of Christ, taking their justifications out of the context of the verses or time. As the bible was translated and printed in the language of each culture, more people began to rise up against the abuse of these types of individuals. The Islamist carrying out the bombings and killings are claiming that their orders superside time and culture. How then do moderate Muslims plan to stop these kinds of activities that tarnish the worldview others would have of Islam?
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