Educating the parents

The pressure to become a doctor or an engineer is often just based on social pressures


Muhammad Hamid Zaman January 25, 2016
The writer is a Howard Hughes Medical Institute professor of Biomedical Engineering, International Health and Medicine at Boston University. He tweets @mhzaman

When it comes to higher education in Pakistan, two fundamental ground realities need to be appreciated. First, there is a severe lack of understanding about what various disciplines mean, in terms of knowledge, career options and the potential impact on society. There is a substantial gap between the needs of society and adequate workforce present to address those challenges. Society as a whole does not understand what the role of numerous disciplines in shaping a better and a more sustainable future is.

The second fact, whether we like it or not, relates to the strong roles parents of students play in choosing their higher education paths. The pressure to become a doctor or an engineer is often not based on the thought, passion or ideas of the student. Instead, social pressures, ranging from persuasion to threats to coercion, dictate the choice. The result is a graduate who lacks passion, desire to innovate and the ability to make lasting contributions. In their defence, parents would argue that their decision comes from economic arguments and their experience. Yet, as economic realities of the world have evolved, so have education models. The insistence on pursuing particular degrees, and in institutions that have failed to evolve with time, does not create engaged citizens that society needs.

The parents of students, on the one hand, are unable to understand why we need to emphasise problem-based learning, open-ended questions and creative thought, and on the other, fail to appreciate the need for science students to understand history, ethics and tools in social sciences to become effective in their own disciplines. University education that takes the student into the foray of broad education, on written and oral expression, ethical decision-making and creative process and inquiry, are therefore met with deep suspicion. The irony is that what we offer the students is based largely on models developed in Europe a century ago, and the so-called creators of these narrow models of education shunned these approaches and moved on long ago.

Recognising that parental pressure comes with good intentions and is not going away anytime soon, the responsibility lies on the university to educate parents about why they are moving away from the tunnel-vision model of education and why this change is desperately needed. Universities have to educate the parents of prospective students through seminars, outreach, debates and discussions to illustrate why a graduate of a university, be it in the natural or social sciences, needs to be prepared to deal with complex issues of our time and be globally competitive, not just in core knowledge but also in understanding ethical, social, aesthetic and technical grand challenges of our time. The parents will, and rightfully so, be concerned about the career opportunities for their children. Here, the university should take a multi-pronged approach. First, the university should emphasise the need for knowledge and inquiry, not just information. Second, the university should also make a case that the sole purpose of going to a university, cannot, and should not, be to get a job. Instead, it is to enlighten the mind and the soul, to create a more mature, rational and engaged citizen. Third, the university should illustrate that modern society in Pakistan and on a global scale does not just need doctors and engineers, but professionals in a spectrum of disciplines, in social and natural sciences. Finally, perhaps the strongest argument the university should make is about innovation. A good graduate is not bound by the career options that already exist, but is ready to create one (or many) that bring out the best in him or her.

Engagement with parents is not just needed to break the mental silos of our time; it is also needed to bridge the gulf between academia and society. As the academics will engage with parents, they will also get to understand the socioeconomic challenges that are worthy of intellectual pursuit and inquiry. The university will then, hopefully, be able to get closer to its mission of creating a better society, and not just regurgitating what is already in the textbooks.

Published in The Express Tribune, January 26th,  2016.

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COMMENTS (3)

Jamal | 8 years ago | Reply This is so important and something that the universities absolutely need to do. Very very good job Zaman sahib.
Toti calling | 8 years ago | Reply I agree Parents must be encouraged if not trained to respect the wishes and attitudes of their children, be it for education choices or learning to be more democratic and make decisions based on both career possibilities and inclinations of children. I admit this is wishful thinking as our culture traditions do not change overnight. But it is good that people like Hamid Zaman write about it. I am sure some parents will rethink about the problem
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