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"My community will say you have not been able to control your daughter. This is my insult," Muhammad had told his wife.
OTTAWA: A Pakistani father and brother of a 16-year-old girl pleaded guilty in a Toronto courthouse to her 2007 murder for disobeying them, a court official said Wednesday.
Toronto taxi-driver Muhammad Parvez, 60, and tow-truck driver Waqas Parvez, 29, pleaded guilty to the murder of Aqsa Parvez in late 2007, and are to be sentenced to life in prison.
They must serve at least 18 years in prison before being eligible for parole, an Ontario Superior Court official told AFP.
According to a statement of agreed facts, Aqsa’s brother picked her up from a school bus stop in a Toronto suburb and took her home on December 10, 2007. There, her father strangled her to death.
“I killed my daughter,” he told a 911 operator, said court documents. Paramedics found her lying dead in her bed, blood running from her nose.
Muhammad’s wife, Anwar Jan, told the police that he had killed their youngest of eight children over her delinquent behavior.
“My community will say you have not been able to control your daughter. This is my insult,” Muhammad had told her, Anwar Jan told the police. “She is punished.”
The whole family was born in Pakistan and immigrated to Canada in two waves, in 1999 and in 2001.
Women in the family while living in Canada were still expected to dress “traditionally” and were financially dependent on the men in the family.
One year before her death, Aqsa complained of “conflict at home over cultural differences between living in Canada and back home,” said court files.
Her father had already chosen someone in Pakistan for her to marry, she told a school counselor. She also told her vice principal “that she no longer wanted to dress traditionally like the other women in her family and she did not wish to wear a hijab,” but feared her father.
After running away many times over several years, and a few family counseling sessions, her father relented and her mother took her shopping for Western clothes in September 2007.
But she continued to complain about not being given enough freedom at home, having to come home directly after school and not being permitted to get a part time job.
Aqsa was killed after multiple attempts by family members to persuade her to move back home.
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I remember hearing about Aqsa back in ’07. It’s incredibly sad and I can’t believe that people won’t just wake up and realize that it’s the 21st century and subjecting women to subordinate positions is degrading and disrespectful.Recommend
I always wondered how such stupid Pakistanis end up in places like USA and Canada. Their misconduct adds fodder to our current negative reputation all around the world.
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How on earth can you plant your family in a society with completely alien values and standards, and then expect your children not to be confused and resist the misplaced ‘traditional’ values you want to ram down their throats? How can people be so idiotic and so tragically myopic? I hope they live to regret their actions every single day in their cells, and to realize how wrong they were to think think they had the right to dictate whether she should live or die based on their own ignorant perceptions. Imagine that a father would murder his own daughter like that, over what is essentially a difference of opinion on how she wants to live her life. What about behaving like a real parent, with tolerance, acceptance and understanding? What about talking to your children, or getting to know them for who they are instead of expecting some impossible form of complete submission? Maybe if he had been a real father he would have been able to explain to his daughter why he would like her to live by certain values as opposed to others. He could have helped her find herself, not snuff out a life he helped create!
No wonder the world hates Muslims.Recommend