Pakistan's very own apartheid

Being a liberal, I am proud that I am different, and quite clearly a minority in my country.

Neha Ansari April 06, 2011
I perceive myself to be liberal because I believe that I am a pluralist.

I am not an extremist in my political or religious views. I am proud that I am different — separate — and quite clearly a minority in my country. However, despite my so-called pluralism, I do not want to associate with those I call the ‘jaahils’ and the ‘fundos’ and in that sense I end up being disconnected from the mainstream.

Some readers may not like this but I will give the example of the burqa-clad mother of four who believes that she is pious and righteous, and that others who are not like her are not. She also believes, like most mothers, that she is doing the best she can for her children. She thinks she is different from the rest of the people who are not like her. She does not want her daughter to be like other young girls who she thinks are rowdy and strut about at shopping malls.

This separation, this unbelonging if you will, believing that you are different from the masses is at the root of our society’s problem. And it is called ‘firaaq’ – an Arabic word meaning separation or disunion. We disassociate ourselves from those we deem different (farq) and dwell in self-love and self-righteousness. Whether it be the ‘pious’ mother or the ‘liberal’ journalist, both are guilty of abomination and arrogance.

We limit ourselves to clothes, appearances and other surface details. But we do something more – we wallow in self-pity. We feel like we are alone in the battle of the mind and spirit. The pseudo liberals eschew the ones who do not act, think or dress like them. And the same goes for the ‘religious’ ones. This ‘firaaq’ is present also in the rich and the poor. Both feel the same contempt, self-pity and a grieved sense of distinction from each other.

And it doesn’t stop here. This phenomenon appears in our society in the form of schisms – and the nascent form is ‘rafz’ (or formal disunion) which then transforms into ‘fitna’ (or chaos). This is our very own apartheid and segregation.
WRITTEN BY:
Neha Ansari A sub-editor on the Karachi pages of The Express Tribune
The views expressed by the writer and the reader comments do not necassarily reflect the views and policies of the Express Tribune.

COMMENTS (44)

Mister X | 10 years ago | Reply Yet another badly written screed by white washed, west worshiping boot lickers, symptomatic of the irreligious secularist Pakistani elites. That's "pluralism" for you.
jssidhoo | 10 years ago | Reply @Moise: Most religions propagate love ,peace and tolerance . It is just the followers who are violent and intolerant history is full of such inhuman behavior . See what the Christians did to the Jews in WWII, what the Christians did to the Muslims in Bosnia, what we did to each other in 1947,what the Shias and Sunnis do to one another the list is endless. It would be a good thing if you did a comparative study of religions you will find there is good in all of them.You wrore ''good behavior towards other humans beings, Muslim or otherwise. It is the sole reason people converted not only in sub continent,'' regarding peaceful conversions during the Mughal period i dont know which history books you read but this is what Baba Bulle Shah has to say '' Na kahun tab ki nah kahun ab ki agar na hote Guru Gobind Singh to sunat hoti sab ki"
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