Before you say ‘qubool hai’

Published: August 23, 2010
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New amendments to the nikahnama prompt debate on whether couples should get themselves tested for genetic blood disorders before marrying

New amendments to the nikahnama prompt debate on whether couples should get themselves tested for genetic blood disorders before marrying

When five-year-old Affifa goes to school she carries more than the burden of books on her shoulders. “My daughter was diagnosed with Thalassaemia, a blood disorder, at the age of three,” says Wajahat Ayaz, who works as an engineer at a leading power company in Karachi.

Affifa’s problems are compounded not only by the fact that her body generates an abnormal form of haemoglobin cells, but also by her rare blood group, known as the Bombay blood type. According to Dr Saqib H Ansari, chief of the Thalassaemia programme at the National Institute of Blood Diseases, there are only seven known donors in the country who share this blood group. “Patients like Affifa survive on blood transfusions, but it becomes a huge problem when one has a rare blood group because one can’t find matching donors,” Ansari says.

However, the little girl is lucky for now. Nuzhat, a woman of 40, is providing crucial life support for Affifa. “I will donate my blood to her as long as I live,” says Nuzhat. But what will happen after that?

Ayaz, who earns around Rs30,000 a month and spends close to Rs10,000 of that on monthly treatments for his daughter, says he can only pray that a miracle like Nuzhat will be around. However, that’s not the issue which torments him each day.

“If only I knew that we, the parents, would be the cause of her illness,” laments Ayaz, without saying anything about what he would have done had he known this fact beforehand.

Thalassaemia is a genetic blood disorder which a child inherits from their parents. “If both parents are Thalassaemia minor — that is, they carry the disease but it is not active in their system — there is a 25 per cent chance that their child will be a Thalassaemia major — an active patient –a 50 per cent chance that she will be a Thalassaemia minor and a 25 per cent chance that everything will be normal,” says Ayesha Mehmood, the spokesperson for the Fight Against Thalassaemia (FAiTh). Also, if a Thalassaemia minor’s partner is normal, their children, in all likelihood, will be born free of the disorder.

initiatives

Ayaz supports recent initiatives taken in certain provincial assemblies regarding the nikahnama law that advocates testing for blood disorders like Thalassaemia, Hepatitis C and HIV/AIDS in couples before they marry. He suggests the government should make it mandatory to mention blood types on national identity cards so that potential donors can be identified.

But so far the Khyber Pakhtunkhwa provincial assembly is the only legislative body which has passed a bill making it mandatory for couples to carry out Thalassaemia and Hepatitis C tests before the marriage takes place. The law does not ban couples from getting married if they find out they are both, for example, Thalassaemia minor carriers, but it gives them the advantage of knowing what they’re getting into. Meanwhile, the Sindh Assembly has to date only passed a resolution urging the federal government to consider making such tests compulsory.

On July 08, 2010, the Punjab government’s Local Government and Community Development Department proposed eight amendments to the nikahnama law; these included complete medical check-up reports prior to marriage. However, the amendments were criticised because of the caveat that the nikahnama document must also be signed by the parents of the consenting adults and were consequently withdrawn.

Member of the National Assembly Sherry Rehman has strongly criticised the Punjab government’s move. Rehman fears the measure might increase the number of forced marriages in the country. “Having parents sign the nikahnama would have meant the return of the wali system for women. The Lahore High Court has a ruling against it,” she says. She added, however, that she was all for testing couples for disorders before marriage and would strongly advocate such a bill.

Meanwhile, Masood Alam, who is about to get married this year, voices another concern. He says that even if blood testing before marriage becomes federal law, it would be hard to convince families that it is a healthy measure. “I and my fiancée may agree, but our families might not want us to get tested because of social pressure and superstition,” Alam says.

Even Nuzhat, Affifa’s donor, says that girls in Pakistan already face a lot of problems getting married and the proposed changes to the nikahnama law may become an added hurdle.

Dr Ansari proposes a solution. “We can follow the Iran model, where the man is asked to get tested first,” he says, adding that the woman only need be tested if the man is found to be suffering from, for example, Thalassaemia minor.

Also, families can be convinced about the benefits of testing with a little persuasion, says Shahzad Shah, who married in 2009 and got himself and his fiancée tested before marriage. “After we told our families about the advantages, they themselves took us to get our blood tests done,” Shah says. He adds that today he is a proud father and his daughter has no genetic blood disorder.

Religious scholars say that while conducting blood tests is not a necessity before marriage, according to Shariah law there is no harm in doing so. Darul Uloom Karachi’s Mufti Asghar Rabbani and Jafferia Alliance’s Maulana Sheikh Hasan Salahuddin say tests can help identify problems that an unborn child might face, because in the end, the child has to suffer the consequences.

Published in The Express Tribune, August 22nd, 2010.

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Reader Comments (6)

  • Aug 23, 2010 - 1:50PM

    Gr8 postRecommend

  • Aug 23, 2010 - 2:42PM

    i like the title (Before you say ‘qubool hai’) :)Recommend

  • Aug 23, 2010 - 3:18PM

    Dear writers,

    You have brilliantly spoke the truth and this article is an eye-opener for the people who are so much against blood test before marriage, I appreciate the efforts behind this article, I alone can’t make much difference while WE together can.

    inshaAllah am very hopeful soon every single person would accept the importance of this test and will get tested! :)

    Thank you again for writing on this topic, we need to drag more people in this :), keep spreading awareness!

    “There are two ways of spreading light; to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.”

    Best regards,
    Ayesha Mehmood
    Official Spokesperson
    FAiTh – Fight Against ThalassemiaRecommend

  • Ailia Zehra
    Aug 23, 2010 - 4:37PM

    It would certainly increase the number of forced marriages in the society.Recommend

  • Aug 23, 2010 - 4:38PM

    If any parent needs counselling for their thalassemic children, or guidance for treatment then they are welcome to contact me. My daughter has had two bone marrow transplants after having a very severe blood disorder requiring regular blood transfusions. I am also a strong advocate of having compulsory blood screening before marriage.
    See my related article (‘Marriage with Strings Attached’) here:
    http://www.jang.com.pk/thenews/nov2009-weekly/nos-22-11-2009/dia.htm#4Recommend

  • Fahd Bin Rashid
    Aug 24, 2010 - 5:01AM

    Salman & the other writers,

    Good work and i support the idea, there is no harm in getting tested. And the idea of a guy getting tested first is something which might fly because already the girls face a lot of social pressures here so they can be tested if it is a must.Recommend

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