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“I want to establish my business elsewhere. I also want my children to be educated on modern lines.”
BUNER: Dilshad describes his life before the brutal Taliban insurgency in Buner as heaven. At the age of 30, he is the father of eight children and was the owner of a well-established salon in the Pir-Abai area of Buner district, an adjacent village to Sultanwas.
Although struck down by paralysis at the age of 15, Dilshad did not lose heart. He learnt the craft of hairstyling from Karachi and became an adept professional. In fact, famous for his stylish hair-cuts, Dilshad even attracted customers from afar.
“I had a love marriage and life for me was a heaven with my eight children. I would earn up to Rs800 per day from my business,” he recalled. “But life turned into hell for me ever since the Taliban appeared in Sultanwas.”
Under the Taliban rule in Swat and Buner, shaving off beards and ‘English’ hair-styles were strictly prohibited. Since then, the barbers association in Swat announced to follow the Taliban’s strictures to escape severe punishments. Many even quit the profession and started other jobs to earn livelihoods without the fear of being executed. “Only sharia hair-styles were allowed. I received three threatening letters from the Taliban to follow their rules in my profession,” Dilshad, prone to cracking jokes, said.
One day a group of five to six masked men entered his shop and searched his premises, but they were unable to find any prohibited tools. “With the blessings of God, I escaped their punishment.”
According to Dilshad, this was the toughest time for him when he felt suffocated and terrorised. When the Taliban’s intervention increased, the owner of building in which his shop was located threw him out and he was rendered jobless.
“Out of compulsion, I started to (work as a manual) labour but the work was not regular and so was earnings, so I opened a shop in which I worked according to their (Taliban) rules. But that, too, was hit by a mortar shell and my only source of income was lost,” he shared.
When the insurgency came to an end, Dilshad returned home with his family but a return to his profession seemed bleak because he did not have a shop or the required material. However, he still did not lose heart and strive hard.
“I started my profession as a mobile barber working in the streets. Then, the workers of the Sarhad Rural Support Programme (SRSP) enlisted me in their programme.”
Under the United Nation Development Programme, which provides grants and training to conflict-stricken communities of Swat and Buner districts to restore their livelihoods, Dilshad was trained for basic and advance enterprise. “After getting the training, I was provided a grant of Rs30,000, which enabled me to open a shop in the Kandaw area of Buner.”
Four of his children, who had given up education because of poverty, have re-started going to schools.
“I can now earn up to Rs400 a day with which I am satisfied. I hope my income will grow in time,” Dilshad, who is used to whistle tunes of popular songs while working, said.
His shop is crowded with young and old people alike.
He, now, only has two desires: “I want to establish my business elsewhere. I also want my children to be educated on modern lines.”
Till then, Dilshad remains a popular character, taking one stride at a time to get his life back on track.
Published in The Express Tribune, February 28th, 2011.
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There is no such thing as Shariah Haircut. Contrary to popular belief, beards are trimmed to fist length so there is no restriction for anyone to become a barber and make living.Recommend
A profession considered low in our society, Dilshad a barber has dream, we pray for him and say bravo to UNDPRecommend
Alhamdulillah…life is getting back to normal for many in KP…TTP and their affiliates shall soon be a chapter in historyRecommend
Thanks to many stakeholders that finally life got back for poor dilshaad. But what we required is that, we must focus on our social fabrication and make it such a strong that no one could dare to intervene to it.Recommend
These religious barabrians want to take us back to the seventh century.These people have a romanticised vision of a utopia that never existed.They hide their misogyny & extreme desire to keep women as their personal property,to make all the decisions for the women in their family.
These savages have the tacit support of a large portion of our population who cant accept women as equal humans ,equally capable of working as surgeons,professors,scientists,pilots or CEO’s.
It’s the misogynistic mindset that has to be changed.killing a few of these savages won’t solve the problem.Their are lakhs of these barbarians being brainwashed in madrassas everyday.Recommend
they are now the part of history and past.Recommend
He was partly disabled and had limited education and income. WHY DID HE have 8 children?
I am sick of hearing heart rendering stories of persons who are struggling with large families. He shouldn’t have had more than 1 kid. Common sense and a sense of responsibility is lacking. Can anybody explain this?Recommend
@Ajay:
Yeah, I can explain this to you. What’s your country’s Population? What? I did not hear it!!!!! Louder.. louder… Yes. I got it now.. 1.2 Billion people? Right? Can anybody explain that to me ? Why? What happened to the common sense there? Go and search the answer in your own country. I am sure you will find families double the size of Dilshad’s family in your own country. We don’t have time to remove your Surprises.Recommend
Sharia Haircuts? These blasphemous Mullahs have made a mockery of IslamRecommend
People in the rural areas are with no education and awareness, they do not understand this matterRecommend
@G Khan,
India is growing at 9.2% for the last 7 years average and their population is growing at 2.2% which is just above the replacement mark.
Let’s talk about pakistan. We are growing at 3% and population is growing at 3.9%. Yu are able to feed the people coming out of the womb. Stop trying to do equal equal rhetoric with India. We are begging everyday and they are giving aid of $1.8 bn to Afghanistan.
Why the hell he needs to have 8 kids? Who will educate them and feed them? Why my tax money needs to go to this idiot.Recommend
Dilshad is a human being and belongs to the 70% of the people of Pakistan who have meagre access to education, health and resources to live a decent life. What does the poor man know of the consequences of a large family in the present state of the world in general and Pakistan in particular?
Those of us who are fortunate and enlightened MUST awaken and make an effort to guide and help and educate such people. We must change our own mindset, and realise that we CAN MAKE a difference in bringing an awareness, amongst those who dont know, about the dangers of a large family in this day and age.
As to his being rehabilitated now, thanks to the UNDP for the funding, and to the staff of SRSP who identified and helped him back on his feet.
I am 100% sure that if his children get a decent education they will have a quarter of the number of children their parents had.Recommend
@Ehsan: you are right Mr. Ehsan Ullah KhanRecommend
this is not only one case but thousands of such cases are there. they should be exploredRecommend