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Siachen tragedy: With hopes crushed, soldier’s widow seeks reason

Published: May 31, 2012

Sughran Bibi only has one question: What exactly did her husband die for. PHOTO: INP

DERA ISMAIL KHAN: Sughran Bibi lost her voice the moment she heard about the possible death of her husband, Muhammad Riaz.

With the radio blasting the news of the avalanche in Siachen and the entire house crying out her husband’s name, a stunned Sughran just fell to the ground.

But with her voice back, albeit weak, she only has one question: What exactly did her husband die for?

Married for only a year and a half, Riaz was one of the 129 soldiers and 11 civilians martyred when a glacier hit the Giari sector in Siachen where they were deployed on April 7, 2012.

Sughran, 25, hardly got to spend any time with Riaz. “I have lost all hope. Riaz is dead; we used to talk on the phone with each other once a week and now I don’t hear his voice at all,” she shared with The Express Tribune.

She is also five months pregnant with his child.

Now, every time a journalist visits her, she wants to know what the Siachen dispute is about and what her husband died for.

The morning after the radio broadcast, Riaz’s brother, Muhammad Tariq, contacted the telephone exchange set up in Giari, which confirmed that Riaz was on duty when the glacier hit. Riaz’s father, Allah Dad Khan, 66, is also devastated by the loss of his son, “a person of soft temper and kind hearted.” He added that he now constantly worries about the future of Sughran.

The family lives in a small mud house located on top of the Agaz Khel Mountains , near Dera Ismail khan.

Agaz Khel is a small village where people mostly earn a living through their cattle. “Sughran along with other members of the family used to take care of seven cows, and 19 goats.  She was so active but now she is in depression,” Allah Dad told The Express Tribune.

For Riaz’s mother Bakhturah Bibi, 62, she says she only finds peace in knowing that her other son is retiring from the army soon and will move back with them. “The void left by Riaz’s death will be filled by him,” she said, adding that learning of her son’s death nearly killed her.

Riaz joined Pakistan Army in 2005 and after training in Gilgit, he was sent to Wana, South Waziristan. He was also deployed in Liberia, before being shifted to Siachen.

With the voices of their loved-ones forever muted, many other victims’ family members, like Sughran, are now in search for another voice to tell them that their husbands, brothers, fathers or sons did not die in vain.

Martyred soldier Rashid
laid to rest

Meanwhile, one of the 140 martyred victims of the avalanche, 25-year-old Muhammad Rashid, was laid to rest in his village Pattan Sheir Khan, Palandri district of Azad Kashmir.

“The body of the martyred soldier arrived in his ancestral village where the he was laid to rest with full state military honour at about 12:30 am on Wednesday”, a police official said. The soldier left behind two children and a wife, Majid Hussain, Rashid’s close friend and neighbor told The Express Tribune.

“Rashid joined the army about seven years ago and was recently posted at Giari sector at Siachen,” said Hussain.

(WITH ADDITIONAL REPORTING BY OUR CORRESPONDENT IN MIRPUR)

Published in The Express Tribune, May 31st, 2012.

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Reader Comments (15)

  • pankaj
    May 31, 2012 - 9:15AM

    Reading is painful…my heartiest condolences to the victim families…

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  • citizen
    May 31, 2012 - 9:44AM

    such a terrible incident :( RIP soldiers

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  • May 31, 2012 - 9:49AM

    there death would be in vain if we, for whom they are sacrificing their lives doubt their purpose. So have faith and beileve and pray for the men who guard while we sleepRecommend

  • SUB
    May 31, 2012 - 11:11AM

    Nations live on the blood of the Martyrs. However giving away your dear one is no easy thing

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  • Not me
    May 31, 2012 - 11:14AM

    “The past is prophetic in that it asserts loudly that wars are poor chisels for carving out peaceful tomorrows.” — Martin Luther King, Jr.

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  • Raj
    May 31, 2012 - 11:21AM

    He is a Shaheed and Shaheeds never die. His Shahdat was for people like me who can surf the net without fear.

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  • Faesal
    May 31, 2012 - 11:23AM

    The men got shahadat in service of the nation. Please don’t try to reason why we are there. Everyone knows the purpose of having our men there. That area is highly strategic and cannot be lost to the enemy

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  • Uzair Javaid
    May 31, 2012 - 12:19PM

    I offer my deepest condolences and prayers for the families of those who lost their lives in this tragedy. May Allah give them the strength to overcome this loss. This is more than just valour, they stood in the line of death for the people of Pakistan

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  • Mudasar Ikram
    May 31, 2012 - 2:48PM

    Its time for all of us to give peace a chance. War is not a solution anymore.

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  • Imran Con
    May 31, 2012 - 3:52PM

    “But with her voice back, albeit weak, she only has one question: What exactly did her husband die for?”
    Someone’s ego. Sad but true.
    Though I can’t say it’s a rare thing with any military.
    …and I’m terrible with the whole sympathy thing. I’ll leave it alone rather than butcher it. It might seem right to say things to comfort her and anyone else in her position. But, the animosity towards the truth of it all is what it takes to change such situations. Without it things just start to pile up to the point where it’s too intimidating to take on for many and people look for a path that doesn’t require acknowledging it. Meaning, dealing with it is the last thing a person will choose to do.

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  • May 31, 2012 - 3:56PM

    The young widow of a soldier sought an answer. They are many questions to be answered by the Army in this total episode, but this is not the right time to raise those.

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  • Faisal
    Jun 1, 2012 - 11:47PM

    Those feeling so sorry should also tryn make a monetary contribution to the bereaved.

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  • Ahmed HM
    Jun 3, 2012 - 11:13AM

    When a person joins an army, he is ready to die at anytime. This can occur during training, this can be an accident during a helicopter crash, this can occur when trying to conduct rescue missions. What does ET wish to prove by putting the headline: Siachen tragedy: With hopes crushed, soldier’s widow seeks reason

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  • Ansari
    Jun 3, 2012 - 11:38AM

    We are allies with USA. India is our “favorite” state. All these soldiers, secuity missions, missles are for what reason after all? That guy died, like many dying daily in Drone attacks. Recommend

  • Jun 3, 2012 - 4:51PM

    Whether the Indian army did not move forward just because our 140 soldiers stand shivering there? Nothing happened even after our post fell vacant after avalanche.

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